Sex noises?

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Sex noises?

eri86 eri86
At this point in time I've always been a solo player when it comes to sexual pleasure, and I make little to no noise during the entire process. I can't even think of a time when an orgasm made me moan.

Noises may be natural, but for me personally, they feel, and sound fake. And I feel silly making them on purpose. Maybe that would be different if I had an audience I was making sounds for, but right now I doubt it.

I get that communication with a partner is key-"That doesn't work, that does, so-on-and-so-forth"-bu t how much does moaning and all those other little sounds play into it?

Do you like it all the much? Or are you like me, making little noise, or have a partner who makes little noise?
12/23/2013
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Rossie Rossie
My sex noise level reflects the intensity of my sexual enjoyment and I never fake it. I make less noise when I'm masturbating, but my moaning can get pretty loud during sexual activities involving my husband, because it's much more satisfying when he's the one pleasuring me.
12/23/2013
cummingcouple cummingcouple
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Originally posted by eri86
At this point in time I've always been a solo player when it comes to sexual pleasure, and I make little to no noise during the entire process. I can't even think of a time when an orgasm made me moan.

Noises may be natural, but for me ...
I like hearing the natural man moans and encourage him to speak and make noise but If I'm overly vocal sometimes I notice and think I'm being too loud or obnoxious like a porn actress. My normal noises are just whimpers with some sex talk thrown in there.
12/23/2013
edeneve edeneve
I just naturally moan just as I naturally squirm w/ pleasure.
12/23/2013
Rossie Rossie
Forgot to mention...we both find it rewarding to hear each other moan delightedly during sex -- indicating that we are both contented with what the other one is doing.
12/23/2013
wrecklesswords wrecklesswords
I like it a lot, but my last and current partners are both a little quiet. My ex-girlfriend would curl her toes rapidly when orgasming and my fiance rolls his eyes to the back of his head and breathes heavier.

I, however, make a TON of noise and sometimes have to be shushed considering my fiance lives in a duplex of sorts, so there are others that can hear us very well. I make less noise when it doesn't feel good, or I'm focusing too much on something else. When masturbating, my noise level depends on if I'm in the house alone or if others are home.

My fiance does like hearing me, though, and he likes it even better when he's masturbating and then I start masturbating to help him get off. Hehehe, it's a fun game.
12/25/2013
Ansley Ansley
For us, it's an essential part of our time together in the bedroom. If I'm too quiet he thinks I'm not interested and vice versa. Over-the-top porno soundtracking is a no-go though. I can't vocalize something I don't feel.
12/26/2013
charmedtomeetyou charmedtomeetyou
I agree that when I'm solo the noises are virtually non-existent, and when we're together the noises act as a barometer of how it's going. That being said, I never exaggerate or make porn noise.
12/26/2013
ticklemepink93 ticklemepink93
Before being with my current partner, I was a silent solo. My partner used to be quiet, but has now become more vocal upon some discussion around the topic. I, however, am quite loud during sex. Moaning makes it that much more enjoyable for me!
12/26/2013
Oriental husband and wife Oriental husband and wife
I make more noises than her. It takes a lot to get her going. I feel she is on the shy side though. When she does make noises, it really excites me though. Actually works against things because it makes me cum faster.
12/26/2013
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
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Originally posted by Rossie
My sex noise level reflects the intensity of my sexual enjoyment and I never fake it. I make less noise when I'm masturbating, but my moaning can get pretty loud during sexual activities involving my husband, because it's much more satisfying ...
Same here. Although whenever having an orgasm and it feels amazing I'm a noise maker...sometimes I get extremely loud, usually with my partner, but sometimes alone.
12/26/2013
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by Oriental husband and wife
I make more noises than her. It takes a lot to get her going. I feel she is on the shy side though. When she does make noises, it really excites me though. Actually works against things because it makes me cum faster.
Yeah that is the only downside. I'm ready for another thirty minutes and he's doing everything he can to hold back.
12/27/2013
gothikstars gothikstars
If it makes you feel better, I don't make a lot of noise during solo-play either. My breathing might increase or I might make some small sounds, especially when reaching orgasm but otherwise, I'm pretty quiet. When with a partner, I am more vocal but that's mainly because communication is important. Making porn sounds during sex, though, is a little silly (unless that's how someone is naturally) and you shouldn't make yourself feel like you need to make noises just to please another person.
Jan 1, 5:56 pm
keep it sexy keep it sexy
Quote:
Originally posted by eri86
At this point in time I've always been a solo player when it comes to sexual pleasure, and I make little to no noise during the entire process. I can't even think of a time when an orgasm made me moan.

