How long constitutes a sex drought?

LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
2 weeks.. lol!
12/04/2010
Porfiriato Porfiriato
It also depends on what is going on that week, for some people stress negatively affects sex drive
12/04/2010
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
It's been 11 months since I last had sex almost. I'm coming up on a year and I'm not really going nuts like I thought I would be. That's just me, though.
01/10/2011
Darling Jen Darling Jen
It's now been 4 months for me and I'm definitely starting to get that itch!
01/10/2011
Mr. & Mrs. Peg Mr. & Mrs. Peg
I am married, so about a week now. When I was single....a week or two if I wasn't dating steady....a few hours if I was .
01/10/2011
Vaccinium Vaccinium
It really depends. I guess the best answer is that if it feels like a drought, then it is a drought.
01/11/2011
rdytogo rdytogo
Married, usually around a week is when I start getting that feeling. Hubby gets it if he doesn't get it every day.
01/11/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
We are having one right now! He has been away for 9 days and due to been gone for 3.5 more weeks! My horns are starting to show!!!!!!
01/12/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
We are having one right now! He has been away for 9 days and due to been gone for 3.5 more weeks! My horns are starting to show!!!!!!
Redboxbaby, Isn't that one reason you have a toy chest!? Experiment with them and show him all the new things you learned while he was gone - it'll end up being great fun for both of you!

I use to travel a lot - and will probably start again soon. We got into a routine of really hot sex before I left and then again when I got back. It brought a sense of urgency - better get it while the getting is good!

I used the time away to write erotic stories and urged her to use the toys in my absence - to teach me when I got home. To my knowledge she only did it once - with her Pure Wand. The rest of the time she just says she'd rather wait 'til I get home. I just with she'd do it more - it would help both of us.
01/12/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
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Originally posted by Gunsmoke
Redboxbaby, Isn't that one reason you have a toy chest!? Experiment with them and show him all the new things you learned while he was gone - it'll end up being great fun for both of you!

I use to travel a lot - and will probably start ... More
Yea well, we made a deal for abstinence this time. Corny huh? It is kinda hot. It is like a month-long build-up (sexting is great!). We are convinced we might kill each other when he returns. He has a roommate and they are sharing dorm-like facilities. He has zero privacy to 'take care of himself' so I am suffering along with him this trip so to speak.
01/12/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Redboxbaby
Yea well, we made a deal for abstinence this time. Corny huh? It is kinda hot. It is like a month-long build-up (sexting is great!). We are convinced we might kill each other when he returns. He has a roommate and they are sharing dorm-like ... More
Now that's hard - so to speak!
01/12/2011
That Guy That Guy
I can go 2 days before I start to feel ignored and trying to do things to take the stress off of my girl, but a week goes by and I pretty much turn into an intolerable bastard. I start working out all the time, stop masturbating out of spite, stay at work late or otherwise avoid coming home. It's pretty much the male equivalent of PMS, if I had to compare it to something.
01/19/2011
ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
What defines a "sex drought" to you? How long does it have to be before you consider yourself in a drought?
yea after a few days it becomes an issue
01/19/2011
Danielle915 Danielle915
A week for me
01/19/2011
sweet seduction sweet seduction
a day or two and im losing it
01/27/2011
Crystal1 Crystal1
For me it depends on whether or not you're seeing someone. In a relationship, I'd consider anything more than a week drought territory. But when single, several months can go by without it being a big deal.
01/28/2011
tickle me pink tickle me pink
Unless I'm going through one of my ridiculous phases where I want sex every five minutes, I can go for about a month before I start going crazy.
07/14/2011
Beck Beck
if its more than a day im doing it myself! we do it a lot though some weeks 5times other weeks 14 just depends. i dont put up with less than 5 and he knows that and he doesnt want hear me bitch cuz i sure can so he gives me what i want
07/15/2011
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
I would have to say a couple of weeks.
07/18/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
What defines a "sex drought" to you? How long does it have to be before you consider yourself in a drought?
If I go more than 3-4 days I get antsy, and if its more than a week I get edgy.
07/18/2011
MaryExy MaryExy
If I'm in a relationship, I think I want some kind of sexual activity more often than every other week. Between relationships I don't consider it a dry spell, though.
07/18/2011
ScarlettSeraph ScarlettSeraph
The amount of time before I would actually call it a drought, and the amount of time my sanity actually allows are not the same. When I was in my last relationship (a long one) if we made it to a week with no sex I was going bonkers. At least twice a week is my happy minimum. Once we broke up, I ended up going the longest I had gone without sex since losing my virginity. I couldn't believe that I made it months without breaking down and just finding someone. When I was single before I had friends that would help me out, so to speak. Now that my level of promiscuity (always safe, though) is down considerably, I waited because I didn't just want a random hookup. Now I have a partner again, but I don't see him all the time, so I'm somewhere in between... I have to go longer than I did in a relationship, but it isn't a "drought" either. I'm going to be optimistic and say that this just gives me more time for my toys
07/19/2011
thebest thebest
depends
07/25/2011
sarki sarki
A week lol
07/25/2011
MeliPixie MeliPixie
Personally since losing my virginity a couple of years ago we have not been in a situation in which we could experience a "drought" per se. We live together for two weeks, then I go home for two weeks... It's a cycle. I do however start to think something could be wrong if we don't have sex within 24 hours of starting our two weeks together.
08/14/2011
js250 js250
Quote:
Originally posted by El-Jaro
What defines a "sex drought" to you? How long does it have to be before you consider yourself in a drought?
About a week and that is a dustbowl!!!
08/14/2011
Alyxx Alyxx
In the year or so my boyfriend and I have lived together, I don't think we've ever gone more than a week without having sex, so more than three or four days in a row is a bit of a drought for us.
08/15/2011
JRabbits JRabbits
Well I haven't had sex in four years so I say anything over a year is a drought. But seriously couldn't help but laugh at the "a couple days" selection and how many clicked it. You sex mongrels!
08/15/2011
toxie m toxie m
2+ weeks if I'm in a relationship, months if I'm single.
08/15/2011
MrWishyWashy MrWishyWashy
Def months....
10/25/2011
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