Playing games with your partner, while not engaged in sex

P'Gell P'Gell
My Man and I have been together a LONG time, decades.

People often ask us how we have managed to stay together so long, if I'm in a silly mood, I'll just say, "He's good in bed, otherwise I would have kicked his sorry ass to the curb years ago." But, there's more to it than that.

We touch each other a lot. We also PLAY! Not just during sex, but frequently throughout the day.

We have these little plastic nubby balls that we throw at each other to surprise the other one. We have all shapes and sizes and we call them "Porky Balls." "There are NO rules to Porky Ball." "You do not talk about Porky Ball." They are all over the house, on the headboard, on the counter, under the water bed mattress, in the corners of rooms, covered in dog hair, in our pockets. It's a silly thing, but this small amount of attention we pay to each other throughout the day really pays off. (He threw one at me, while he was going down on me this morning and I had to start over ha ha.)

We also play tickle fight all the time. I will also open the upstairs bedroom window, when he is in the driveway or on the deck and lift my shirt quickly and then just walk away. Ice down the other's back is always a good one, as is a cold cup of water over the top of the shower curtain when the other is showering.

What do you and your partner(s) do to keep the Love and Attraction alive?

I'd love to hear other people's stories.
06/26/2010
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El-Jaro El-Jaro
That is awesome! I love hearing/reading about happy couples and the things they do!

With my partner and I, we just joke around with each other all the time. I laugh more with her than I have with any other partner I've been with.
06/26/2010
Envy Envy
I like to tickle my bf a lot, and then he does it back and we end up in a ball of giggles and can barely breathe after. We also play video games together a lot, and it's rarely serious. I'd like to play board and card games with him too if I could. I also like to randomly touch him and then walk away with a smirk, and also send suggestive texts while he's at work which makes him real grrrr and think evil things to do back.
06/26/2010
Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
Those sound like really fun games that you play with each other We have silly things that we do to each other as well, like tummy attacks and likewise, but I really like the idea of "Porky Ball".
06/27/2010
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
We agree completely. There is much more to intimacy than sex. Although we don't throw things at one another, we thrive on contact.

An unexpected standing back or shoulder massage, endless pecks and kisses, lots of hugs - usually with a little ear lobe of neck nip - just keep reconnecting.
06/28/2010
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
We tickle as well, my boy's feet are incredibly sensitive and he hates that I know that

And as dorky as it is, we play jeopardy together every night when it's on tv and see who can win between the two of us, and also each pick one of the contestants on tv we'd like to see go on to the next night based on silly things like the little interview after the 1st commercial break and their wardrobe.
06/28/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Miss Cinnamon
Those sound like really fun games that you play with each other We have silly things that we do to each other as well, like tummy attacks and likewise, but I really like the idea of "Porky Ball".
Miss Cin, you can get a pack of about a dozen of them at the Dollar store or in the birthday prize aisle in most stores. It's funny how they seem to show up in the weirdest places. We've had the same game of Porky Ball going for about 10 years and it's a blast! There's no "winner" of course. (although My Man tends to rate my Throwing Ability and Pain Causation regularly, "God, you throw like a girl. It didn't even hurt! Pussy Ball, we should call it!" Or, "Ow, that hurt. Right in the eye. Good Girl. You get Man Skill Points for that throw, Woman!")

I usually find them in my stocking at Christmas or in with my candy at V Day.

Have fun.

Keep up the great stories, people! I LOVE to hear this stuff.
06/28/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Tori Rebel
We tickle as well, my boy's feet are incredibly sensitive and he hates that I know that

And as dorky as it is, we play jeopardy together every night when it's on tv and see who can win between the two of us, and also each pick one ... More
Tori, that's so cute. We try to watch Andy Griffith a few times a week at least! My Man usually takes the entire show in a different direction, trying to guess if An-deee! is going to get laid etc, and detecting "clues" in this old Classic, but it's something we both enjoy, so much that I bought him the First Season on DVD for his birthday! But, there's something about catching it, and imitating "Aint Bee" and twisting the plot into Adult Territory that appeals to us.

And we also HAVE to watch House together every Monday Night. At first I couldn't figure out WHY I was so attracted to House.....then it hit me, he looks EXACTLY like My Man. Hot! But, he has to be quiet when we watch this, as I love the medical intrigue, but he has to also watch it with me.

These are all great!
06/28/2010
Tori Rebel Tori Rebel
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Tori, that's so cute. We try to watch Andy Griffith a few times a week at least! My Man usually takes the entire show in a different direction, trying to guess if An-deee! is going to get laid etc, and detecting "clues" in this old ... More
You reminded me when you mentioned House that we also have a Sunday night tradition of watching True Blood together... even if we can't be in the same place, which happens, we'll text or stay on the phone through the whole thing.

We also occasionally watch the price is right together if we're home 'sick' but that's no competition - I always win!
06/28/2010
Sir Sir
We play a lot, actually. We have little bath toys for her that we play with, she squirts me with them constantly, either in the tub or pool. We also go places together, watch movies. It does not take a lot to make me satisfied. Her, on the other hand, she's a hot-wire, so she's bouncing around all of the time. I indulge on that quite often by taking her places, on walks. She loves swimming in the hot weather, so I take her swimming too and we play always. She'll latch onto my hips with her legs and I'll take her around the pool. I also sometimes give her water piggy-back rides, since it's a bit hard out of the water since she's so much bigger than me...

I tickle her too. She doesn't tickle me, but she sometimes puts her clippies in my hair and makes fun of me... ugh. HAHA! She also will rest her head in my lap sometimes for rest and I'll give her a pet or something.

A lot of what we do is fairly simple, though. It's sometimes playing together, other times just relaxing. Just knowing that we are with one another, little gestures and acknowledgements, reinforces the relationship.
06/28/2010
Miss Voluptuous Miss Voluptuous
These are totally fun to read. I can't help but grin!
03/02/2011
arewehavingfun? arewehavingfun?
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Originally posted by P'Gell
Miss Cin, you can get a pack of about a dozen of them at the Dollar store or in the birthday prize aisle in most stores. It's funny how they seem to show up in the weirdest places. We've had the same game of Porky Ball going for about 10 ... More
What is "pork bally" or "porky ball"?
11/03/2011
samopayn samopayn
My boyfriend and I do silly things too. We play games in the car all the time. Usually there is a winner and usually the prize is sexual. (:
11/13/2011
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