I'm So Confused! Need some help about G-Spot/P-Spot/and Other Stuff

So if i am not mistaken the P-spot is the prostate which is only on a man. Which would be the come hither in the direction of the belly button on a dude the G-spot is yes the come hither to the belly button on a woman. If i do the come hither enough and hard enough on myself or my husband does it it makes me squirt. So i dont know if that counts as a g-spot orgasm. I am not sure what the P-spot on the woman would be?? you got me there never heard of that. All i know is chicks have a g-spot men have a p-spot. hope this helps. less

Found this:

• What is the P–Spot?
The P–Spot is the specific spot named by me in the honour of Poornachandra Nadi, as mentioned in the book Anangaranga, an ancient Indian Kamashastra (science of sex) text of 16th century. This is an area full of secretory glands in the para–urethral region. This is responsible for the ejaculatory orgasm of the woman. This is a new concept in the female sexuality. This explains the finding of some of the scientists that some women do have discharge through their urinary tract at the time of orgasm. Most women do ejaculate when their G–Spot is stimulated. But some may ejaculate even without the stimualtion of the G–Spot. This latter condition can be explained by the postulation of the P–Spot.

Read it on this site.

I had never heard of such a thing either. less

Found this:

• What is the P–Spot?
The P–Spot is the specific spot named by me in the honour of Poornachandra Nadi, as mentioned in the book Anangaranga, an ancient Indian Kamashastra (science of sex) text of 16th century. This is an area full of secretory glands in the para–urethral region. This is responsible for the ejaculatory orgasm of the woman. This is a new concept in the female sexuality. This explains the finding of some of the scientists that some women do have discharge through their urinary tract at the time of orgasm. Most women do ejaculate when their G–Spot is stimulated. But some may ejaculate even without the stimualtion of the G–Spot. This latter condition can be explained by the postulation of the P–Spot.

Read it on this site.

I had never heard of such a thing either. less

Thank you!!! I looked up a diagram and wanted to ask you:


Looking at this diagram, it would make sense that the perineum is stimulated by inserting the toy vaginally, and having the curve facing backwards (the opposite direction of the belly button). But this "P" spot (according to the toy's included diagram) also seems to be stimulated on one of the diagrams by inserting the toy into the anus, with the curve facing the opposite way (again, away from the belly button). Wouldn't the curve need to be directed towards the belly button when inserted into the anus for it to stimulate this area? less

Not necessarily. The toy being inserted anally will cause pressure on the perineum. Think of it this way: the sphincter muscle gets spread, putting pressure on all surrounding tissue. The only reason (I believe) that the same idea doesnt apply vaginally is because there isn't a muscle in the right place to put indirect pressure on the perineum from the "walls" less

Hey everyone who was interested!

I received a response from the company. This is what they said:

The P-spot stands for the spot located opposite to the G-spot, in the opposite side of vagina. It resembles the male P-spot and it is very sensitive for both men and women.

Hm... so is this response talking about the prostate? Or is it confirming what Mr. Willy was saying? I feel that it's quite vague. I think I prefer Mr. Willy's explanation lol. less

In my honest and humble opinion (as I do not claim to be an expert by any means) this is just creative marketing.

Take an erogenous zone everyone has (the perineum in this case), take the first letter, and a hyphen and spot.

There you have it! A brand new marketing tool!


I'm oversimplifying things I'm sure, but realistically that seems to be what is going on here.

All of this is related to the Pudendal Nerve which actually is responsible for ennervating the exterior genitals in both sexes. Stimulus to the perineum stimulates this nerve in both males and females (no offense to anyone that doesn't identify either way. I am speaking in a purely anatomical/biological sense). The spasms that are unequivocally essential for a physical orgasm, are cause by stimulation of this nerve and the nerves that branch from it. Consider this nerve the trunk of your tree of sexuality.

It's confusing and misleading that they are using it as another spot to try to sell women toys because it does seem to just be creative marketing, although I've yet to meet a woman who didn't like being touched/licked/rubbed between the posterior side of her vaginal opening and her ass hole.


At it's simplest: Yes, toys marketed for the "female p-spot" will indeed stimulate the perineum and the pudendal nerve.. but the P-spot is the prostate. Any other use of it is creative marketing and the invention of another selling feature.


I'm not bashing the company for creativity, and as I don't know what toy you are speaking of I'm not bashing a particular toy... but this can certainly lead to confusion for everyone. I think it stems from not wanting to put overly clinical sounding terms on a toy box.



In lay-mens terms: Play with yourself and see if you like the sensations you get from the space between your pussy and ass. If you do, go for it.. but it shouldn't be called the p-spot on women's toys. less

In my honest and humble opinion (as I do not claim to be an expert by any means) this is just creative marketing.

Take an erogenous zone everyone has (the perineum in this case), take the first letter, and a hyphen and spot.

There you have it! A brand new marketing tool!


I'm oversimplifying things I'm sure, but realistically that seems to be what is going on here.

All of this is related to the Pudendal Nerve which actually is responsible for ennervating the exterior genitals in both sexes. Stimulus to the perineum stimulates this nerve in both males and females (no offense to anyone that doesn't identify either way. I am speaking in a purely anatomical/biological sense). The spasms that are unequivocally essential for a physical orgasm, are cause by stimulation of this nerve and the nerves that branch from it. Consider this nerve the trunk of your tree of sexuality.

It's confusing and misleading that they are using it as another spot to try to sell women toys because it does seem to just be creative marketing, although I've yet to meet a woman who didn't like being touched/licked/rubbed between the posterior side of her vaginal opening and her ass hole.


At it's simplest: Yes, toys marketed for the "female p-spot" will indeed stimulate the perineum and the pudendal nerve.. but the P-spot is the prostate. Any other use of it is creative marketing and the invention of another selling feature.


I'm not bashing the company for creativity, and as I don't know what toy you are speaking of I'm not bashing a particular toy... but this can certainly lead to confusion for everyone. I think it stems from not wanting to put overly clinical sounding terms on a toy box.



In lay-mens terms: Play with yourself and see if you like the sensations you get from the space between your pussy and ass. If you do, go for it.. but it shouldn't be called the p-spot on women's toys. less