WHO buys the condoms?

Rossie Rossie
Who buys the condoms, you or your partner? When we're shopping at Costco, my husband always makes ME pick up and pay for the condoms, he's too embarrassed to do the task.
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Sam (aka Jul!a), Ryuson, Squeaky, CoffeeCup, Liz2, TameTemptress, BobbiJay, Ms. Spice, Do-Re-Mi, FleurDevereux, Eva Schwaltz, grrrl, tripod
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Doah, Lily Night, slynch, rom323, Hallmar82, Howells, Boink, longhairmexman87
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Sam (aka Jul!a), Coralbell, Sapphires13, MaryExy, Elnoa, LilLostLenore, Teacookie, SMichelle, zwee75, darthkitt3n, Holly Hox, OhMy!, eeep, Valentinka, alistair, Liz2, Jessica (Buttercup Green), Zombirella, DynamicKitty, Diabolical Kitty, Undead, NarcissisticLust, mikebooks, mpfm, sktb0007, ////, Modern^Spank^Anthem, robotry, DeliciousDrip, sweetiejo, Masokisti, bballard3, DesAndShawnCoupleReviews, ily, tripod, Lucky21, urhappybunnie, tigertiger, Stormy, Melan!e, sunkissed05
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CreamySweet, Elnoa, aliceinthehole, Lummox, married with children, sexygoddess, Undead, csdx, Kallisto, fredacarl, richsam, Stormy
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Do-Re-Mi, FleurDevereux, grrrl
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Hallmar82
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Doah, Coralbell, Rin (aka Nire), JustLikeHeaven, Mumzyfy, greed
Total votes: 84 (72 voters)
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Jan 3, 8:06 pm
Sam (aka Jul!a) Sam (aka Jul!a)
My husband can buy the condoms, but he has no problem with using whatever I pick up.
Jan 3, 11:49 pm
CreamySweet CreamySweet
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Originally posted by Rossie
Who buys the condoms, you or your partner? When we're shopping at Costco, my husband always makes ME pick up and pay for the condoms, he's too embarrassed to do the task.
We dont and even back in high school I didn't. BUT Ihave to tell a cute funny story from yesterday. My husband and I were in walmart in the fish tank isle which is right down from the fem. Sups. And condoms. As we were standing there we notice the cute young couple standing about as far back as you could from the condoms to still be able to read the boxes but obviously looking at them. They kept glancing around and were nervous as a cocaine dealer at a police drug dog training convention. She would lean in close to him and say something and he would scoot close, look, and then jump back like it was a snake. By this point we were looking but trying to not be obvious. He finally turned and walked away and she scooted up to reaching distance. She looked like she was going to pass out as she reached out and snatched a little 3 pack box from the shelf and tried to hide it in her palms as she scurried away like a squirrel with a nut. It was so cute to see because you know they are so new to sex and so innocent. I remember those days way back when. Good for them. Hope they have an awesome time together learning all the pleasures in life.
Jan 4, 12:21 am
Doah Doah
I am male and I buy condoms a hundred at a time. It's inexpensive and it lasts forever.
Jan 4, 12:22 am
Ryuson Ryuson
I'm a female and I buy them! I forgot to check that it's because he's embarrassed! He has a social anxiety disorder, though, so it's not uncommon for me to have to do most of the shopping anyways.

Now I buy them online in bulk, which is a lot cheaper and less hassle!
Jan 4, 1:16 am
Coralbell Coralbell
Where's the option for "My partner buys the condoms"?

