We use withdrawal (hey Planned Parenthood actually considers it a good method for people in a monogamous, committed relationship.)
I am allergic to so many things (latex etc) and the Pill makes me sick and I have had too many female Plumbing problems to use the IUD. Spermicides burn like hell (I'm probably allergic to those, too.)
I really would like My Man to get a vasectomy. He said, "If we ever have an other pregnancy scare, I'll do it." We had one about 3 months ago (I skipped a period, but wasn't pregnant, but the suspense was awful) but he hasn't done it yet. Several of his buddies have had them, and they just rave about how great it is, and how it didn't hurt etc. He's never had any surgery, and rarely goes to a doctor. I really think this would be best, but I can't make him.