Excuses vs. Reasons

Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
It's rarely me that doesn't want sex - but I don't make excuses if it happens. My wife on the other hand used the tired and headache excuses on a regular basis - thankfully she doesn't do that anymore. Now when she says she's too tired or has a headache (it happens), I can believe her and give her the space she needs to recover.
04/28/2013
Sbmsvschoolgirl Sbmsvschoolgirl
I have no reason to make an excuse. Usually I'm just tired, and I can't enjoy it when I'm tired, so I just say so. We can make up for it in the morning
04/28/2013
oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
I almost never say no to sex. The only situation I can think of is that I'm on my period which I'm upfront about.
05/05/2013
novanilla novanilla
There is no need for me to lie so I just tell it like it is. I might lie if I was with someone as a hook up and the reason was embarrassing or they would think it was a lie or I just wanted to get out as soon as possible, but not with my partner.
05/05/2013
wicked48 wicked48
I always tell the truth
07/24/2013
stacylyn12 stacylyn12
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
When you're not up for having sex, how often do you give your partner an excuse? Example: You say you have a headache when you really don't.

How often are your reasons actually honest?
real reason
08/05/2013
peppermintgal peppermintgal
I just say I'm not in the mood and can we have a raincheck.
09/15/2013
HannahPanda HannahPanda
I always give the true reason.
09/17/2013
edeneve edeneve
when I was in my 30's, learned to be honest sexually in all areas.
09/17/2013
Thong man Thong man
I am always willing to have sex.
09/17/2013
Lullaby~ Lullaby~
I tell the truth. Nobody worth having sex with would make a big deal if I legitimately didn't want to
09/17/2013
~*Damia*~ ~*Damia*~
Quote:
Originally posted by PropertyOfPotter
When you're not up for having sex, how often do you give your partner an excuse? Example: You say you have a headache when you really don't.

How often are your reasons actually honest?
my ex partner when i wasnt in the mood would often just keep asking till i gave in or got pissed and moved to the couch
10/07/2013
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