We made a deal that he would be responsible for the condoms because I'm responsible for my birth control pills. But I have no problem buying them. Sometimes I grab a pack on my way over to his house if we ran out and he hasn't had a chance to go to the store.
Jan 4, 1:16 am
MaryExy MaryExy
I don't have much of a preference. I just make sure that I talk to a new partner about it before any awkward "oh, you didn't bring condoms either?" moments.
Jan 4, 2:02 am
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Who buys the condoms, you or your partner? When we're shopping at Costco, my husband always makes ME pick up and pay for the condoms, he's too embarrassed to do the task.
we don't use condoms, fluid-bonded. but when i was single i'd always get them free at local planned parenthood or AVOL (aids volunteers of lexington) or local kink shops.
Jan 4, 2:20 am
LilLostLenore LilLostLenore
my bf buys them.
Jan 4, 2:22 am
Sapphires13 Sapphires13
It's something I feel like both partners should take equal responsibility for.
Jan 4, 2:38 am
Curiouscat Curiouscat
Either. Though he usually does.
Jan 4, 2:45 am
zwee75 zwee75
Either. Whoever is at the store.
Jan 4, 7:27 am
Holly Hox Holly Hox
Either one of us will buy them. But we only use them around the time I ovulate, so one box can last us a while.
Jan 4, 10:57 am
Rossie Rossie
Quote:
Originally posted by Coralbell
Where's the option for "My partner buys the condoms"?

We made a deal that he would be responsible for the condoms because I'm responsible for my birth control pills. But I have no problem buying them. Sometimes I grab a pack on my way over to ... More
Oops, that choice slipped my mind, good thing I did put "Others".
Jan 4, 5:53 pm
married with children married with children
we dont use condoms, but when we did both of us would purchase them.
Jan 5, 11:28 pm
Rin (aka Nire) Rin (aka Nire)
Well, I don't have a partner, so I don't use them. Though if I did and he was shy, I wouldn't mind picking them up. I'd prefer it if we both could do it, though.
Jan 7, 10:57 pm
SThr SThr
He normally goes and gets them and carries them, mostly because we live in the town I grew up in and see tons of disapproving people who go to my old church.
Jan 7, 11:43 pm
sexygoddess sexygoddess
We don't use them atm..
Jan 10, 4:06 am
alistair alistair
We don't usually buy them
Jan 11, 10:47 am
Liz2 Liz2
I usually buy them as I like to experiment, looking for the ideal condom. The majors keep changing their types and styles.
Jan 11, 11:08 am
TameTemptress TameTemptress
When we were dating, he bought them most of the time. Every once in awhile I would. Once we got married, I bought them if we were going to use them.
Jan 11, 11:53 am
EvilHomer EvilHomer
I can't remember who bought our bulk order last go round, about an 18 month supply.
Jan 11, 11:54 am
Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Who buys the condoms, you or your partner? When we're shopping at Costco, my husband always makes ME pick up and pay for the condoms, he's too embarrassed to do the task.
We don't really use them unless I'm on an antibiotic and since we're engaged &want a child we haven't used them even then for awhile because if something should happen, then so be it. We aren't trying to have yet but condoms just take away too much feeling to both of us. But when we have used them either of us would buy them, if we were together at the store though I'd just let him
Jan 11, 12:27 pm
DynamicKitty DynamicKitty
Hubby and I don't use condoms, but we both buy them for use with toys or play partners.
Jan 11, 1:06 pm
Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
We both buy condoms.
Jan 11, 1:12 pm
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Who buys the condoms, you or your partner? When we're shopping at Costco, my husband always makes ME pick up and pay for the condoms, he's too embarrassed to do the task.
Either one of us do, it doesn't have to be just me or just her.
Jan 11, 1:27 pm
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
Who buys the condoms, you or your partner? When we're shopping at Costco, my husband always makes ME pick up and pay for the condoms, he's too embarrassed to do the task.
My boyfriend and I usually buy the bulk pack from link and split it.
Jan 11, 2:27 pm
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
We only use condoms when my wife forgets to take her pill. Which is in her best interest for non-reproductive effects.
Jan 21, 9:01 am
sktb0007 sktb0007
Neither of us have a problem picking them up.
Jan 21, 12:32 pm
Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
go together
Jan 21, 1:53 pm
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