When having sex for the first time with a new partner, do you use the condom?

sexfairy sexfairy
I am very curious to know how it is for the majority when it comes to condom use. If you are not sure, just take the answer that would be what goes on for you most of the time. You are welcome to leave comments as well!
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
Yes, always, no matter what
39  (98%)
It depends on my feeling or on my mood at the time
It depends on what my new partner tells me
No, unless I have no choice
1  (2%)
No, no matter what
Total votes: 40
Poll is closed
07/23/2012
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Pixel Pixel
I use condoms with new partners every time. I don't consider stopping condom use until after I have seen recent STI testing results with that particular partner.
07/23/2012
AmethystSmoke AmethystSmoke
Absolutely use a condom the first time with a new partner - not negotiable! It's been a long time since I've had a new partner (current one has been around for almost 19 years LOL) but my deal is/was at least 6 months with barrier protection + test results before losing the condoms while continuing my birth control pills.
07/23/2012
Lady of the Lab Lady of the Lab
Quote:
Originally posted by Pixel
I use condoms with new partners every time. I don't consider stopping condom use until after I have seen recent STI testing results with that particular partner.
Ditto. In addition to safety & possibility of pregnancy, condom use for me is very important because I maintain a fluid bond with my primary partner.
07/23/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
Quote:
Originally posted by sexfairy
I am very curious to know how it is for the majority when it comes to condom use. If you are not sure, just take the answer that would be what goes on for you most of the time. You are welcome to leave comments as well!
Yes, definitely
07/23/2012
Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
yes, always
07/23/2012
sexfairy sexfairy
Quote:
Originally posted by Lady of the Lab
Ditto. In addition to safety & possibility of pregnancy, condom use for me is very important because I maintain a fluid bond with my primary partner.
Yes! Good thinking! I guess that it is very important as trust is determinant when it comes to health in sexual relationships... having clear boundaries or arrangement consolidates that trust.
07/24/2012
sexfairy sexfairy
Quote:
Originally posted by Pixel
I use condoms with new partners every time. I don't consider stopping condom use until after I have seen recent STI testing results with that particular partner.
Same here!
07/24/2012
Nacht Stern Nacht Stern
Yes!
07/25/2012
Rossie Rossie
Definitely yes.
07/25/2012
cricket cricket
Yes always
07/25/2012
Envy Envy
Always. Can't be too careful!
07/25/2012
EdenUser EdenUser
Quote:
Originally posted by sexfairy
I am very curious to know how it is for the majority when it comes to condom use. If you are not sure, just take the answer that would be what goes on for you most of the time. You are welcome to leave comments as well!
Yes.
07/26/2012
yummyinmytummy yummyinmytummy
It's non-negotiable
07/28/2012
ellieprobable ellieprobable
Not even up for discussion.
08/19/2012
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by sexfairy
I am very curious to know how it is for the majority when it comes to condom use. If you are not sure, just take the answer that would be what goes on for you most of the time. You are welcome to leave comments as well!
Yes always
10/19/2012
JennSenn JennSenn
Yes always.
10/19/2012
Beautiful-Disaster Beautiful-Disaster
yes
10/19/2012
Love Lula Love Lula
Absolutely yes. I don't even consider going condomless with male partners until we've both been tested and we've discussed the terms of our relationship (monogamous, causal, etc).
01/30/2013
MsDrProfKitty MsDrProfKitty
I ALWAYS use a condom no matter what! I still use condoms with my SO of more than 2 years. I have a phobia of getting pregnant during this time of my life
01/30/2013
novanilla novanilla
When I have sex with cismen I always use a condom with partners unless we've talked about it and are both fully aware that we are clean and have been checked since our last partner(s). I do the same with people with strap ons but if they had sterilized it beforehand I would go without.
01/31/2013
bratcat bratcat
While i answered "yes, always, no matter what," i feel its kind of hypocritical for me to not mention that i have twice had an encounter with a stranger and we did not use protection or talk about sexual history (such as discussing stds) and it was very very immature and irresponsible for me to have done.
02/01/2013
Cowgirl-Cutie Cowgirl-Cutie
Definitely!!
02/01/2013
Alyona Alyona
Yes, always, no matter what
02/11/2013
Total posts: 24
Unique posters: 22