Ben Wa Balls Being Lost?

I have these, and I admit the first time I used these I was afraid they were not going to come back out. I used the same technique that Alicia recommended and it was fine. I have yet to try an exerciser with a retrieval cord but I will in the future to make things easier.

The vagina is not an endless cavern of twists and turns like the intestines. Even if you really try, you won't get these past the cervix. And don't try, because that would hurt. Your muscles will be working to keep these from exiting, but they won't be sucking them further in like with peristalsis.

If you're really worried, you can buy something with a cord. In addition to the excellent products listed above, there are also these (link) which are a little more disposable, but good for experimenting.

I have those exact ones. I bear down or reach in there and get them. It isn't the same as putting them in your butt, which very well could bring on an ER visit. You'll find them.

I use smartballs myself... but I remember this conversation with a good friend about her benwa balls.

She said the first time she could not retreive them she panicked and panicked hard. Then? She learnt. Stand up, turn on a funny movie and laugh. Her words, "You'll be birthing benwa balls like there is no tomorrow!!!"

I was scared of this too. I got ones that were smaller then these. The first time I used them I wore them for a bit then had sex with them in. My vagina seems to swell inside after sex. I started to panic because I was missing one so I sat on the toilet and tried to push/flex it out. Well it came out so fast I couldn't catch it and down the pipe it went. I was really funny because my boyfriend was standing in the bedroom while I was trying to get it out and heard the loud bang it made falling into to toilet. After being threw that I really had no reason to freak, they are heavey enough they will come out. I just wanted it out NOW.

I've always been afraid of this too, thanks for this thread - put me at ease immediately.

your vagina is not an everlasting cave; it's actually a few centimeters/ inches shallow (i want to say 4- 5inches). trust me, just finger around for a couple minutes and you'll be able to retrieve them. eden wouldn't sell a toy that would cause an ER visit. hope this helps

I don't think they can "get lost". Just reach in and get them out.

i have never had a problem loosing balls

I've seen them one here, and I know they can't get "lost", but I could see them getting stuck or something happening. Would be interesting to try, but seems a little sketchy. Something with a cord seems better for me.

I wouldn't be the slightest bit nervous. If they get deeper in, they may be a little challenging to get out, but they're not going to get stuck or lost. If you're that nervous, go with something that has a cord.

you... CAN'T get them LOST. That doesn't make sense. Your vagina doesn't lead into the rest of your body like your butt. The cervix is WAY too tight to allow anything but liquid through it unless you JUST gave birth an hour ago, believe me, I got an IUD implanted and even a tiny 3mm-ish rod was insanely painful and difficult. If you have an especially lengthy canal and short fingers, just squat. Squatting makes the vaginal canal compress and shorten greatly, you should have no problems touching your cervix and retrieving anything pushed far up there. You could always get a small wooden spoon and fish them out if all else fails, it'd be an insane waste of money to go to the ER. (I only say wooden because metal ones tend to have sharper edges)

In fact, I'd bet money that JUMPING while pushing your kegel muscles would push them RIGHT out.

loved the review