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Has anyone had the Depo shot with a really bad outcome? My best friend is struggling with infertility after being on Deop for four years. Her step mother had her get the shot at 14, yes, 14 years old. She has been off since she was 18 and has yet
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Has anyone had the Depo shot with a really bad outcome? My best friend is struggling with infertility after being on Deop for four years. Her step mother had her get the shot at 14, yes, 14 years old. She has been off since she was 18 and has yet to have a steady period. She just started having one a year or so ago. Needless to say she can't get pregnant. She's spoken to doctors and all that good stuff. I am just wondering if anyone else has infertility issues and has taken this birth control.
Women are supposed to have had regular periods for at least a year BEFORE any hormonal birth control is used. Did she have a child BEFORE the Depo shot? If not, why was she "forced" to get one? The doctor who did it broke the law, if she didn't agree to it. Even at 14, she has rights.
I had Depo, and had some nasty side effects (complete cessation of periods, NO sex drive (I didn't think that was possible for me, but evidentially it is) 45 lb weigh gain etc.) It took me 6 or 9 months to get a period after my last shot......and I got pregnant less than a year later. I also have bones as hard as rocks.
I have had no Osteoporosis, despite being petite and having had children, and being considered "Caucasian." I've had bone scans, because my mother has Osteoporosis, but she smokes like s chimney, and never used any birth control. I am "supposed to" get osteoporosis, but so far, no problems. Most of the studies linking osteo with Depo were flawed and done by people already suing the maker of the drug. I'm not saying it's the best form of BC, I hated it. But, for some people, especially people who refuse to take responsibility for their fertility, it seems to be a good option.
Depo Provera, despite it's side effects is NOT a permanent form of birth control. It prevent ovulation, but nothing in it's make up will last "forever." She may have other health issues, and really needs to see a fertility specialist to find out what the problem is.
She should start with a good OBGYN and see what he or she can do, and then move on to a fertility specialist.
But, nothing in the formulation or working of Depo causes permanent infertility. It doesn't damage the ovaries, it doesn't destroy eggs, and eventually the periods will return. In long term studies, ALL women who were previously fertile had a return of fertility within a year or two after Depo.
HOW LONG has she been off of it? You said, "Since she was 18" but how old is she now? If she has "spoken to doctors" did she not express her fears? I'm a nurse and any decent OBGYN or fertility specialist WILL take a woman's fear of infertility seriously. What did the doctors say to her? What tests have they done? Does she have a diagnosis?
How long has she been off the Depo? Fertility can take up to 2 years to return. Usually, women are fertile after their first period, but some take longer to regain ovulation. But, nothing in the drug has been linked to infertility in good studies, and most women who have taken it HAVE gotten pregnant after the drug wears off. In fact, we see a lot of women who are simply "late" for their shot showing up pregnant.
It seems like she needs to be more proactive on her own behalf on getting answers from her doctors.
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