Do you have any restrictions that you cannot do during sex or play time? How do you deal with that, knowing you may not ever be able to do something that you really want to do ?
Restrictions?
08/31/2010
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Yes, deffintily.
Originally posted by
sugarOne
Do you have any restrictions that you cannot do during sex or play time? How do you deal with that, knowing you may not ever be able to do something that you really want to do ?
Me and my husband use to have a fantastic sex life. I loved it. Sex was always in the shower usally I was up against the wall but sometimes on the bench thingy. He recently lost his leg and arm in the iraq war. Sex isnt the same. He still canot totally move, he also currently has ribs that are still healing from them being broken.
It can get boring so we of course have sex. We have always liked threesomes with our one friend. She can bend better then I can and she will have vaginal sex with him while I watch and masterbate, or will sit next to him were he can finger me or use a viberator on me while hes having sex with her. When shes not there he just fingers me and ile use toys on him. Unfortinitly even since I lost my virgintiy I never was able to give a blowjob without gaging.
Theres also alot more play with masterbators and handjobs. It takes alot longer for him to ejectulate, and longer for me to orgasm. Also with him having sex with her he uses a condom. Even though shes on birth control its better safe then sorry. Were as I never worried cause I was on the Depo shot and still am not fertile witch will take another year, so we havent used condoms in a few years. All three of use hate condoms and I find it alot less fun to watch with a condom but its something that we dont think twice about risking. He doesnt complain and he actually was first to say make sure you get condoms when me and my friend went to target that night. She was like I already was going to and ime like oh I thought the same. as She brought it up before without him in the room.
Its also frusterating when I have to put a extra blanket and some towls down because I squirt like crazy. Thats why we would have sex in the shower.
In the end the sex doesnt matter, what matters is hes alive. Ime lucky I got to push a man home from the hospital in a wheelchair and not carry a folded flag home from the cemetary. I am greatfull hes alive and ime with him. The orgasms may not be as good as to use to when it comes to the phisical feeling. Its really hard to explain but mentally I feel so much more when I watch him cum, its just so great were as before it was just normal. Now it means alot more for me to be able to be with him.
09/04/2010
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I will assume you are younger and in good health. Forget injuries, which most likely WILL happen, and other odd issues...the fact is, just AGE will change what you can and cannot do!!! We have been happily married for 31 years now...used to do all the crazy positions you could think of and a few you couldn't....but a LOT of those would be physically impossible now. Just physics!!! A sixteen year old gymnast can do splits all day long. Very few fifty year old's can...regardless of how good a shape they are in. How do you "deal with that"? You just do, since there is no choice. You either dwell on all you cannot do, and be miserable, or you be HAPPY with what you CAN do, and you ENJOY life. A diabetic cannot eat a bunch of sweets anymore. Some people cannot walk anymore...they too just go on with life, most of the time. You just make the best of what you have. That "SugarOne" is called life. You too will have to deal with a lot of "used to be able to's" as the years roll on.
Originally posted by
sugarOne
Do you have any restrictions that you cannot do during sex or play time? How do you deal with that, knowing you may not ever be able to do something that you really want to do ?
06/22/2011
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Thanks to your husband for his service to our nation and his "above and beyond" payment at the alter of freedom. Thank YOU for being such and amazing wife. That last line about having him home, regardless of condition, spoke to my heart. Bless you both.
Originally posted by
usmcwife99
Yes, deffintily.
Me and my husband use to have a fantastic sex life. I loved it. Sex was always in the shower usally I was up against the wall but sometimes on the bench thingy. He recently lost his leg and arm in the iraq war. Sex isnt the ... more
Me and my husband use to have a fantastic sex life. I loved it. Sex was always in the shower usally I was up against the wall but sometimes on the bench thingy. He recently lost his leg and arm in the iraq war. Sex isnt the ... more
Yes, deffintily.
Me and my husband use to have a fantastic sex life. I loved it. Sex was always in the shower usally I was up against the wall but sometimes on the bench thingy. He recently lost his leg and arm in the iraq war. Sex isnt the same. He still canot totally move, he also currently has ribs that are still healing from them being broken.
It can get boring so we of course have sex. We have always liked threesomes with our one friend. She can bend better then I can and she will have vaginal sex with him while I watch and masterbate, or will sit next to him were he can finger me or use a viberator on me while hes having sex with her. When shes not there he just fingers me and ile use toys on him. Unfortinitly even since I lost my virgintiy I never was able to give a blowjob without gaging.
