Ben Wa Balls Being Lost?

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Ben Wa Balls Being Lost?

Taargus Taargus
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How often would you say that these balls COULD get lost inside of you? I'm really nervous that I'll have to go to the E.R. or something if I cannot find them inside of me. It creeps me out that they're in there, unattached to anything. Although I really am interested in using them for purposes of better sex.
10/28/2010
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Alicia Alicia
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Originally posted by Taargus
How often would you say that these balls COULD get lost inside of you? I'm really nervous that I'll have to go to the E.R. or something if I cannot find them inside of me. It creeps me out that they're in there, unattached to anything. ...
Well, I don't think they could really get lost, there's only so far they could go, ya know? Most times I find that with my vaginal balls I can push them out by using my muscles, it's basically the same muscles you use to make a BM. If you have had kids, it's the same muscles that you use to push a baby out. Bearing down like that should help push a ball to the point that you can grab it.

That being said, there are plenty of vaginal exercisers that have retrieval cords. Smartballs, Luna Beads, Emigi, etc. Maybe check out one of those if it'd make you feel more comfortable.
10/28/2010
Waterfall Waterfall
I have these, and I admit the first time I used these I was afraid they were not going to come back out. I used the same technique that Alicia recommended and it was fine. I have yet to try an exerciser with a retrieval cord but I will in the future to make things easier.
10/28/2010
ToyGeek ToyGeek
The vagina is not an endless cavern of twists and turns like the intestines. Even if you really try, you won't get these past the cervix. And don't try, because that would hurt. Your muscles will be working to keep these from exiting, but they won't be sucking them further in like with peristalsis.

If you're really worried, you can buy something with a cord. In addition to the excellent products listed above, there are also these (link) which are a little more disposable, but good for experimenting.
10/29/2010
Kim! Kim!
I have those exact ones. I bear down or reach in there and get them. It isn't the same as putting them in your butt, which very well could bring on an ER visit. You'll find them.
10/29/2010
VenusianThunder VenusianThunder
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Originally posted by Waterfall
I have these, and I admit the first time I used these I was afraid they were not going to come back out. I used the same technique that Alicia recommended and it was fine. I have yet to try an exerciser with a retrieval cord but I will in the future ...
This is what I am afraid of. Glad I read this before buying. I will probably go with something that has a retrieval cord at first.
01/12/2011
clp clp
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Originally posted by Kim!
I have those exact ones. I bear down or reach in there and get them. It isn't the same as putting them in your butt, which very well could bring on an ER visit. You'll find them.
Yups, the rules change for anal. Things CAN get lost up there!
01/12/2011
Anorea Anorea
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Originally posted by Taargus
How often would you say that these balls COULD get lost inside of you? I'm really nervous that I'll have to go to the E.R. or something if I cannot find them inside of me. It creeps me out that they're in there, unattached to anything. ...
I have these and it just takes a little practice to use the muscles to push them out, or at least close enough to grab them. The only problem I had in the beginning was that I pushed them in too far accidentally, and they were harder to get out. Worth it though. I can feel how they have already strengthened my muscles even though I have only used them a few times.
01/31/2011
CASpookygirl CASpookygirl
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Originally posted by Taargus
How often would you say that these balls COULD get lost inside of you? I'm really nervous that I'll have to go to the E.R. or something if I cannot find them inside of me. It creeps me out that they're in there, unattached to anything. ...
When I did adult toy home parties I used the analogy that the vagina is a cul-de-sac, what goes in, must come back out because there is no where else to go. Unless one is dilated to give birth, then I would refrain from sticking ANYTHING in there Where as the anus is a two way street, and what goes in can go all over, so don't stick anything in there that you can't have a firm grip on the entire time you are using it, preferably with a wide base and a handle!
02/01/2011
Woman China Woman China
I use smartballs myself... but I remember this conversation with a good friend about her benwa balls.

She said the first time she could not retreive them she panicked and panicked hard. Then? She learnt. Stand up, turn on a funny movie and laugh. Her words, "You'll be birthing benwa balls like there is no tomorrow!!!"
02/07/2011
Choolz Choolz
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Originally posted by Taargus
How often would you say that these balls COULD get lost inside of you? I'm really nervous that I'll have to go to the E.R. or something if I cannot find them inside of me. It creeps me out that they're in there, unattached to anything. ...
Nothing can get lost in there. It's an enclosed area and there isn't anything at all that you can stick in and have it lost or move to another part of your body.

