Spacing out after orgasm

qwertys191 qwertys191
In the past few months i have noticed that both me and my boyfriend will space out after we orgasm. i was just wondering if this happens to anyone else.
03/10/2010
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Sir Sir
I have, but only when I was upset beforehand. If I was aggravated or pissed off about something before having sex, then I will space out and become distant because I feel used for my penis.
03/10/2010
Miss Cinnamon Miss Cinnamon
Most of the time, we just lie apart to cool off and reflect silently (or not think at all while our brains reset). I don't know about spacing out, but if it happens, it's a positive kind of spacing out.
03/10/2010
qwertys191 qwertys191
Well thats not quiet the situation that me and my boyfriend are in. We both space out after sex in general....i don't think me and my boyfriend have ever even had sex when we are angry
03/10/2010
Chilipepper Chilipepper
Yeah, the recovery period when you're coming back to earth very slowly - easy to space out. Mulder and I do it a lot and it's a very relaxed time when we're in a 'nowhere place' and only feel the other's body and are unaware of anything else.
03/10/2010
Miss Jane Miss Jane
I do it sometimes, and then other times I don't. I think it just depends on how mind-blowing the sex is, what kind of mood I'm in, and how sleepy I am!
03/10/2010
Sammi Sammi
I do sometimes. I think because I'm so worn out by then.
03/10/2010
VeronicaStone VeronicaStone
Sometimes, after a particularly good romp. Interestingly enough, I've read that the part of the brain involved with "spiritual experiences" are also engaged during sex.
03/11/2010
Sera Sera
Quote:
Originally posted by qwertys191
In the past few months i have noticed that both me and my boyfriend will space out after we orgasm. i was just wondering if this happens to anyone else.
Yeah, it actually happens to me and my husband. I wonder why it happens...
07/30/2010
Heather Heather
Oh yeah. That's why I don't like a.m. sex. I'll get nothing done.
07/30/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
Are you talking about the buzz? Yeah, it's great. But, like Heather, when we have morning sex (which is often) I just want to groove on the endorphin buzz for hours and don't get a lot done, because I keep flashing on the fun we had. At night, oddly enough, I get energetic and want to do things, after enjoying the buzz for a while. Go figure.
07/30/2010
Midway through Midway through
I think that's relatively normal, I know of a lot of my friends spacing out in particularly. Sexual discussion is pretty common amongst us. I'm pretty sure that's just the aftermath of a great orgasm.
07/30/2010
Jenn (aka kissmykitty) Jenn (aka kissmykitty)
I space out the worst when we have sex in the late afternoon. I'm okay in the morning, and even at night. But in the middle of the day or right before dinner? Forget it, I'm a goner for the rest of the evening!
07/30/2010
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by qwertys191
In the past few months i have noticed that both me and my boyfriend will space out after we orgasm. i was just wondering if this happens to anyone else.
It definitely happens to me sometimes too. The whole dizzying, "lala land" type of feeling.
12/03/2010
Porfiriato Porfiriato
yes, this happens occasionally. Right after the orgasm there's a moment when your mind is perfectly clear
12/04/2010
KnK KnK
My brain kind of goes blank and I basically can't move for a little while
12/04/2010
ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
Quote:
Originally posted by qwertys191
In the past few months i have noticed that both me and my boyfriend will space out after we orgasm. i was just wondering if this happens to anyone else.
almost all of the time
01/19/2011
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