paraplegics and sex

happeegrl03 happeegrl03
I'm so happy to see this forum here! I am a paraplegic from a car accident in 1984. I, luckily, can have a normal sex life and have all of the feeling still in tact in those areas However, i do have a lot of people that ask me if sex is possible. I don't mind the questions as it shows me they are just curious. I discovered the possibility of toys when i was 18 and am now a full blown toy addict. lol.
07/20/2010
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Jessica Elizabeth Jessica Elizabeth
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Originally posted by happeegrl03
I'm so happy to see this forum here! I am a paraplegic from a car accident in 1984. I, luckily, can have a normal sex life and have all of the feeling still in tact in those areas However, i do have a lot of people that ask me if sex is ... More
That's awesome! Thanks for sharing. Truth be told, I've always wondered that very thing lol
07/20/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
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Originally posted by happeegrl03
I'm so happy to see this forum here! I am a paraplegic from a car accident in 1984. I, luckily, can have a normal sex life and have all of the feeling still in tact in those areas However, i do have a lot of people that ask me if sex is ... More
You are one awesome woman! This is one of the main reasons I love the mentor program. I get to know individuals much more closely. I'm honored to have you as a student. Your reviews will be invaluable!
07/20/2010
happeegrl03 happeegrl03
thanks girls I always encourage people to ask me any questions they have. It's funny, when i was 15 and my parents found out i was sexually active their first question was "could you feel it?" lol. Talk about a strange experience for a 15 year old! I think my response was "mom!" lol
07/20/2010
Jul!a Jul!a
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Originally posted by happeegrl03
thanks girls I always encourage people to ask me any questions they have. It's funny, when i was 15 and my parents found out i was sexually active their first question was "could you feel it?" lol. Talk about a strange experience for a ... More
It's awesome that you're so open and willing to answer questions. I think you're going to make a great asset to the community, and I can't wait to see you around
07/20/2010
kck kck
Thank you so much for sharing! Way to be an empowering woman who is able to use circumstance to educate others and enjoy herself! Cheers
07/21/2010
happeegrl03 happeegrl03
kck.. excellent way to put it and you are right! I have always liked to educate people on paraplegics and sex.
07/21/2010
Laura Laura
Thanks for posting this thread! I have many friends and family who are disabled and have great sex lives, most also loving their toys. Some get very strange questions also about their sex lives, but most handle them openly and shamelessly, like you do. Oh, the tolerance... I don't know if I could do it.
Thanks again
07/21/2010
Gary Gary
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Originally posted by happeegrl03
thanks girls I always encourage people to ask me any questions they have. It's funny, when i was 15 and my parents found out i was sexually active their first question was "could you feel it?" lol. Talk about a strange experience for a ... More
"I always encourage people to ask me any questions they have" that is awesome!
07/21/2010
dibberdabber dibberdabber
Nice. My friend is paraplegic and has told me that he also gets the sex possibility questions. He is limited in his sensations but maintains a healthy sex life with his wife of 10 yrs. I must admit the curiousity was there for me to on that subject. I was always reluctact to ask, so I just waited on him to bring it up. Glad to see you are open to the questions and you will be an asset to the community.
07/21/2010
happeegrl03 happeegrl03
I am glad that, as a paraplegic, i am a woman. It is definately harder for men (no pun intended) that are paraplegic as far as sensations go. Never be afraid to ask someone a question, the only dumb question is one that is not asked.
07/21/2010
[[M@R!3]] [[M@R!3]]
I am glad that you are open enough to inform us all on how it is to be paraplegic & have a sex life. The other day I was watching an episode on TLC named "paraplegic & pregnant", I was extremely interested in learning more about people who are paraplegic given that I study in Special care counselling.

Thank-you for sharing your story!
10/15/2010
Sera Sera
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Originally posted by happeegrl03
thanks girls I always encourage people to ask me any questions they have. It's funny, when i was 15 and my parents found out i was sexually active their first question was "could you feel it?" lol. Talk about a strange experience for a ... More
When did you become a paraplegic?
10/17/2010
Freudsgirlfriend Freudsgirlfriend
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Originally posted by [[M@R!3]]
I am glad that you are open enough to inform us all on how it is to be paraplegic & have a sex life. The other day I was watching an episode on TLC named "paraplegic & pregnant", I was extremely interested in learning more about ... More
Interestingly, I'm a paraplegic and a counselor with a certification in sex therapy. Well and a complete toy/sex addict still with full feeling in my pink parts. How I understand it is there's two bundles of nerves (one sensory and the other movement) in the spinal cord. If I had to choose, I'd pick multiple orgasms over walking any day. Some people lose both parts which would be super hard to cope with.
01/27/2011
mistre$$ mistre$$
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Originally posted by happeegrl03
thanks girls I always encourage people to ask me any questions they have. It's funny, when i was 15 and my parents found out i was sexually active their first question was "could you feel it?" lol. Talk about a strange experience for a ... More
Ha. Wow.

Thanks for sharing your story.
09/23/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
wow, this is really inspiring! i've always secretly wondered about that; thanks for sharing!
09/23/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
Awesome story! I can't wait to see you around more often!
09/23/2011
sweetcaroline sweetcaroline
this makes me smile strong woman.
11/11/2011
happeegrl03 happeegrl03
I'm sorry. It has been a crazy and hectic year. I became a paraplegic from a car accident when i was 8.
01/18/2012
happeegrl03 happeegrl03
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Originally posted by Freudsgirlfriend
Interestingly, I'm a paraplegic and a counselor with a certification in sex therapy. Well and a complete toy/sex addict still with full feeling in my pink parts. How I understand it is there's two bundles of nerves (one sensory and the other ... More
wow. Very awesome to "meet" you. I have honestly never talked with another paraplegic woman about sex. I have heard about the two bundles of nerves as well. I agree with you, I would take the multiple orgasms any day as well! I think that God takes one thing and enhances another
01/18/2012
freda freda
Thanks for sharing
02/19/2012
Missmarc Missmarc
Thank you for posting all this
02/22/2012
jamiefun jamiefun
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Originally posted by happeegrl03
I'm so happy to see this forum here! I am a paraplegic from a car accident in 1984. I, luckily, can have a normal sex life and have all of the feeling still in tact in those areas However, i do have a lot of people that ask me if sex is ... More
Hello! I know def where you are coming from! I am a paraplegic as well a T5. I found this site an I must say im def addicted to these toys lol. I get asked the same question all the time it doesnt borther me either. unfortunately I dont have full feeling down there but still works lol. im glad to see another para on this site lol.
06/12/2012
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