I shave. Usually leave a landing strip or something. I've always felt WAY sexier without pubic hair, and during an extended hospital stay/period of bed rest where I couldn't shave, it sucked
I never felt RIGHT! I prefer that my partners shave, as well.
I must say that I hate it when other women say they don't shave because they don't want to look "like a little girl." It's my business what I do with my pubic hair. You feel free not to shave, and as long as that works for you, great! But I feel insulted when people say that. There's a difference between the genitals of a child and those of a grown woman, other than the presence of hair... I hate to rant, I just can't stand it :\ Live and let live, yes?