They may move up out of your reach but with some squatting, and 'fishing' around you can get them(or anything) out!
02/19/2011
Alyxx Alyxx
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Originally posted by Taargus
How often would you say that these balls COULD get lost inside of you? I'm really nervous that I'll have to go to the E.R. or something if I cannot find them inside of me. It creeps me out that they're in there, unattached to anything. ...
They can't really get "lost" in you like things can do if you insert them anally. The reproductive system is pretty closed off, the only place for them to go from your vagina is your uterus, and for that to happen your cervix would have to be dilated, so there's no real worries. The only thing that can happen is that they get a little further than you can reach. The best solution is to squat down and push with your muscles, and a cough will always help, it makes those muscles contract.
02/25/2011
SapphirexIce SapphirexIce
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Originally posted by Taargus
How often would you say that these balls COULD get lost inside of you? I'm really nervous that I'll have to go to the E.R. or something if I cannot find them inside of me. It creeps me out that they're in there, unattached to anything. ...
All you have to do is bare down and pop em out if not scoop it out with you clean fingers. that easy.
03/01/2011
NaughtyNikki420 NaughtyNikki420
I was scared of this too. I got ones that were smaller then these. The first time I used them I wore them for a bit then had sex with them in. My vagina seems to swell inside after sex. I started to panic because I was missing one so I sat on the toilet and tried to push/flex it out. Well it came out so fast I couldn't catch it and down the pipe it went. I was really funny because my boyfriend was standing in the bedroom while I was trying to get it out and heard the loud bang it made falling into to toilet. After being threw that I really had no reason to freak, they are heavey enough they will come out. I just wanted it out NOW.
03/02/2011
724-6924 724-6924
I've always been afraid of this too, thanks for this thread - put me at ease immediately.
05/29/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
your vagina is not an everlasting cave; it's actually a few centimeters/ inches shallow (i want to say 4- 5inches). trust me, just finger around for a couple minutes and you'll be able to retrieve them. eden wouldn't sell a toy that would cause an ER visit. hope this helps
06/20/2011
slynch slynch
I don't think they can "get lost". Just reach in and get them out.
06/20/2011
Rain. Rain.
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Originally posted by Woman China
I use smartballs myself... but I remember this conversation with a good friend about her benwa balls.

She said the first time she could not retreive them she panicked and panicked hard. Then? She learnt. Stand up, turn on a funny movie and ...
Lol! Great tip I be sure to keep it in mind
06/24/2011
jakhammer jakhammer
i have never had a problem loosing balls
09/25/2011
mistressg mistressg
I've seen them one here, and I know they can't get "lost", but I could see them getting stuck or something happening. Would be interesting to try, but seems a little sketchy. Something with a cord seems better for me.
09/26/2011
Katastophy Katastophy
I wouldn't be the slightest bit nervous. If they get deeper in, they may be a little challenging to get out, but they're not going to get stuck or lost. If you're that nervous, go with something that has a cord.
09/26/2011
butts butts
you... CAN'T get them LOST. That doesn't make sense. Your vagina doesn't lead into the rest of your body like your butt. The cervix is WAY too tight to allow anything but liquid through it unless you JUST gave birth an hour ago, believe me, I got an IUD implanted and even a tiny 3mm-ish rod was insanely painful and difficult. If you have an especially lengthy canal and short fingers, just squat. Squatting makes the vaginal canal compress and shorten greatly, you should have no problems touching your cervix and retrieving anything pushed far up there. You could always get a small wooden spoon and fish them out if all else fails, it'd be an insane waste of money to go to the ER. (I only say wooden because metal ones tend to have sharper edges)

In fact, I'd bet money that JUMPING while pushing your kegel muscles would push them RIGHT out.
01/10/2012
Badass Badass
loved the review
01/14/2012
Melissa Smith Melissa Smith
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Originally posted by Waterfall
I have these, and I admit the first time I used these I was afraid they were not going to come back out. I used the same technique that Alicia recommended and it was fine. I have yet to try an exerciser with a retrieval cord but I will in the future ...
I'm hoping to get one with a cord next time too. These did not work well for me at all!
01/24/2012
mlgrant mlgrant
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Originally posted by Taargus
How often would you say that these balls COULD get lost inside of you? I'm really nervous that I'll have to go to the E.R. or something if I cannot find them inside of me. It creeps me out that they're in there, unattached to anything. ...
I'm thinking the same thing! lol
02/13/2012
SecretToyLover2 SecretToyLover2
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Originally posted by Taargus
How often would you say that these balls COULD get lost inside of you? I'm really nervous that I'll have to go to the E.R. or something if I cannot find them inside of me. It creeps me out that they're in there, unattached to anything. ...
Honestly, unless you just had a child two weeks ago, they can't get lost. There's nowhere for them to go.
02/13/2012
Yellenath Yellenath
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Originally posted by SecretToyLover2
Honestly, unless you just had a child two weeks ago, they can't get lost. There's nowhere for them to go.
I didn't even think this would be a possibility! Now I have to try this with my bf....
04/08/2012
tigertiger tigertiger
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Originally posted by Taargus
How often would you say that these balls COULD get lost inside of you? I'm really nervous that I'll have to go to the E.R. or something if I cannot find them inside of me. It creeps me out that they're in there, unattached to anything. ...
hmm idk but i probably would not want to risk it
05/14/2012
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