What fuels your sex drive?

Sex'и'Violence Sex'и'Violence
Alcohol
05/28/2011
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
Love
06/13/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by mnc5051
Curious to see what everyone has in common and what differences
Best sex is with someone you feel comfortable with, and TRUST completely. That comes, in our humble opinion, from sharing common values, ideas, and sense of fun. If you enjoy each other a lot OUT of the sack, then intimate time simple has got to be way better!
06/18/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by k3
Love! Watching Him do everyday stuff, and knowing that gorgeous, sexy man is mine...mm. And fantasy, of course, those help. ;]
Love the way you think!!!! That is the stuff REAL, long term SUCCESSFUL relationships are made of!!!
06/18/2011
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Love and Lust, and only for my sexy husband!
06/20/2011
Caprieclipse Caprieclipse
love!
07/29/2011
thebest thebest
love
07/29/2011
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
Quote:
Originally posted by mnc5051
Curious to see what everyone has in common and what differences
Love, lust, anger, shared fantasy...and the smell of my men fuel my sex drive.
07/30/2011
kendra30752 kendra30752
Love and creativity. By the way this was really a unique poll. I like it I never realized just how many things there were that "fueled people's sex drives"

I think mine is mostly love, some creativity and honestly generosity. The thing that really turned me on about my partner was when I saw how generous he was. The type of person who helps everybody, even if it means giving a homeless person our food and money then going back to burger kind to order him fries when he knew the guy wasn't really hungry! Lol That's happened several times and once the guy even came back and tried giving the money back because he said de decieved us and he didn't deserve it. Lol. Of course we made him take it anyways, but my point is he's the most generous and caring person and I thought I was as caring and kind as it gets. I mean I'll give everything I have to the ppl who treat me like crap! Ha Ha. That's really one of the major things that draws me to him is how generous he is.
08/19/2011
frisky069 frisky069
Quote:
Originally posted by mnc5051
Curious to see what everyone has in common and what differences
i would say love and pain lol
08/22/2011
Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
Love for my man creates a lust response. Example ... man doing dishes or just watching him doing something he enjoys turns me on. I enjoy him and love it when he's happy. Makes me want to jump his bones
08/22/2011
zeb zeb
fantasy and lust all the way
10/16/2011
AndroAngel AndroAngel
Love, Creativity, Intelligence, Pain, Tenderness and Violence. Trust, Joy, and Desire. Dominance and Submission. Openness.
10/16/2011
emilia emilia
lust and trust
10/17/2011
Do emu Do emu
Tons of stuff. Depends on the experience what fuels it the most for me.
04/07/2012
BlooJay BlooJay
Love and definitely lust.
04/07/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by mnc5051
Curious to see what everyone has in common and what differences
Lust, Creativity, Anger, Pain, and Fantasy. LOL. I never knew there was so much fuel.
04/11/2012
Inkblot Inkblot
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Originally posted by ac0313
Last year, at 47 yrs old, I found out I had a low testosterone count and my sex drive seemed to be low. After hormone therapy, my count rose to the lower end of normal, but my sex drive did not improve. I realized that I was no longer attracted to my ... More
Good old-fashioned relationship work fuels my sex drive. Knowing that we are going to keep trying to make things better is sexy to me AND him. So I'd call that love and commitment. We CHOOSE to be sexually interested and attracted to one another--we're not slaves to our sexual whims, we are masters over them.

However, SEX also drives my sex drive! LOL When we have great sex, I just want it more and more. Dh is NOT that way. He is satisfied and can go several days without being super interested again, but he has learned to "sacrifice" (hehe, it never ends up *feeling* like sacrifice... ;o) and please me even when he's not initially in the mood.
04/12/2012
michael scofield michael scofield
nothing it fuels itself. the doctors have said i have the hormones of about 15 men. that is why i am always masturbating literally 4 -17 times a day
04/23/2012
kims89 kims89
LOVE!
08/27/2012
MissYouBubbles MissYouBubbles
mixed with your options there, love is the biggest thing for me, but at times I just lust after my hubby, but on the other hand I am also a visual person, so I might see something that will spontaneously fuel my sex drive, no pun intended but this is a hard question to answer
08/28/2012
chelly411 chelly411
Usually just lusting after my man gets me going.
09/01/2012
lia ayala lia ayala
lust
09/12/2012
SilverMinxxx SilverMinxxx
Love and lust
09/13/2012
SadoMas SadoMas
love, lust
09/13/2012
table38792 table38792
I don't know if it's exclusive. Love, lust, and fantasy get me worked up frequently.
09/13/2012
bunny love bunny love
Love and happiness.

I love rather rough and hard sex, but I lovvvveee having that underlying element of love and cuddles. I wouldn't have the kind of sex that I do with someone that I don't have feelings of love and happiness about. That's just not what I feel comfortable with.
09/13/2012
Rory Rory
Love!
09/13/2012
ellieprobable ellieprobable
Love! I get turned on by that easily.
09/14/2012
joelb42 joelb42
Love lust and fantasy.
09/16/2012
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