How often do you and your partner have sex.

extrafun extrafun
My wife and i have been married almost 10 years and the sex seems to have really fallen off, maybe once ever three weeks. I would luv to have sex more often but shes not interested so much. I just trying to poll to see how normal this might be.
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
We have sex every day
18
We have sex 3 times a week
48
We have sex once a week
23
We have sex once a month
6
We have sex less than once a month
4
We have been together less than a year
11
We have been together less than 3 years
10
We have been together less than 7 years
10
We have been together less thant 10 years
5
We have been together more than 10 years
24
Total votes: 159 (93 voters)
Poll is closed
06/14/2011
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jc123 jc123
My husband and I have taken turns losing interest over the years. I've found that sex is kind of cyclical for us--sometimes we both want it three times a day and then there will be months where we don't care if we do it or not.
06/14/2011
married with children married with children
we have sex about 5 times a week, and have been at 5 times a week for 11 years. We have been married for 11 years, and together for 17 years.
06/15/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
We have sex nearly each and everyday (sometimes several times a day), we've been together 18 years. Our sex life has not always been like this though. It was not until I was able to work through a ton of crap (physical and emotional issues) and find a way to own it without feeling shameful about it, that I was able to explore, be honest & open with how much I truly desired to be a sexual creature, and act upon it.

My husband teases me and says, "Damn, I've been trying to get you out of your shell for nearly 2 decades, now I can't get you off me!"

I hope I never slide backward!
06/15/2011
Eucaly Eucaly
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
My wife and i have been married almost 10 years and the sex seems to have really fallen off, maybe once ever three weeks. I would luv to have sex more often but shes not interested so much. I just trying to poll to see how normal this might be.
Extremely variable. Sometimes up to 5 times a week, sometimes once or twice a month, very, very rarely several times in one day.
06/15/2011
Dusk Dusk
Depends. Sometimes it's once a week, sometimes it's once a month. We've been together two years.
06/15/2011
ID42 ID42
I voted 3x a week, but honestly that varies quite a lot here lately. The hubby has a new job and he's at work quite a bit. I got rather used to him being here with me everyday over the last almost full two years. He took a leave of absence from working after our last baby and has been home with me nearly all day everyday since the boy child was born. During that time, the sex was pretty constant and abundant. Now that he's working again, he's beat down from work and stress and the booty has dwindled sufficiently.
06/15/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by Redboxbaby
We have sex nearly each and everyday (sometimes several times a day), we've been together 18 years. Our sex life has not always been like this though. It was not until I was able to work through a ton of crap (physical and emotional issues) and ... More
We don't have sex every day - but like you we have way more sex now than in the past. My wife's epiphany came in her early 40s after hearing all her girl friends complaining about their under-performing husbands - and here she is turning me down several times per week.

Since I'm 11 years older - I sure wish it had happened 10 years sooner - but better late than never.
06/15/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
My wife and i have been married almost 10 years and the sex seems to have really fallen off, maybe once ever three weeks. I would luv to have sex more often but shes not interested so much. I just trying to poll to see how normal this might be.
With two partners we generally have some form of sex every day.
06/15/2011
Yessi Yessi
Well we've been together fot 12 years and we have sex everyday.
06/15/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
When we see each other all the time it's about 2 times a week. We've been together almost 4 years.
06/15/2011
ac0313 ac0313
New relationship of about 6 months and have sex on average of about once a day. We started out our relationship living 2 hours apart and just this summer have been living together. If there are no temporary illness or physical issues, we have sex 1-3 times a day about 5-6 days per week.
06/15/2011
Cedarlooman Cedarlooman
I've been married for 12 years and we have sex around 2 or 3 times a week. It does fluctuate some though. There are some weeks where we have it more frequently, and there have been times when we have gone 2 or 3 weeks without having sex. Overall I am happy with it, but I am hopeful that when the kids get a little older and are more likely to stay in their bedroom all night that the frequency will pick up slightly.
06/15/2011
newfoundlust newfoundlust
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
My wife and i have been married almost 10 years and the sex seems to have really fallen off, maybe once ever three weeks. I would luv to have sex more often but shes not interested so much. I just trying to poll to see how normal this might be.
We have been married almost 24 years. If you had asked use two years ago the answer would have been maybe once a week, but often even less. Two years ago we re-awakened our sex life with toys, lingerie and a focus on each other. It is not an exaggeration to say that it changed out lives. We now routinely make love 3 or 4 times a week, and my wife is now often the initiator, which was never the case before. Probably because we finally learned that she was orgasmic, which we had never been able to do before.
06/16/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
Quote:
Originally posted by newfoundlust
We have been married almost 24 years. If you had asked use two years ago the answer would have been maybe once a week, but often even less. Two years ago we re-awakened our sex life with toys, lingerie and a focus on each other. It is not an ... More
We have the same experience - all you can say is better late than never!
06/17/2011
Wyo Daisy Wyo Daisy
Quote:
Originally posted by Cedarlooman
I've been married for 12 years and we have sex around 2 or 3 times a week. It does fluctuate some though. There are some weeks where we have it more frequently, and there have been times when we have gone 2 or 3 weeks without having sex. Overall ... More
Married 14 years (oldest kiddo is 12, but the youngest is 2) and for me all I can say is not often enough. lol! Most of the time itis 2 or 3 times a week, but there are tmes it is less.
06/17/2011
big b big b
one to three
06/17/2011
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
we have sex ALMOST every day and have been together for a year and a half
06/20/2011
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
i voted 'every day' and '3x a week' because it's more like 5 days a week, sometimes 2, rarely 3x a day. we've been together for 8 months.


