Do you get off every time you have sex?

Contributor: Rory Rory
Sometimes it just doesn't happen.
08/06/2012
Contributor: Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
Nope, and I don't expect it. I do a lot of the time though. For me, sex isn't just for having an orgasm. That's what masturbation is!
08/07/2012
Contributor: MrsHouseWife MrsHouseWife
Not always for a few reasons. Sometime (on my days off) I have masturbated to many times and simply can't cum, but want the feeling of my husband inside me. Other times I have too much on my mind and just can't seem too cum, other times I just want to fuck his brains out and make him cum before he is ready.
08/30/2012
Contributor: neil i. neil i.
Not always, but I do enjoy it regardless.
08/30/2012
Contributor: lovebites lovebites
nope
08/31/2012
Contributor: Gallowraven Gallowraven
we don't always get off, it can take an hour or more of me being on top to get him to finish, and sometimes he doesn't at all. most of the time, if I have to be on top, Ill use a little battery powered help to get mine while I am trying to give him his.
11/19/2012
Contributor: preciousbbw preciousbbw
not every time but most
11/19/2012
Contributor: Pink Lily Pink Lily
Sometimes the end point doesn't have to be an orgasm, sometimes it's just about having fun. Plus sometimes it just isn't going to happen for whatever reason, but I don't want to just stop.
11/19/2012
Contributor: novanilla novanilla
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Originally posted by unfulfilled
My husband could care less That's why I have toys to finish after he's done if I feel like it.
That's really sad to me. You deserve better, and you should ask for it.


To respond to the question: It's very rare that my partner and I don't both have an orgasm. If I take 40 minutes of stimulation by hand, he's right there making sure I'm happy if I want it to happen.
11/21/2012
Contributor: Intrepid Niddering Intrepid Niddering
Only a few guys have been able to get me off. Everyone else, it was just, eh.
11/22/2012
Contributor: DomonCoshu DomonCoshu
We both get off most of the time, but sometimes there are times that I don't or she doesn't. For the most part though we do and I always try to wait on her or at the same time.
11/22/2012
Contributor: Robespierrethecat Robespierrethecat
I get off every now and then (maybe a couple times a month).
But, that doesn't bother me, because I still have a great time, feel satisfied and my partner and I do everything we can.
11/22/2012
Contributor: pussy licker pussy licker
oh yes
11/22/2012
Contributor: Istanbull Istanbull
Yes.
11/23/2012
Contributor: lainebug lainebug
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Originally posted by milfstatus
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Not everytime
12/16/2012
Contributor: Happenstance Happenstance
It's really difficult for me to orgasm sometimes. It's just a thing. Frustrating sometimes, yes, but... I enjoy pleasing my partner(s) anyway.
12/16/2012
Contributor: falalena falalena
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Originally posted by milfstatus
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it takes a lot of foreplay (mental prior to anything physical occurring) for it to happen.
12/16/2012
Contributor: JDear JDear
About 90% of the time. But it's gotten higher since me and my g-spot got chummy.
04/27/2013
Contributor: surreptitious surreptitious
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Originally posted by milfstatus
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I almost never do. I don't really enjoy orgasms, and tend to find them a distraction when I'm having sex. I like the act of sex itself, and since it's difficult for me to cum, going out of my way to orgasm usually makes the whole thing a waste of time. Sometimes I'll feel like I'm getting close incidentally through whatever we were doing (often me on top) and then I'll usually cum for him, but it's a pretty rare event.
04/27/2013
Contributor: TdotY TdotY
Every time.
04/27/2013
Contributor: Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
Nope.
04/28/2013
Contributor: oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I usually do at least once, but not all the time. He has a lower rate.
05/15/2013
Contributor: quinceykay quinceykay
No, it's hard for me to orgasm during sex, but I still enjoy it either way.
05/15/2013
Contributor: Scythe Scythe
Quote:
Originally posted by Peggi
He's always sure to make sure I do, because that's the whole point, for both of us to enjoy
No I don't always get off when I have sex,there have been times when my partner has gotten hers but I didn't get mine and I'm cool with that.
05/15/2013