Is sex without a condom much better than with?
I'd do anything to avoid using a condom. In HS it was coitus-interuptus - these were pre-AIDS days - in college and everyone was on the pill. Once I got married my wife was either on the pill or we were planning on a family. After our second she had her tubes tied - so maybe I'm going to set a record for a modern sexually active male! Never once used a condom!
Ironically I do have condoms that I put on a jelly dildo my wife likes - but the material is not safe - so I protect her with the condom.
Ironically I do have condoms that I put on a jelly dildo my wife likes - but the material is not safe - so I protect her with the condom.
10/25/2010
I think it feels a lot better but I can't say I wouldn't ever go back. I mean if I was sleeping with someone new I definitely would until I felt safe enough to go without. I have an IUD in place which makes STDs even riskier and definitely not something I want to mess around with in my life. Tests and a certain level of trust and commitment would be required before we went without.
10/26/2010
Sooo much better. I've had sex with a lot of people, and I mean a lot without a condom, and it's NOT something I would suggest to anyone because hello? Infections? Disease? Death? Pregnancy?
But it hurts so good.. I'm so lucky to never have gotten anything or had any pregnancy scares. Condoms just feel so cold and disconnected. I'd rather go back to being a hooker than not have that flesh to flesh connection with someone I actually cared about.
But it hurts so good.. I'm so lucky to never have gotten anything or had any pregnancy scares. Condoms just feel so cold and disconnected. I'd rather go back to being a hooker than not have that flesh to flesh connection with someone I actually cared about.
10/27/2010
After repeated difficulties with various hormonal birth control products, we used only condoms. The answer was to find condoms that actually fit comfortably. I now have an IUD which I totally love. My partner accepted condoms after we found a type that fit him comfortably. we did miss the flesh to flesh contact and I would certainly use condoms with a new partner but that's not on the horizon for now.
10/27/2010
I never cared for them, never used them with my husband save for a bit after I had our youngest son before my husband's vasectomy was done. We had planned it for a few weeks after he was born, and then I think the waiting time after that is like a month to ensure that all the sperm is gone, so with waiting after having a baby..I think we only ended up having to use condoms a handful of times.
When we got together we were monogamous, had been tested and I was on another form of BC so we just never used them.
When we got together we were monogamous, had been tested and I was on another form of BC so we just never used them.
10/27/2010
What is this "condom" you speak of? What's a condom? Just kiddin'.
We've been married for like a hundred years, so I haven't worn one since the 1980's. Dang, just typing that makes me feel old. I remember it like it was just yesterday, listening to a Journey cassette playing through those crappy paper speakers in the back of dad's Chevy Chevette. Go ahead and laugh, but those we're good times!
But anyways...it may feel better without a condom and it's certainly more convenient, but is it worth the risk? Not for me. There is just no way that I would have unprotected, non-monogamous sex today. It is simply not worth the risks.
We've been married for like a hundred years, so I haven't worn one since the 1980's. Dang, just typing that makes me feel old. I remember it like it was just yesterday, listening to a Journey cassette playing through those crappy paper speakers in the back of dad's Chevy Chevette. Go ahead and laugh, but those we're good times!
But anyways...it may feel better without a condom and it's certainly more convenient, but is it worth the risk? Not for me. There is just no way that I would have unprotected, non-monogamous sex today. It is simply not worth the risks.
10/27/2010
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For us convenience is never more important than pleasure - bring on the ejaculation and gushing!
Originally posted by
leatherlover
We use condoms almost all of the time because of not having as much of a mess when we are finished. We both prefer the feeling of sex without condoms, but we don't do it too often.
Just wondering - how do you control the 'mess' from vaginal lubrication or even gushing - is there a condom for that too?
10/27/2010
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While yes it is better without a condom, I will only go bareback with a trusted lover. My partners and I are tested twice a year and use condoms when we are with new playmates that we can't be absolutely sure of.
Originally posted by
socceras
I have always used a condom but I have heard that sex without it is so much better
11/03/2010