if you're having issues, i recommend the reality show 'sexual healing' where couples work out their issues with a sex therapist who finds the base of the problem and helps them to work through it using sex as a tool... sex is kind of the canary in the coal mine as an indicator of larger issues.
there are many helpful hints and tactics used in the show that we have used in our relationship recently to help spice things up and bring us closer together.


you can get a free 1 month subscription to netflix.com and watch the show there. just dont forget to cancel the scrip before the month is up or you will be charged $8.

good luck!
06/20/2011
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
i voted 'every day' and '3x a week' because it's more like 5 days a week, sometimes 2, rarely 3x a day. we've been together for 8 months.


if you're having issues, i recommend the reality show 'sexual healing' where couples work out their issues with a sex therapist who finds the base of the problem and helps them to work through it using sex as a tool... sex is kind of the canary in the coal mine as an indicator of larger issues.
there are many helpful hints and tactics used in the show that we have used in our relationship recently to help spice things up and bring us closer together.


you can get a free 1 month subscription to netflix.com and watch the show there. just dont forget to cancel the scrip before the month is up or you will be charged $8.

good luck!
06/20/2011
TameTemptress TameTemptress
I voted 3x a week. It really just depends, some weeks it's more, some weeks it's less (usually not less though). We have been married for nearly 8 years and together nearly 10.
06/20/2011
emiliaa emiliaa
I voted every day, because it's nearly every day unless we're both exhausted or I'm on my period. XD I love sex and I enjoy it as frequently as possible, plus, I am still training my boy. (He was a virgin not long ago so he needs lots of practice.)
06/21/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
My wife and i have been married almost 10 years and the sex seems to have really fallen off, maybe once ever three weeks. I would luv to have sex more often but shes not interested so much. I just trying to poll to see how normal this might be.
me and my fiancee been together almost 10 yrsa nd wehave sex everyday even durring periods
06/21/2011
GatorDood GatorDood
2-3 per week is probably the average. Some more, some less.

Crazy work week, family visiting, etc. = less

Kids go to grandparents for the week = more, much more. Not today I need to recover more!


We have been married 16 years and together for almost 21.
07/31/2011
Beck Beck
everyday, been together almost 5 years
08/09/2011
Pinkhare Pinkhare
I'm in a sort or long distance relationship , as in I only see him once a week .
08/09/2011
padmeamidala padmeamidala
Quote:
Originally posted by extrafun
My wife and i have been married almost 10 years and the sex seems to have really fallen off, maybe once ever three weeks. I would luv to have sex more often but shes not interested so much. I just trying to poll to see how normal this might be.
We have sex about 3 times a week. I would love to have it daily but that's really hard with two kids in the house. We get tired and it's getting harder to have sex as often with being older. I would love to go away on a trip and be able to have sex every single day! I miss that!
08/09/2011
Jaimes Jaimes
Three to four times a week. There are times when it isn't that often, especially if one of us is feeling particularly body-conscious or anxious about something. But there are plenty of times when it's much more! We've been together almost 8 years.
08/09/2011
deadpoet deadpoet
My boyfriend and I use to do it once or twice a week, but now that I live three hours away, it is about once a month or two.
08/09/2011
indiglo indiglo
After reading this poll, we talked about how often we have sex. Our answer? We have no idea. Depends on the week and how both of us are feeling. We sometimes will go everyday, other times we may skip a couple of days. We just have sex whenever we want - if we want more, we have more. lol But neither of us keeps track. He said "if you can keep count, you're not having enough"! LOL I think he was joking... sort of.
08/09/2011
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