Crying during sex?

The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I have never cried during or after sex.
08/30/2011
dawnkye dawnkye
I've never cried, but I am curious about it happening organically. What would trigger it, how would I feel, and so on. So curious.
08/31/2011
EJ EJ
I've cried a lot during sex, particularly during my first few years with my current guy. It didn't seem to be attached to a particular thought or emotion that I could tell. I had learned about "muscle memory" in massage school and just figured that maybe I was releasing some sort of past trauma when we had intercourse. He was okay letting me cry it out (once he understood that he wasn't hurting me), and now it rarely happens.
09/01/2011
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
I have cried both during and after. Certainly has to do with an outpour of emotion.
09/01/2011
Jaimes Jaimes
Yes. It's weirdly uncontrollable, and always an overwhelming feeling of love.
09/01/2011
Screaming Violet Screaming Violet
I used to do it when I was around 21. It started to really bother my pertner at the time and almost destroyed our sex life - which in hindsight I do understand. It was around the time I was diagnosed as having endometriosis, not sure if it was in anyway related. but it certainly did feel like a rush of hormoanes making me burst into tears (not just a few tears, rather I cried ike a baby)

Im just glad it hasnt happened for a very long time!
09/02/2011
FleurDevereux FleurDevereux
Me and my husband have both cried during and after sex. Not neccessarily because of pain or sadness or being overjoyed. But we are very open especially with each other emotionally. We've also laughed histarically before, during and after. And everything in between.
09/02/2011
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
The first time I had a really good g-spot orgasm from my girlfriend, I cried during and after the sex. The range of emotions it brought on were great. It was amazing and for a while she was worried that she'd hurt me or that it wasn't good. But I assured her it was because it felt so amazing.

She's gotten a little teary-eyed before, but hasn't actually cried yet. Her getting the pleasure is still kind of new since she was always the one to give and not receive because she never wanted to, felt comfortable with it, and didn't want to get attached to anyone.
09/09/2011
Jenyana Jenyana
Nope, never happened to me... I imagine my partners would get very worried if I did, considering I'm usually laughing before, during and after sex... guess the intense emotions and sensations affect us all differently? ^^U
09/09/2011
mizzmilla mizzmilla
Yeah two or three times! mostly after g-spot or close to g-spot ones. She just holds me until I'm done. One time I just couldn't stop crying though, for like ten minutes.. she was wonderful though and never once was upset or discouraged by it.
09/09/2011
NavyDoll87 NavyDoll87
The first time I ever cried during sex was with my husband. He has been the only man to hit my G-spot enough to make me do that. I was so embarrassed, but he loves it so much, he tries to get me to do it all that time just to watch me cry. lol
09/10/2011
hiroshiro hiroshiro
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Originally posted by P'Gell
I have sobbed during extremely powerful orgasms, especially if it was a while since I had had one. My Man takes it in stride and will usually just carry on, as he knows that's what I do.

I have also cried at times when I can't come. ... More
Can I steal that? I like the phrase 'ravishment play' (and don't have enough excuses to use RAVISH! in my daily life.)
09/10/2011
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
A few times I'm so emotionally moved and deeply touched spiritually after sex, and I cried when that happened.
12/23/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
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Originally posted by ElleBee
Sometimes, most certainly not all the time, I get teary eyed or even cry a bit after an orgasm. Almost always a G-spot orgasm. Something about it is so intense and so overwhelming that I get sort of emotional. I can't even describe the feeling. ... More
Not during, but after.
12/23/2011
Zombirella Zombirella
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Originally posted by ElleBee
Sometimes, most certainly not all the time, I get teary eyed or even cry a bit after an orgasm. Almost always a G-spot orgasm. Something about it is so intense and so overwhelming that I get sort of emotional. I can't even describe the feeling. ... More
never
01/01/2012
Teacookie Teacookie
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Originally posted by ElleBee
Sometimes, most certainly not all the time, I get teary eyed or even cry a bit after an orgasm. Almost always a G-spot orgasm. Something about it is so intense and so overwhelming that I get sort of emotional. I can't even describe the feeling. ... More
cried after first orgasim at age 23 and a few times since when I could mover afterwards.
01/01/2012
solita solita
The only time I cried during sex it was because I was upset; I was having sex with the wrong person. Thankfully, the person I was having sex with was kind, and stopped immediately, cuddled me until the tears stopped, and took a shower with me.
01/01/2012
Khanner Khanner
This has only happened once. The combination of alcohol and horniness sort of opened some emotional channel where my brain was telling me I had to process negative feelings about my personal life right then and there.

We had a talk and then we fucked. It wasn't a bad experience.
04/04/2012
Caus Caus
I've never cried during or after sex. It's an interesting thing to read about, though. From what I've seen, it's fairly common.
04/04/2012
dks210 dks210
Nope, can't say that's happened to me.
04/05/2012
roskat roskat
Hasn't happened to me so far.
04/05/2012
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
As a submissive who enjoys pain, I have cried during and after sex.
04/06/2012
geliebt geliebt
The only time I legit CRIED after sex was during a big extended awful breakup, the sex was emotional, I was so sexually frustrated I wanted to scream until my throat bled, I had no emotional stability, and when we had sex it was so unsatisfying and awful, I just couldn't hold back at all. It was horrible.
Otherwise, I haven't had very very strong emotional reactions to sex. Certainly not to orgasms, since I need clitoral stimulation to orgasm and so far have had only two orgasms with a partner, ever.
The second time I had a sort of reaction was quite recently, actually from a serious session of fingering with a brand new partner. This was a play partner and not someone I'm romantically involved with, so it was a tiny bit weird anyway, and I finally felt RELIEF after more than a year of sexual frustration. I did have to hold back tears afterwards, but it was a positive feeling nonetheless. Just overwhelmed!
04/08/2012
Terri69 Terri69
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Originally posted by ElleBee
Sometimes, most certainly not all the time, I get teary eyed or even cry a bit after an orgasm. Almost always a G-spot orgasm. Something about it is so intense and so overwhelming that I get sort of emotional. I can't even describe the feeling. ... More
I have never cried during or after sex, I found your poll very interesting.
04/08/2012
Lickable Lollie Lickable Lollie
This literally just happened to me. It's only happened to me 3 times before and I think it has something to do with having a real connection with the person you're having sex with. That's just my personal view though.
04/28/2012
Bex1331 Bex1331
I never have but I don't want to post no because sometimes I get the strongest urge to but I have no idea why, never actually have though
04/28/2012
socceras socceras
I get emotional but never tears
04/28/2012
Chami Chami
i believe its just the intensity of it but i have before....not often but i have
04/29/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
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Originally posted by ElleBee
Sometimes, most certainly not all the time, I get teary eyed or even cry a bit after an orgasm. Almost always a G-spot orgasm. Something about it is so intense and so overwhelming that I get sort of emotional. I can't even describe the feeling. ... More
I’ve never cried during sex because of an intense orgasm or anything. But once I was upset about something that he had done earlier that day and I started crying, but he never found out… I wasn’t crying loadly
04/30/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by ElleBee
Sometimes, most certainly not all the time, I get teary eyed or even cry a bit after an orgasm. Almost always a G-spot orgasm. Something about it is so intense and so overwhelming that I get sort of emotional. I can't even describe the feeling. ... More
loudly*
04/30/2012
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