Hi, I've been married for almost 3 yrs now and I've been with my husband for 5 years going on 6. Now I have 5 yr old and during my pregnancy meand my husband had lots of sex everyday. After I had my son sex completely died down as my husband was also gaining weight. I always thought it had something to do with me, years have past and sex never went back to the way it was. Its really depressing and my husband has told me its not me and that its him and I believe him because of everything we've been through but it sucks wanting to fuk more than your husband. I even felt like I was wrong because babies do change everything but its been 5 yrs and its just getting worse. Has anyone else experienced this?
Marriage And Decrease in Sex
09/17/2012
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Yes.
When hubby and I got together in January 2002, we had sex every night. My oldest was born in Nov that same year. sex died down to only 4 times a week. my hubby stared to gain weight and sex slowed down even more. Now 10 years, 2 kids and we have sex once every 2 weeks.
Now with Eden I have been lucky to add a extra day. Now it is once a week. My hubby loves the sexy outfits and the idea of me looking for a new toy online...(though I cannot decide on which one to get yet)
When hubby and I got together in January 2002, we had sex every night. My oldest was born in Nov that same year. sex died down to only 4 times a week. my hubby stared to gain weight and sex slowed down even more. Now 10 years, 2 kids and we have sex once every 2 weeks.
Now with Eden I have been lucky to add a extra day. Now it is once a week. My hubby loves the sexy outfits and the idea of me looking for a new toy online...(though I cannot decide on which one to get yet)
09/18/2012
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yeah its been hard for me because i feel like im not important like a piece of furniture.
Originally posted by
funluvinmama
Yes.
When hubby and I got together in January 2002, we had sex every night. My oldest was born in Nov that same year. sex died down to only 4 times a week. my hubby stared to gain weight and sex slowed down even more. Now 10 years, 2 kids and ... more
When hubby and I got together in January 2002, we had sex every night. My oldest was born in Nov that same year. sex died down to only 4 times a week. my hubby stared to gain weight and sex slowed down even more. Now 10 years, 2 kids and ... more
Yes.
When hubby and I got together in January 2002, we had sex every night. My oldest was born in Nov that same year. sex died down to only 4 times a week. my hubby stared to gain weight and sex slowed down even more. Now 10 years, 2 kids and we have sex once every 2 weeks.
Now with Eden I have been lucky to add a extra day. Now it is once a week. My hubby loves the sexy outfits and the idea of me looking for a new toy online...(though I cannot decide on which one to get yet) less
When hubby and I got together in January 2002, we had sex every night. My oldest was born in Nov that same year. sex died down to only 4 times a week. my hubby stared to gain weight and sex slowed down even more. Now 10 years, 2 kids and we have sex once every 2 weeks.
Now with Eden I have been lucky to add a extra day. Now it is once a week. My hubby loves the sexy outfits and the idea of me looking for a new toy online...(though I cannot decide on which one to get yet) less
09/18/2012
yes, the sex drive can die down. You need to talk about it. See what works for both of you.
09/20/2012
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We don't have kids n r coming up to 13 yrs. It just natural to have sex less often and whne you do enjoy it.
Originally posted by
sw33t1zm3
Hi, I've been married for almost 3 yrs now and I've been with my husband for 5 years going on 6. Now I have 5 yr old and during my pregnancy meand my husband had lots of sex everyday. After I had my son sex completely died down as my husband
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Hi, I've been married for almost 3 yrs now and I've been with my husband for 5 years going on 6. Now I have 5 yr old and during my pregnancy meand my husband had lots of sex everyday. After I had my son sex completely died down as my husband was also gaining weight. I always thought it had something to do with me, years have past and sex never went back to the way it was. Its really depressing and my husband has told me its not me and that its him and I believe him because of everything we've been through but it sucks wanting to fuk more than your husband. I even felt like I was wrong because babies do change everything but its been 5 yrs and its just getting worse. Has anyone else experienced this?
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12/16/2012
I've been married since 2009 been together since the end of 2007 and we use to have sex every night didn't matter how long he worked after our first son in 2009 our sex died a little bit but wasn't too bad. And now we had our second son Aug. 2012 and we basically have no sex life. I hate it cause I want sex every night!!!
01/06/2013
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