Ladies, are you always "wet enough" to at least start "playing" down there?

Bignuf Bignuf
I read so much here about "dependence" on lube, and dryness. How common is this? I tend to stay "wet" always. I am "wet enough" that my hubby can penetrate me comfortably in my sleep (I always wake up with a smile if he does that) or just pop it to me if I bend over to pick up dog toys (sometimes I do it as a tease, other times it is a surprise...but hey, it is all good. What better way to get a quicky and break the monotony of chores??? Anyway, of course, when "turned on" I get REALLY soaked, and YES, after a while of "friction" I too use and enjoy lubes, but I am talking about initial, right now, are you wet enough for comfortable penetration? The fact I am over fifty now makes me THINK that if all I hear is correct, I SHOULD have "vaginal dryness" (you hear enough ads about things to help it)!!! Thankfully, no issues yet. SO...again, HOW COMMON IS IT TO STAY WET or run DRY mostly???
Answers (public voting - your screen name will appear in the results):
I stay pretty wet.
Beck , Kitka , ghent529 , leanright69 , HotMess;) , hhh , Lioncub , ellieprobable , Pinkshirt , Bex1331 , Tangles , LadyDarknezz , hot lil momma , Rawr4483 , *Camoprincess* , PropertyOfPotter , Ryanne , travelnurse , SadoMas , kitty1949 , indiglo , PepperPot , SMichelle , Noelle , SavingMyself , Serenesub , Vaginas , Apirka , Coralbell , Nyx (Under the Covers)
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Unless I'm "turned on" I stay more dry.
- Kira - , HB042 , sexxxkitten , interestingstuff , bayosgirl , LAndJ , Bullfroggy and Rose , OhMy! , Rossie , JennSenn , Lildrummrgurl7 , Gunsmoke , Alyona , Girly Juice , ksparkles16 , funluvinmama , Zandrock , Clara , glitterbombs , MrsHouseWife , blondie , kendra30752 , Rin Rin , Intrepid Niddering , Danneh , Khanner , AmethystSmoke , sweetpea12 , LavenderSkies , SadoMas , melissa1973 , Gone (LD29) , kitty1949 , indiglo , hawaiian chick , Squirtz Starz , Deeder , neon , KittenPrincess , AliMc , Leather & Lace
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I stay "dry" even if turned on....need lube before ANY penetration.
- Kira - , joolie , Deeder , Vanille , Checkmate
5
Other?
solitudinarian , Khanner
2
Total votes: 78 (72 voters)
Poll is closed
08/14/2012
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- Kira - - Kira -
I used to be like that before I had my son. Now I need lube. Sometimes if I'm turned on enough I'll create lubrication, but sometimes I won't. If it weren't for lube I'd have no sex life. I'm only 27, so I don't know that it has everything to do with age.
08/14/2012
Beck Beck
I am a very juicy woman most of the time.
08/14/2012
Kitka Kitka
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Originally posted by Beck
I am a very juicy woman most of the time.
Same here
08/14/2012
bayosgirl bayosgirl
I'm pretty dry when not aroused, except during certain times of the month (i.e. ovulation.)
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LAndJ LAndJ
I need a little help in terms of a little mental or physical stimulation.
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HotMess;) HotMess;)
Honestly the only time I ever need lube is for anal purposes. I've had fun with lube, but it has never been necessary.
08/14/2012
Bullfroggy and Rose Bullfroggy and Rose
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Originally posted by LAndJ
I need a little help in terms of a little mental or physical stimulation.
same here
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ellieprobable ellieprobable
I've never needed much lube.
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Pinkshirt Pinkshirt
I'm wet most of the time
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Rossie Rossie
I'm getting old, I need lube unless my husband work on me.
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Bex1331 Bex1331
I'm naturally pretty wet
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JennSenn JennSenn
I can be wet, but I'm pretty tight and unused to penetration so I need to be wetter and therefore at least slightly turned on to start playing. Basically I can stick a finger in anytime and maybe two fingers but any more than that and I need help or to be turned on.
08/14/2012
Lildrummrgurl7 Lildrummrgurl7
I used to be pretty wet naturally but since I've been on birth control, it takes a little bit before I'm wet enough or I'll need lube.
08/14/2012
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
