Orgasm confusion

Katarina Britt Katarina Britt
I posted before about not being able to have orgasms. But I've come to notice something else during the attempt to make it happen. It seems the only time I really feel anything that makes it fee like "something" might happen, is when we are in the 69 position and he's on top. After awhile, about ten minutes, I will get a sudden tingly feeling and then it's like a huge rush of it all centralized to my genitals at once. As soon as that dies off, and he continues, it hurts. Unbelievably bad. And I start to have an anxiety attack because I get really scared and don't like what I'm feeling.

Does anyone know why this is? It makes me really concerned, because it feels so good, and then suddenly feels awful.
May 8, 6:28 pm
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edeneve edeneve
after a clit orgasm, mine becomes very sensitive. it's very normal. any more stimulation of my clit does hurt. I stop my lover at that point telling him I'm too sensitive.
May 9, 12:01 pm
Katarina Britt Katarina Britt
Quote:
Originally posted by edeneve
after a clit orgasm, mine becomes very sensitive. it's very normal. any more stimulation of my clit does hurt. I stop my lover at that point telling him I'm too sensitive.
Does that mean that what I felt was actually an orgasm? Because it wasn't this amazing, awesome feeling like most people describe. It felt good, but it wasn't fantastic.
May 9, 1:38 pm
edeneve edeneve
sounds to me like you had an orgasm. and regarding how others experience one, well you just can't compare yourself to them. everyone is different. it's possible that if any further stimulation after orgasm is stopped, & over time having orgasms, your orgasms may become stronger. my suggestion is to relax & enjoy what you experience. you'll be able to enjoy sex more, that is, w/ the stopping of continuing stimulation when it is uncomfortable or especially when it hurts.
May 9, 2:05 pm
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