Theres also alot more play with masterbators and handjobs. It takes alot longer for him to ejectulate, and longer for me to orgasm. Also with him having sex with her he uses a condom. Even though shes on birth control its better safe then sorry. Were as I never worried cause I was on the Depo shot and still am not fertile witch will take another year, so we havent used condoms in a few years. All three of use hate condoms and I find it alot less fun to watch with a condom but its something that we dont think twice about risking. He doesnt complain and he actually was first to say make sure you get condoms when me and my friend went to target that night. She was like I already was going to and ime like oh I thought the same. as She brought it up before without him in the room.
Its also frusterating when I have to put a extra blanket and some towls down because I squirt like crazy. Thats why we would have sex in the shower.
In the end the sex doesnt matter, what matters is hes alive. Ime lucky I got to push a man home from the hospital in a wheelchair and not carry a folded flag home from the cemetary. I am greatfull hes alive and ime with him. The orgasms may not be as good as to use to when it comes to the phisical feeling. Its really hard to explain but mentally I feel so much more when I watch him cum, its just so great were as before it was just normal. Now it means alot more for me to be able to be with him. less
Me and my husband use to have a fantastic sex life. I loved it. Sex was always in the shower usally I was up against the wall but sometimes on the bench thingy. He recently lost his leg and arm in the iraq war. Sex isnt the same. He still canot totally move, he also currently has ribs that are still healing from them being broken.
It can get boring so we of course have sex. We have always liked threesomes with our one friend. She can bend better then I can and she will have vaginal sex with him while I watch and masterbate, or will sit next to him were he can finger me or use a viberator on me while hes having sex with her. When shes not there he just fingers me and ile use toys on him. Unfortinitly even since I lost my virgintiy I never was able to give a blowjob without gaging.
Theres also alot more play with masterbators and handjobs. It takes alot longer for him to ejectulate, and longer for me to orgasm. Also with him having sex with her he uses a condom. Even though shes on birth control its better safe then sorry. Were as I never worried cause I was on the Depo shot and still am not fertile witch will take another year, so we havent used condoms in a few years. All three of use hate condoms and I find it alot less fun to watch with a condom but its something that we dont think twice about risking. He doesnt complain and he actually was first to say make sure you get condoms when me and my friend went to target that night. She was like I already was going to and ime like oh I thought the same. as She brought it up before without him in the room.
Its also frusterating when I have to put a extra blanket and some towls down because I squirt like crazy. Thats why we would have sex in the shower.
In the end the sex doesnt matter, what matters is hes alive. Ime lucky I got to push a man home from the hospital in a wheelchair and not carry a folded flag home from the cemetary. I am greatfull hes alive and ime with him. The orgasms may not be as good as to use to when it comes to the phisical feeling. Its really hard to explain but mentally I feel so much more when I watch him cum, its just so great were as before it was just normal. Now it means alot more for me to be able to be with him. less
06/22/2011
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Thank you very much that means alot
Originally posted by
Bignuf
Thanks to your husband for his service to our nation and his "above and beyond" payment at the alter of freedom. Thank YOU for being such and amazing wife. That last line about having him home, regardless of condition, spoke to my heart.
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Thanks to your husband for his service to our nation and his "above and beyond" payment at the alter of freedom. Thank YOU for being such and amazing wife. That last line about having him home, regardless of condition, spoke to my heart. Bless you both.
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06/27/2011
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Ditto. Very well said. You pretty much read my mind!
Originally posted by
Bignuf
I will assume you are younger and in good health. Forget injuries, which most likely WILL happen, and other odd issues...the fact is, just AGE will change what you can and cannot do!!! We have been happily married for 31 years now...used to do all
...
more
I will assume you are younger and in good health. Forget injuries, which most likely WILL happen, and other odd issues...the fact is, just AGE will change what you can and cannot do!!! We have been happily married for 31 years now...used to do all the crazy positions you could think of and a few you couldn't....but a LOT of those would be physically impossible now. Just physics!!! A sixteen year old gymnast can do splits all day long. Very few fifty year old's can...regardless of how good a shape they are in. How do you "deal with that"? You just do, since there is no choice. You either dwell on all you cannot do, and be miserable, or you be HAPPY with what you CAN do, and you ENJOY life. A diabetic cannot eat a bunch of sweets anymore. Some people cannot walk anymore...they too just go on with life, most of the time. You just make the best of what you have. That "SugarOne" is called life. You too will have to deal with a lot of "used to be able to's" as the years roll on.
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06/27/2011
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