Can we have some honest answers?

Rossie Rossie
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep this poll private, because I want honest answers!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
I will have sex with my partner every day, no matter how tired I am.
66
Honey, I'm tired, let's take a break tonight.
150
I'm single, but I NEED my toy every night, no matter how tired I am.
13
I'm single, all I want is sleep, who needs a toy?
9
Others.....
85
Total votes: 323 (282 voters)
Poll is closed
12/16/2011
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Coralbell Coralbell
I have never turned down sex, and my boyfriend and I have sex every day that we are together, but we don't see each other every day. I'm not sure if we would have sex every day if we had the chance. At first we probably would, but I'm sure we'd end up taking days off every now and then.
12/16/2011
Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
My man and I do it every few days. Sometimes a few days in a row but sometimes we just don't feel like having sex.
12/16/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
When I'm in a relationship, I expect to have sex every single day. If not, then I try not to bitch (too much)
12/17/2011
XYCopperheadSly XYCopperheadSly
We don't have sex every day, but not because I'm tired or don't want to....his drive just isn't as high as mine. I would be perfectly content with having sex (at least) once a day.
12/17/2011
voenne voenne
I'm single right now, but while in a relationship, I personally can't get in the mood or have the energy to do it every single night.
12/17/2011
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Never been in a real relationship long enough to find out. My marriage was celibate (ex-husband thought my perfectly healthy libido was freakish while claiming his sexual disinterest was normal). FWB wouldn't allow anything more than once every week or two (extremely frustrating because I felt like I wanted it every day due to never having it the eleven years previous). Currently in long distance and only had it twice when we first met about seven months ago (currently goal: get a job to save money for a ticket to visit him in the privacy of his own place).

I can completely acknowledge the highs and lows of stress, timing, mood, illness, etc. So I don't feel it has to be an every day thing. But I'd certainly like it more than once every week or two - and definitely more than once a decade.
12/17/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
My husband and I pretty much have sex every day. Yeah, we take breaks from time to time. I've been through a UTI recently, then he got a yeast infection and then I had a cold and a nasty period (we usually have sex during my period, but this was was so painful we skipped a day or two of having sex) that we've had a bit of a 2 day hiatus or so.

However, we made up for it last night. *sigh* Heavens, I'd forgotten the absolute frenzy you can get into when you go longer than you are used to without it and finally get into it.

Usually, sex is a once or twice a day thing for us. But, breaks happen. Life gets in the way, and sometimes... you chafe.

Everybody is different. Not everyone wants sex every day, and as long as both partners are happy with the frequency... whatever works for them is wonderful.
12/17/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
I don't get to have sex with my lover nearly as often as I would like. I masturbate every day, though, with the exception of the few days a month that I'm feeling too tired, too sick, or too depressed to want to. Since he and I started having sex, me refusing sex has about the same odds as scientists catching the Loch Ness Monster.
12/17/2011
Taylor Taylor
Well sex with my partner every day can't happen because we don't live together and don't see each other every day. I use my toys almost every day though. I think if we did live together I think I would want to every day.
12/17/2011
Beck Beck
I am honest when I say everyday. We usually do it twice, we always make time to have sex.
12/17/2011
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
We WERE having sex every day. Hubby's working nights now and is tired a lot, so I'm not making the choice not to, he's too tired. But we were up until he was working nights
12/17/2011
ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
I had to answer other because my boyfriend is the only person I have sex with, and we're long distance. When we're together, we have sex at least once a day, whether the trip lasts a weekend or two weeks.
12/17/2011
PassionateLover2 PassionateLover2
It's not everyday nor as frequent as I'd want, but I suppose the mood has to right for it to happen.
12/17/2011
kinky girlfriend kinky girlfriend
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep ... More
sometimes every week I don't even get laid...now he is leaving on wensday next week so I won't get it for a long time. I didn't get it last week...so I NEED vibrators and porn. I would like to say everyday cuz an orgasm a day can help wit stress and things...however sometimes I'm already tired and even though I'd like to I don't because my job tires me out physically and emotionally...then I get sexual tension built up and It must be released.lol

anyone else not do it when they want sometimes cuz they have a long tiring day ahead of them and are already tired?
12/17/2011
Ryuson Ryuson
We do several times a week, but we don't have a set time like "Every day" or "Every other day"
12/17/2011
(k)InkyIvy (k)InkyIvy
We definitely don't have sex every day. We'll have dry spells, and then we'll have a series of days where we just go at it like crazy. It all depends on how we're both feeling. Sometimes we're just so busy or exhausted that we don't even think about sex.
12/17/2011
Curiouscat Curiouscat
I do toys every now and then. My bf lives away right now for college soooo not getting much in that area! lol
12/17/2011
Caprieclipse Caprieclipse
everyday is different, it all depends on the day and what happened that day!
12/17/2011
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
We do whenever we are both in the mood. Sometimes that can end up being once a week, sometimes more.
12/17/2011
Cherry21 Cherry21
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Sometimes when I come across similar threads, a lot of EFers claim they have sex every single day, what about you? There are times when I'm too exhausted from chores, and I want nothing to do with sex, am I the only one? I'm going to keep ... More
Almost every night, without a miss. Sometimes we do though, but its rare. It usually if we're not together, or staying somewhere else.
12/17/2011
GeekWife GeekWife
With a rambunctious toddler and a hubby with a job that sometimes occupies his attention (either at the office or at home) upwards of 70 hours a week, we're lucky if we do it once every two weeks. If we get it more than once in a week's time, we consider ourselves lucky. I hardly even get "me time" anymore because I'm in mommy-mode all the damn time. Sigh.
12/17/2011
tA tA
I try to, but sometimes I'm too tired or not feeling it. :3
12/17/2011
lacybutton lacybutton
I'm single, and it's hit or miss on whether or not I pull out a toy. Depends on it I'm in the mood!
12/17/2011
Peggi Peggi
For us, it's just about every day. Unless I am sick or he is sick, something along those lines, and moving is just not possible, we will skip a night or two.
12/17/2011
TheCleansing TheCleansing
We made a deal that it's at least twice a week. Although usually it's more than that this helps us through finals weeks and whatnot.
12/17/2011
jedent jedent
we strive for nightly but obviously if life, injury or illness get in the way we take a break.
12/17/2011
LAndJ LAndJ
I'll usually do it no matter how tired I am however, not all the time if I've already been sleeping and he comes to be later.
12/18/2011
married with children married with children
I do not think I have ever turned down sex with my wife.
12/18/2011
shcoo shcoo
I may be tired some days, but I can ALWAYS be persuaded.. So I voted for the first option.
12/21/2011
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