Who is kinkier? You or your partner(s)?

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Who is kinkier? You or your partner(s)?

Fuck it. Fuck it.
I think I'm more straight up kinky, but my partner is curious about a lot of things. If I give him some time, he might pass me on the kinky scale.
02/28/2011
ninaspinkturtle ninaspinkturtle
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
A lot of us here are pretty well sexually compatible with our current partners (some anyway) but it always seems like one is a little edgier than the other. Who is kinkier, you or your partner? And is the one answering, the man or the woman, and are ...
im deffinetly alot kinkier than my partner
02/28/2011
Sin Secret Sin Secret
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
A lot of us here are pretty well sexually compatible with our current partners (some anyway) but it always seems like one is a little edgier than the other. Who is kinkier, you or your partner? And is the one answering, the man or the woman, and are ...
I'm female in a hetero relationship. I'd say I'm generally much kinkier, especially when it comes to rougher stuff.
My partner is definitely up for just about anything but we don't do that much "kink", I think (honestly) that I have a hard time taking him serious/sexy when he's trying to be kinky >.<
02/28/2011
Wondermom Wondermom
we each have parts that are pretty kinky in different ways
04/30/2011
Linga Linga
I think we match up pretty well. We are both more than happy to indulge the other in their kinks and usually end up loving it too. Some of his fetishes quickly became mine too.
04/30/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
Sorry I had to vote "I don't understand" just to be funny. But I think my fiance and I can both be equally kinky. We're almost always on the same level during sex, but sometimes I'll be in the mood for slow love - and he wants some spanking and tying up... It's all good though. I enjoy it all in the end.
05/16/2011
big b big b
i am but the wifes not
05/16/2011
Miss Nessa Miss Nessa
Iam but he has his moments
06/06/2011
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
My gal & I are about the same on the kink scale. It might tip slightly towards me though
06/10/2011
ichigostrawberry ichigostrawberry
I think my partner and I are about even, really.
06/10/2011
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I'm female, in a straight relationship and my husband and I are about the same level, I might be slightly more, but not by much!
06/20/2011
Sinfully Sinfully
my bf is more kinky than me.
06/20/2011
yiin yiin
I am always willing to try something new. Thats actualy why i joined these forums i was hoping to find something i could convince my partner to try.
07/28/2011
virgomama616 virgomama616
I think I am kinkier, he is a little more reserved
07/28/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
Definitely me. I like rough sex sometimes and being submissive, and my hubby is always afraid to hurt me. It's kind of cute. As much as I'd love for him to expand our sexual boundaries, I would rather him be like that than be gung-ho to pull my hair and choke the heck out of me.
08/19/2011
Jenyana Jenyana
Yep, me? Kinkier. ALWAYS. No matter who I end up with. Haven't met someone who was my match yet.

Heck, when I lost my virginity, I suggested we had anal instead of vaginal sex... and I attempted to deepthroat him. Didn't work quite so well. XD
08/19/2011
Beaners Beaners
I went with my boyfriend is kinkier, but really we're probably closer to the same nowadays. When we first started dating, I was really only into some light bondage and spanking and stuff like that, very little toy use in the bedroom. Well, the first time I ever went over to his house he had a dildo, a butt plug, a glass toy, a harness, and some lube lined up on his dresser. (I know that sounds super classy on my part, but we'd been sexting for a month at that point, he just lived 3 states away.) I was like, "Oh, okay!" It was definitely experimentation on my part, but now I'm just as into all of it as he is.
08/25/2011
Screen Door Screen Door
We're both quite kinky, but he's more subdued.
08/25/2011
FaerieLove FaerieLove
Me and the man are always in Kink land
08/27/2011
sktb0007 sktb0007
I would say I initiate, but he is ready and willing
08/27/2011
Eliza Eliza
I wouldn't say either of us are very kinky, but I'm definitely more than my partner. He's not boring, though... just uninformed. :] We're learning a lot together.
01/24/2012
samanthalynn samanthalynn
him by far
02/01/2012
Teaser Teaser
I think I am probably kinkier and more willing to take risks in general. My wife is more conservative in general. But every one in a while she can REALLY surprise me!
02/01/2012
dks210 dks210
I'm open-minded, but he's the one with the legit fetishes.
02/03/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
B/both of U/us, but I am not only open but extremely interested in things too what He wonders about... ^^
02/12/2012
ViVix ViVix
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
A lot of us here are pretty well sexually compatible with our current partners (some anyway) but it always seems like one is a little edgier than the other. Who is kinkier, you or your partner? And is the one answering, the man or the woman, and are ...
I always seem to find very vanilla boyfriends. There has only been one man who has ever continually surprised me.
02/12/2012
Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
Luckily me and my husband are both on the same page with our sexuality. I think that's why we have such a great connection because we are so sexually compatible.
02/12/2012
Ahatmadeofshoes12 Ahatmadeofshoes12
In all my past relationships I (predominately straight female) have always been the kinkier and higher libido partner. That is until I met my current partner. We have so far been amazingly well matched in terms of kinkiness and libido.
02/26/2012
Brandonn Brandonn
Me for sure
02/26/2012
Harpina is gone Harpina is gone
My guy and I are about the same.
02/26/2012
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