Sex Drive, how much is too much?

sexyintexas sexyintexas
I seem to always be horny. My bf works away monday thru friday and I just cant get enough on the weekends when hes home. How much is too much?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
No such thing
108
7-10 times a week
24
a few times a week
1
Once a week
1
Once a month
Less than once a month
Total votes: 134 (128 voters)
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Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
I seem to always be horny. My bf works away monday thru friday and I just cant get enough on the weekends when hes home. How much is too much?
My wife will probley disagree. Shes about a once every two weeks type.
03/10/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
The question is phrased badly? We have sex 2-3x per week. That doesn't mean more wouldn't be OK. Her job is demanding enough that sex during the week is the exception not the rule.

For me the ideal would be about 4x per week - but that's age related, when I was younger 1/day would have been fine - or in college 2x/day would have been do-able.

Ah to be young again!
03/10/2011
*Ashley* *Ashley*
I am always interested in sex. If it was up to me I would have sex with my partner a couple times a day.
03/10/2011
indiglo indiglo
The only time it's too much is if one of you is getting frustrated, aggravated, or feeling objectified. So the term is relative to me, and different for every couple.
03/10/2011
markeagleone markeagleone
Quote:
Originally posted by sexyintexas
I seem to always be horny. My bf works away monday thru friday and I just cant get enough on the weekends when hes home. How much is too much?
I, personally, think there is no such thing. My wife would probably beg to differ. I know physically, two or three times a day would be great for me. My wife would be on the weekly scale.
03/10/2011
Avant-garde Avant-garde
For me once a week would be too much because I have PCT (post coital tristesse).
03/10/2011
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
I'm always horny... never a minute passes by that I don't think about sex, lol... I'm an addict.
03/10/2011
liilii080 liilii080
How much you want is how much is enough. Too much is in the eye of the beholder...or something eloquent like that!
03/10/2011
(Re)tired Stripper (Re)tired Stripper
Quote:
Originally posted by indiglo
The only time it's too much is if one of you is getting frustrated, aggravated, or feeling objectified. So the term is relative to me, and different for every couple.
I completely agree. It's been hard in the past for me to see it from a man's perspective due to cultural conditioning, but it goes both (or all!) ways.
03/10/2011
Stephanie Marie Stephanie Marie
No such thing as too much sex drive.
03/10/2011
Crash Crash
Sex drive is good. As long as you aren't forcing your partner. I wish my girlfriend had a stronger drive.
03/10/2011
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
"Too much" might be if you absolutely cannot control yourself, but would still not be an issue of how much you want, just of how much you can control your life.
03/11/2011
BadassFatass BadassFatass
As long as my partner and I are seeing eye to eye, there is no "too much".
03/11/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
As long as it doesn't get out of control, there isn't such thing as a too high sex drive. I personally wish mine was much higher.
03/11/2011
Annemarie Annemarie
This really depends--too much for me is when I'm not recovering from the soreness. Too much is when it's not enjoyable for one reason or another.

Some days, I would happily take it all day long. Others, don't even bother touching me.
03/11/2011
AYoungMan AYoungMan
5-7 times a week is good
03/13/2011
onehotmomma onehotmomma
I don't think your sex drive can be "wrong", and you can never have too much of a good thing
03/14/2011
Elbert's Angel Elbert's Angel
There is a such thing as too much at least with the right partner, my sex drive is only frustrating when my husband is at work and not here to do anything about it or when I am at work and loose focus.
03/16/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
I like every other day, the hubs likes every day. So I guess somewhere in the middle is ideal
03/17/2011
NaturalWoman NaturalWoman
I have what my past partners have called a "VERY healthy sex drive" lol and am now with a partner whose matches my own. There is pretty much no such thing as too much.
03/17/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm with most voters - no such thing....hehehe
03/17/2011
tigerkate tigerkate
I voted both "no such thing" and 7-10 times a week...

I think I'm up for it every day. But if it's more than twice in one day, I'm probably tapped out.
03/22/2011
Kat Shanahan Kat Shanahan
Well, personally I don't think there is such a thing as "too much", but this kind of thing is very personal. Some people can get by with once a week; some people wouldn't say no to two or three times a day! *L*
03/29/2011
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I think as long as you're both on the same page and respecting each other, then there's no such thing as too much!
06/20/2011
iveversxe iveversxe
I like having sex two to three times a day, but sometimes it's not possible due to schedules or ailments. If it were ever to cut into other things that rank higher in priority, it would be considered "too much" for me.
06/20/2011
SexyLilPixi SexyLilPixi
Sky's the limit. I'm always that horny too.
06/20/2011
indiglo indiglo
The only reason it would ever be "too much" (or "not enough") is if either partner is unhappy with it. So as long as both people are fine with the amount, there's really no such thing as too much!!
06/21/2011
big b big b
any where any time any how
06/21/2011
Kiwidragon Kiwidragon
It's only a problem if your partner and you are on different frequencies. My husband has given up hope on me, I'd jump in the sack with him every day, and he has been a once-a-week guy since day one (9 years now). As long as you still eat, shower and go to work and pay bills there's no such thing as "too much"!
06/21/2011
Total posts: 64
Unique posters: 63