Noises may be natural, but for me ...
I am loud. Different people like different things. From my experience, guys love it and feel like it's kinky. Making noises lets your partner know if you like what they're doing.
Jan 21, 1:53 am
Velociraptor Velociraptor
We're both silent, though mostly out of necessity - we live with other people.
Feb 10, 4:56 pm
MaeGal MaeGal
I use to be silent, now I make noise. But nothing over the top, usually. Sometimes I just can't help myself.
My boyfriend is usually pretty quite, sometimes makes some noise.
Feb 20, 12:52 am
epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
Quote:
Originally posted by Rossie
My sex noise level reflects the intensity of my sexual enjoyment and I never fake it. I make less noise when I'm masturbating, but my moaning can get pretty loud during sexual activities involving my husband, because it's much more satisfying ...
I feel the same way
Mar 13, 5:10 pm
epiphanyjayne epiphanyjayne
I love it when my hubby makes noise I kinda get off on it. It can make a big difference to know he's loving what he's feeling. I hate when he's quiet then I don't know where he's at how close he's getting and such. I don't have nearly as good a time when he's quiet. Sometimes I can't even orgasm when he's too quiet. Being quiet during masturbation is pretty normal but when your with another person it's about letting go and expressing your enjoyment.
Mar 13, 5:15 pm
Glinteye Glinteye
I'm pretty loud. It really adds to it for, sort of tapping into an animalistic raw thing.
Mar 29, 5:08 pm
CinnamonNights CinnamonNights
Noises generally don't happen for me solo until the "big landslide". Then I can either be pretty tame level of noise, orrr ridiculously loud. Kinda depends on just how much privacy I have.

As for the noises of another: I essentially have a kink for it, I adore it and it generally revs my engine pretty easily.
Exceptttt for the exaggerated pornstar sounding ones. That kinda does the opposite for me. Very much a turn off.

I actually kinda wish my mister would make a bit more noise when we do things, he's essentially completely silent unless if he's talking. Unfortunateee, but he just doesn't make much noise so tiz fine enough. I find it more attractive when one naturally makes noise rather than just sorta forcing out. Tiz very attractive to me partly because it expresses pleasure, if you're not really feeling it that kinda removes all of the hotness of it.
Apr 1, 11:22 am
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
I have been silent my whole life, masturbating or with a partner, but once I got with a partner and had the opportunity to make noise, apparently, noises came out on their own, lol! It shocked the hell out of me! But as others have said, it delights many a male & female, lol!

I also LOVE hearing a guy moan,or whatever vocalizations, it cranks my motor! But, it's about knowing someone is beyond being able to stifle it that lets you know your partner is having a great time (which in turn lets me relax about that aspect). I think we all find over the top porn sounds annoying, certainly in real life. I think it's the repetitive, constant nature of them, plus their over the top, seemingly unrelated to any action sounds that turn me off big time. I mute the porn most of the time, but then I get mad because I like the other noises, dammit! I just don't want to listen to screeching the whole time! But show me someone truly getting off, making genuine sounds and you somehow know the difference and wow! Now that never grows old! And lest you think it's all about noise, it's not! It's the other reactions, too, or instead, such as faster breathing, clenching, all the other more subtle clues. I would be fine with a silent, or a louder partner, as long as they are just genuinely themselves! It's just easier to tell how you are doing when the person makes some noises to clue you into what they like, that's all. Now, grabbing my hair and holding me harder, or something, is pretty damn effect communication, too, lol!
Apr 1, 8:46 pm
TexasBrat TexasBrat
Quote:
Originally posted by eri86
At this point in time I've always been a solo player when it comes to sexual pleasure, and I make little to no noise during the entire process. I can't even think of a time when an orgasm made me moan.

Noises may be natural, but for me ...
I LOVE noises during sex. Especially the ones that have verbal encourages in them. Or my name, I LOVE hearing my name. Oh yeah!!
Apr 6, 9:37 pm
virgomama616 virgomama616
I love hearing my hubby moan and talk! He used to be silent while I was the loud one.
Jun 24, 12:28 am
Trixxxy Trixxxy
I know exactly how you feel. I make no noise at all when I masturbate except for during an orgasm. During sex it just kind of trickles out on it's own.
Jul 20, 2:20 am
SexScienceAndFood SexScienceAndFood
neither of us are that noisy, but we do aim to tease out some light moaning and swearing :-D
Jul 20, 7:02 pm
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