What do you do to get in the mood?

Miss Voluptuous Miss Voluptuous
So... what do you do to get yourself all worked up and ready for some action?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Dress up in sexy clothes/lingerie
35
Dancing
13
Eating erotic food
4
Reading erotica
40
Watching porn
52
Doing a sexy show or strip tease for you lover
10
Watching your lover make a sexy show or strip tease
8
Looking at erotic photography/art
21
Putting on mood lighting and sexy music
21
Fantasising
54
Rubbing your skin with oils
15
Other -- Please do share!
26
Total votes: 299 (83 voters)
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03/02/2011
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Miss Voluptuous Miss Voluptuous
I enjoy many of these things! Also... securing a private place where I know no unwelcome disturbances will happen...
03/02/2011
Destri Destri
Fantasizing always does it for me!
03/02/2011
pinkzombie pinkzombie
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Voluptuous
So... what do you do to get yourself all worked up and ready for some action?
I take a bath, and get super sexy. I put on sexy clothes, perfume, makeup...
Or we just start giving each other massages.
Or we just dive right in!
03/02/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
I'm usually in the mood. So, to get more into it, I find reading erotica helps, a lot. Fantasizing helps, my fantasies tend to be more "romantic" until I get really turned on, then they turn nasty. We give each other massages. He gets more than I get. *sigh* The Life of a Dom. But, I find massaging him, especially with good smelling massage oils, like JimmyJane Afterglow Massage Candles stimulates not only both of us physically, but I associate some of the scents with sex. The Bourbon scent just reminds me of a sexy man, a powerful man, a man in charge. Damn, I'm getting turned on thinking about it.

Sometimes I will put on a sexy nightie or stockings and a garter belt. He likes to walk in and play with me when I am in the tub in the evening. I have some nighties which mean, "I need it now!" and he understands, wordlessly.

We also "play" as much as possible. Leaning up against the other one, rubbing a quick frottage, while in the kitchen or while walking by in the house, sitting on his lap while we hang out in the evening. Cooking together can be quite sensual, because we tend to touch a lot. We touch each other a LOT! We've had people comment on it, "You two can't keep your hands off each other." Yeah.

And of course, right before we get into it, watching porn together really helps. I find I focus on one or two images we saw in the porn to get off. It is fun to watch and play with each other. Although I do prefer to turn it off when we finally get into the bed, we may start touching and going down for each other in the chair in our bedroom while the porn is on. I can't concentrate when the TV is on. Although, if he's having a hard time coming, we'll put the images back on to help him concentrate.

He play spanks me a lot during the day and evening. In the kitchen especially. I keep telling him, "Don't start something you don't want to finish." He thinks it's funny, and I get turned on. More than a couple of swats and he has to put his money (and his mouth and other parts) where his.....hand is.
03/02/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
We "play" throughout the day. That "play" always keeps us in the mood. It usually starts in the morning once we get out of the bedroom.

While we work in the kitchen getting breakfast, coffee and lunches ready, we rub up against each other, share a few kisses, a few gropes and swats here and there. While he is at work, we sext throughout the day (when he isn't insanely busy). We take a long hot bath together in the jacuzzi tub when he comes home. We usually "play" in the tub, sometimes we read erotica to each other.

Making dinner is much the same as breakfast time. He rarely walks past me without smacking or grabbing my ass, grabbing me to kiss my neck or feel me up.

When we retire to our room for the night, we sometimes pop in porn. We have a rule that the bed is meant for nakedness. No underwear is allowed in the bed. We can't keep our hands to ourselves when we are clothed, so being naked together always leads to more.
03/02/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Voluptuous
So... what do you do to get yourself all worked up and ready for some action?
We will do a lot of the above as well as just touching, talking and smooching.
03/02/2011
PiratePrincess PiratePrincess
Touching and light kissing usually gets me in the mood, but if I really want to be in the mood and feel sexy then I dress up for him.
03/03/2011
cobiffle cobiffle
Rubbing is what does it for me all the time
03/05/2011
married with children married with children
I am always in the mood.
03/13/2011
zracer zracer
time with no distractions lol
03/15/2011
(Re)tired Stripper (Re)tired Stripper
I also love the JimmyJane candles.

I try to relax. Deep breaths, stretching, sexy yoga poses, long baths in Lush products. Relaxing gives me better orgasms.

I'm ritualistic, so this appeals to me.
03/15/2011
indiglo indiglo
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Voluptuous
I enjoy many of these things! Also... securing a private place where I know no unwelcome disturbances will happen...
I agree - making sure the door is locked, etc is very important! I also enjoy almost all of the things listed.
03/15/2011
Sweet-Justice Sweet-Justice
Dancing honestly gets me in the mood. And I don't mean stripping or pole dancing(Though those are HAAAAWT) but rave and concert dancing. Nothing gets me wetter or more pumped then raving/moshing. Also exercise always works when I'm just not in the mood to dance. Though I do some good ole fantasizing also.
03/15/2011
The Unnamed The Unnamed
I take a bath, and get super sexy.
03/23/2011
REDRUM REDRUM
Watch porn, or foreplay.
Massages are also a big one.
03/23/2011
SexyStuff SexyStuff
Snuggling and spooning help
03/24/2011
tigerkate tigerkate
I realize I don't do much.
I'll fantasize, caress, cuddle, touch my partner more...
03/24/2011
purplekidney purplekidney
He: looking, touching, snuggling, smelling, and nibbling her. Also every morning, sometimes if I'm sitting in the same spot for too long, posting to these forums, and if the wind blows the wrong way.

She: Aw. This is my husband, he's 13 I love snuggling and talking, of all the random, boring things. It makes me feel close, which turns me on.

He: Look out for the wind!
04/14/2011
lick123 lick123
do most of the items listed. also i write erotic stories and it gets me in the mood.
04/16/2011
Cream in the Cupcake Cream in the Cupcake
We watch our home movies.
04/18/2011
k3 k3
I wear my kitty ears most of the time, but when the kitty ears and paws go on, and the clothes come off to show more revealing underthings than I normally wear.....He knows. ;]
04/30/2011
Eucaly Eucaly
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Voluptuous
So... what do you do to get yourself all worked up and ready for some action?
Reading porn comics!
06/02/2011
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
Watching porn, and sometimes a few other things.
07/18/2011
null null
I listen to certain music. I have one particular band that I only listen to when I'm doing things, either by myself or with a partner, so now whenever I hear that band I automatically get turned on.
07/18/2011
ijako9 ijako9
I would also add giving an erotic massage
09/01/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by ijako9
I would also add giving an erotic massage
This - an erotic massage is our #1 starting point.
09/01/2011
ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
It's all about the touching. We crawl into bed and just look at each other, maybe chat a bit about the day as the touching starts. He knows now that just running his hands over my skin makes me wet, so any time he starts heavily petting me, I know the fun will begin soon.
09/03/2011
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Fantasizing about him, when we're able to be together, lots of kissing and touching. It's really all about each other!
09/03/2011
freda freda
Quote:
Originally posted by Miss Voluptuous
So... what do you do to get yourself all worked up and ready for some action?
Watching porn
02/23/2012
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