How many sexual partners have you had?

iceman681 iceman681
13 lucky number
09/14/2010
wondertoes wondertoes
I've only been with my husband, so just one for me.
10/14/2010
Danielle915 Danielle915
I've had 6 partners, if you want to count my bi encounters and oral its more like 9.
10/24/2010
Illusional Illusional
Lucky 7
10/24/2010
SexyTabby SexyTabby
I've only had intercourse with my husband so one for me. Is there a number on too few or too many...well I'd say it was all in what you are comfortable with yourself because you are the only one that has to live with your choices - anyone else can hit the road if it's a problem. I would probably like to be more experienced then I am but I love that I have only shared myself with my soul mate and I am content with that. Besides he's had enough for both of us lol
10/24/2010
Kinkyquing Kinkyquing
So far just one.
10/24/2010
withballs withballs
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Originally posted by Red
LOL I had the hardest time answering this - namely, deciding what counted. I still don't really know how many partners I've had.

How embarrassing!
I don't know what counts either...it should be made clear in OP.
10/25/2010
Tart Tart
I'm in the minority! It sucks that I don't know all of their names. Oh well, that happens. I honestly don't keep track. I don't have a list or notches on my bedpost.
11/05/2010
darthkitt3n darthkitt3n
I have had three. I'm not ashamed by not having been with a ton of men or anything. I'd be pretty happy to stick with where I am now.
01/02/2011
UnknownGirl UnknownGirl
I have intercourse with 14 people. I've done something sexual (blowjobs, handjobs, etc.) with probably 30 or so.
01/15/2011
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
wow... I'd never expect "1-3" to be the most popular answer
01/24/2011
Crash Crash
I always get jealous of people who have had multiple partners. 100??? wow. Part of the fun of sex is discovering that hidden side of people.
01/24/2011
Krissers Krissers
WOW, over 100, is that possible ?
01/26/2011
Airekah Airekah
wow. I just had to count and it was higher than I expected, but not too bad. I counted men and women.
01/26/2011
sweet seduction sweet seduction
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Originally posted by Oggins
Where's the option for "I don't remember." LOL! Perhaps I've now said too much......
nice lol
01/27/2011
sweet seduction sweet seduction
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Originally posted by Backseat Boohoo
What's with putting "lol" at the end of every other post? Do you have giggle fits or something?
I actually do haha
01/27/2011
vegan.guy vegan.guy
Very interesting but I wonder how many people are being dishonest in the poll. I've only had one girlfriend so I've only had one sexual partner.
02/02/2011
CS2012 CS2012
I have only been with my husband and that was after we got married. He has only been with me and no one else also.
02/03/2011
tigerkate tigerkate
I am not sure how we are counting "sexual partner"? I normally go by sexual intercourse- which my number is 6. I feel like that is high for me, at my age, but I guess it's not too terrible.

If I added oral sex into the mix, it would only go up by 1, but that was not a consensual situation so I don't think it should count anyway.
02/03/2011
Darling Jen Darling Jen
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Originally posted by A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
wow... I'd never expect "1-3" to be the most popular answer
I never expected zero to have as many people as it does considering the site we're on either. Not that it's bad or anything, just surprising. I'm glad there are some very educated and sexually aware virgins out there though!
02/05/2011
disenchanted disenchanted
Popping in just to answer one question (other than the poll): Yes, I am ashamed of my number. It's not very high (10-12 over the past almost 10 years), but there are quite a few I wish I could knock off that list. Especially all of the ones from when I was a young, stupid teen. But I'm not ashamed by the number, just by the situations some of them came from. And I haven't had sex in 1 1/2 years, so am I revirginized yet?
02/05/2011
Darling Jen Darling Jen
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Originally posted by disenchanted
Popping in just to answer one question (other than the poll): Yes, I am ashamed of my number. It's not very high (10-12 over the past almost 10 years), but there are quite a few I wish I could knock off that list. Especially all of the ones from ... More
Aw you shouldn't be ashamed of your number ever. Not if it were zero or if it were 100. It's all about loving your body, embracing good experiences, and pleasuring yourself.

I'm 25 and have had only 1 sexual partner so far. So if you think your number is low, mine must be insane. But I'm not ashamed of it. (A little shy and embarrassed perhaps since I'm now back on the dating scene all of a sudden, but not ashamed.)

Since you can't change the past, take control of the future!
02/05/2011
singlesyrmom singlesyrmom
I don't think that number should matter to a man because that is in the past. I know that I have had my share of guys in the past but most people have a wold phase so I think that it all depends on the person.
02/10/2011
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
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Originally posted by Darling Jen
I never expected zero to have as many people as it does considering the site we're on either. Not that it's bad or anything, just surprising. I'm glad there are some very educated and sexually aware virgins out there though!
Well said!
02/18/2011
Miss Madeline Miss Madeline
One of my favourite sexual partners (of 33, just fyi) was a virgin--at least until we had sex--who spent a ton of time looking at sex toys and reading erotica.

He had skills from the word go.
02/18/2011
married with children married with children
My wife and I have only been with each other. And we are both happy about it.
02/19/2011
Eliza Eliza
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Originally posted by Cinnamon Chambers
Ok...I sucked a LOT of dick in college. Like 8 or so more people than I have had actual sex with. Females..there have been four or 5, I only went down on one, 3 did on me ( I was so selfish), and one neither of us did the whole eating out thing.
This made me smile.
02/19/2011
Eliza Eliza
I read a saying recently that was "A slut is anyone who has more sex than you." Found it interesting.

I'm not sure what you're counting as sex partners. If you just mean intercourse, then I've only been with one person, but if you're including oral, I'm at 10.
02/19/2011
Fuck it. Fuck it.
I'm at 7. I've been with people who have had more, and less. Nobody's number has mattered so far.
02/28/2011
ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
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Originally posted by Nashville
I know many of my friends and I used to "compare notes" of our sexual partners and how many we had. I had a running tally of how many men my best friend had been with which was remarkably easy to keep because it never exceeded past ... More
21 and i just started having sex 4 1/2 years ago......oh how fast the time went
02/28/2011
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