If you found out you were pregnant today...

KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
I recently had a miscarriage so i was told that it wasnt safe for me toget pregnant for 1-2 years. it could be fatal to both me and the baby. so with that being said i would sadfully haave to abort. it would be heartbreaking but lifesaving.
01/16/2013
Jennifer87 Jennifer87
We have 2 boys right now (3 yrs and 5 1/2 mo) so I would be on the fence, but think I would be mostly happy. But then worried about bills and stuff because its hard enough with 2 for us right now.
01/20/2013
xcapricax xcapricax
For me it would depend on who the babys daddy is.
01/20/2013
chicmichiw chicmichiw
Oh, that's rough. This is not the time in my life, I need to work on that first.
01/21/2013
LoooveMonkey LoooveMonkey
I'd do something about it. No way can I have a kid. It would ruin our lives.
01/21/2013
Meido Meido
I'd be surprised, one because I'm not ready for a child and two I'm on my period right now so I would wonder what was up.
01/21/2013
TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
I would be extremely scared. It's not that I wouldn't want the baby, but because of my IUD. Not safe for either the baby or me. Extremely dangerous.
02/25/2013
twelve13 twelve13
I would get an abortion.
02/26/2013
spineyogurt spineyogurt
id be confised
02/26/2013
XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
I would love to have another child.
02/26/2013
Missy27 Missy27
I would be overwhelmed because we already have two kids and are happy with our family as is and my husband had a vastetomy so is would definitely be unplanned. That being said, we have always agreed that if I would get pregnant after his surgery, it was meant to be and we would embrace it as a blessing.
02/26/2013
Hummingbird Hummingbird
Ecstatic that I could be so at my older age when I gave it up so long ago....
02/27/2013
Qozt Qozt
Worried, anxious, upset. I would definitely get abortion. I don't want a child right now and I don't think I ever will.
02/27/2013
Tom Dogface Tom Dogface
i would not be happy at all
02/27/2013
hillys hillys
I would be confused because I haven't done anything sexual for awhile.
02/27/2013
socceras socceras
I don't want to get pregnant but if I ended up pregnant I would keep my baby.
02/27/2013
LexiKitten LexiKitten
I am in no position for a baby. Too much work and school.
02/27/2013
earthmama earthmama
I would not know what to do about that in my current situation, and it would be complicated on every possible level. But... I have one child, and I would probably figure a way to make it work out, even on my own. I don't think I could go through with an abortion even if it was convenient. Adoption, maybe.
03/10/2013
Genderfree Genderfree
I'd be very confused because my partner is sterile. But I would also be relieved because I would probably be having a lot of mood-swing sympoms/etc and not know what was going on until I find out I'm pregnant. I'd have an abortion, because the safety of the child would be at stake if i took testosterone.
03/10/2013
GonetoLovehoney GonetoLovehoney
I'd abort it immediately and have some words with my doctor who successfully sterilized me. If it somehow failed, I'd expect a re-do free of charge!
03/11/2013
bayosgirl bayosgirl
Quote:
Originally posted by KinkyNicki92
I recently had a miscarriage so i was told that it wasnt safe for me toget pregnant for 1-2 years. it could be fatal to both me and the baby. so with that being said i would sadfully haave to abort. it would be heartbreaking but lifesaving.
I am sorry for your loss.
03/11/2013
snowminx snowminx
I would just feel horrible
03/11/2013
Noelle Noelle
Quote:
Originally posted by Lildrummrgurl7
If you or your partner found out you were pregnant today, with your current life situation, how would you feel and what would you choose to do?
FREAK OUT since my tubes are tied!!
03/11/2013
angelcrossmarie1 angelcrossmarie1
I'd freak out. I'm 20 and a college drop out with only a little work here and then. I couldn't support a child and I can't even think about having to make a decision like abortion or adoption. I actually worry about this because I am on depo but me and my bf have unprotected sex and I do fear becoming that 1 in 100 statistic. :O
03/12/2013
Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
I Would be pretty freaked out because i just had a baby thats 7 months old so having another right now would be crazy and not in the plan but i would of course keep it and love it unconditionally and enjoy having two babies. I would then march my husband down and have him immediately snipped, no more babies after that.
03/12/2013
Munko Munko
We're thinking of trying for #2 right away, so if #2 wants to come along on their own terms before then, yay! Trying was not so much fun last time around, so I'd really rather it happen on it's own this next time. I'd be worried and anxious too, though. I'm not back on my prenatals and supplements yet, need to be eating better, etc. before we go for #2
03/15/2013
Rhazya Rhazya
I'd want to contact the news or head to The Vatican to report my immaculate conception, as it's been several years since I've been touched. I can't help but laugh hysterically when a doctor asks if I may be pregnant. I give them the immaculate conception answer too.

Seriously though, if I was sexually active, I'd be scared sh*tless. I'm not in a position in life where I can afford taking care of me, much less anyone else. I like kids, don't want to have them. I'd give the child up for adoption, I wouldn't do an abortion as it was my/his/both our faults for not being more careful. That being said if I was raped, I'm going to abort. I'm not going to carry a reminder of that for 9 months and possibly have one in my life even longer.
03/15/2013
KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
Definitely hope that I do not have to deal with this situation. I am definitely not ready for kids. I don't actually think I want them ever.
03/15/2013
Evgeny  Kravtsov Evgeny Kravtsov
Upset
03/19/2013
froggiemoma froggiemoma
I would be HAPPY, I got my tubes tied during my previous marriage that I just knew would last forever.... then after 9 years divorced. I am married again and wish more than anything I could have a child with him.
06/27/2013
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