Who is kinkier? You or your partner(s)?

teachmetouchme teachmetouchme
My partner, a man, is so into sex he makes me feel unimportant except as a sex partner. I would say I am more experienced and kinkier but he watches porn (I do not enjoy watching porn with or without him) and then expects sex to be like it is in the movies, which it is not (or is it?).

I like kink to come from the heart and not to use me as a substitute porn mate.

I am interested in any comments.
03/05/2012
Marcianpro Marcianpro
We're both equally dirty!
03/29/2012
Lizzy Lizzy
I'm pretty high up the kink meter
03/29/2012
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
Wow. 99 votes for females thinking they are kinkier but NO votes for females being kinkier. That is interesting...
03/30/2012
Ahatmadeofshoes12 Ahatmadeofshoes12
My partner is just as kinky as I am which is saying something.
05/03/2012
Chami Chami
my man is very kinky and i love most of the stuff he is into but there are some things he has talked about that im like oooo no i cant do that....but im sure i will be willing to try at some point
05/09/2012
VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
I had to choose "my sexuality is not listed". I'm female/genderfluid in a poly relationship with both a male and female partner.

I think we're all kinky in our own ways! I might be sliiiightly kinkier in some ways.
05/09/2012
charliehorse charliehorse
i'm always the the one wanting public sex (dressing rooms). but my boyfriend is always scared. :\
06/27/2012
epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
I'm more kinky for sure, my hubby is more traditional. since he's open minded for the most park we work things out nicely.
06/29/2012
maddameheather maddameheather
I'm way kinker then my bf but its okay
07/13/2012
Moniqua Moniqua
My husband is slightly more kinky but we are close.
07/13/2012
Zandrock Zandrock
I am. My girlfriend enjoys everything I enjoy, but she always says she is not creative like I am and simply cannot think up all the ideas I have.
07/16/2012
sweetiejo sweetiejo
I would be me, my boyfriend is more on the timid side when it comes to our sexual matters.
07/16/2012
sexykiss sexykiss
im more kinky then my gf
07/17/2012
breebree breebree
he has a crazy, great sex drive.
07/24/2012
quinceykay quinceykay
I'm definitely a lot kinkier than my boyfriend. He's extremely vanilla. :/ But I'm still satisfied.
07/24/2012
HarlequinBunnie HarlequinBunnie
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
A lot of us here are pretty well sexually compatible with our current partners (some anyway) but it always seems like one is a little edgier than the other. Who is kinkier, you or your partner? And is the one answering, the man or the woman, and are ... More
I'm kinkier than my husband by far and he loves me for it.
07/24/2012
gypsymama gypsymama
I am WAYYYYYYY more kinkier than my hubby, lol!
07/24/2012
WildeKnight WildeKnight
I'm pretty open-minded, but my wife is kinkier than I am.
07/24/2012
duff duff
I am but its cuz hub doesnt wanna do something that i dont like
07/24/2012
Nora29714 Nora29714
usually he is kinkier
07/26/2012
breebree breebree
new guy that im seeing is way more than me,i love it
07/27/2012
thisisadeletedaccount thisisadeletedaccount
I'm genderqueer and in a triad with one woman and one MAAB bigender femme, so there weren't appropriate boxes for me to check on this. I'm not sure which one of us in kinkiest - I'd say we're all kinky in our own way.
07/28/2012
butts butts
I think we're on the same level, maybe me slightly more.
07/28/2012
Vaginas Vaginas
I'm a female and I'm only slightly kinkier than my male partner
07/28/2012
Bittenflame Bittenflame
We are both kinky bitches her more so at times though
07/28/2012
Shadowed Shadowed
My boyfriend and I are probably about the same, 'kinkwise.'
08/22/2012
justme23 justme23
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
A lot of us here are pretty well sexually compatible with our current partners (some anyway) but it always seems like one is a little edgier than the other. Who is kinkier, you or your partner? And is the one answering, the man or the woman, and are ... More
I'm female, hetero relationship, we're evenly kinky in different ways.
08/22/2012
PeaceToTheMiddleEast PeaceToTheMiddleEast
I think I am kinkier then my partner.
08/22/2012
Leather & Lace Leather & Lace
I am the kinky one!
08/22/2012
Total posts: 140
Unique posters: 131