My wife is typically wet enough for normal sex - but we always use lube for toys.
08/15/2012
solitudinarian solitudinarian
If I've had sex earlier that day, I generally stay wet for a few hours afterwards. I need a bit of foreplay to become wet enough for sex. I almost always use lube for toys, but only use it for sex if it's an extended session.
08/15/2012
Tangles Tangles
I'm never completely dry, but it takes some playing to get me somewhere.
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Girly Juice Girly Juice
The only time I get really, really wet is when I've gotten close to orgasm or have actually reached orgasm. At that point, I can be penetrated without lube... but I prefer it with lube because then I can be fucked rougher and longer without pain or irritation.
08/15/2012
LadyDarknezz LadyDarknezz
It isn't hard to get me wet and I stay that way constantly. However, I still have problems with penetration, no matter how lubricated I am. Damn finicky vagina...
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ksparkles16 ksparkles16
I usually use lube with my toys regardless, unless it's something like steel or glass which is slick.
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Zandrock Zandrock
Takes foreplay
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justme23 justme23
Always wet enough. Especially just from some kissing.
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glitterbombs glitterbombs
If I'm turned on I don't need lube (though I still like it) but at an average moment throughout the day not so much.
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Rawr4483 Rawr4483
I'm usually pretty wet after a tiny bit of foreplay.
08/15/2012
*Camoprincess* *Camoprincess*
If I am having actual intercourse then no I don't need lube I am naturally wet and juicy as my partner calls me. When I am playing with toys yes I opt for a lube since most of my toys are silicone. Glass toys I don't really use lube
08/16/2012
MrsHouseWife MrsHouseWife
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Originally posted by Bignuf
I read so much here about "dependence" on lube, and dryness. How common is this? I tend to stay "wet" always. I am "wet enough" that my hubby can penetrate me comfortably in my sleep (I always wake up with a smile if he ... More
I tend to be on the dry side unless i am extremely horny or turned on. It does sometimes take me a while to get wet enough for penetration and I will have to add lube after a while. I have heard and found the more water you drink or hydrated you are the more wet you become and stay.
08/16/2012
joolie joolie
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
I read so much here about "dependence" on lube, and dryness. How common is this? I tend to stay "wet" always. I am "wet enough" that my hubby can penetrate me comfortably in my sleep (I always wake up with a smile if he ... More
Bignuf you are so blessed!
08/16/2012
sktb0007 sktb0007
No. Thank god for lubricant! lol
08/16/2012
kendra30752 kendra30752
Quote:
Originally posted by Bignuf
I read so much here about "dependence" on lube, and dryness. How common is this? I tend to stay "wet" always. I am "wet enough" that my hubby can penetrate me comfortably in my sleep (I always wake up with a smile if he ... More
I wouldn't say mine is dry -- not usually anyway. But I'm super narrow down there so if I'm not REALLY wet, penetration is quite painful for the first several minutes. Unfortunately though, even with extremely wet (45 mins of oral!) and I still have the pulling/tearing happen! So we have to go slow during the very first couple of minutes. Usually it's just the outside though, the innards are plenty wet enough, but the outside is the spot where I have pain and tears too often too. Really lube won't do much better since it's already wet, but sometimes I use lube on the outer area to help the pulling.

So I guess I am just really, really weird, but we never go into intercourse (rarely) without oral first and that's always enough for me to be way wet.

Just wet enough for penetration any ol' time of day? Hell no! If we tried it say right now, OUCH! No. Foreplay is a must or it's painful.
08/16/2012
Khanner Khanner
I think I'm in the medium range of wetness. But for me, it doesn't much matter how wet I am, I need time to "open up" as well. Adding lube doesn't help for this. Once I get started, I rarely need lube, though.
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