So many terrible things happen due to lack of education. I'm all for ways to minimize that.
Should it be socially acceptable for young females to masturbate and/or use sex toys?
11/05/2012
Because I am a nurse and what I see in the emergency department, I am all for it!! You can't get pregnant, you cannot get diseases. It doesn't beat up you up or take advantage of you. Use all they toys you can !!
11/05/2012
It would be lower kids having kids for more girls to being doing this instead
11/05/2012
I think everyone has the right to touch themselves
11/06/2012
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i agree!
Originally posted by
Selective Sensualist
I would have chosen "Yes, females should be taught and able to masturbate guilt free AND use sex toys if they want to. Even under the age of 18" IF one thing were not included: "should be taught."
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I would have chosen "Yes, females should be taught and able to masturbate guilt free AND use sex toys if they want to. Even under the age of 18" IF one thing were not included: "should be taught."
I don't think boys are necessarily "taught" how to masturbate. I think masturbation should be respected as self-exploration and remain completely self-directed. If a child (male or female) wants to seek out advice on how to explore their bodies and pleasure themselves with better techniques, s/he should have this option. But seeking out information should be on their own terms, and I don't think we should be forcing information on them. less
I don't think boys are necessarily "taught" how to masturbate. I think masturbation should be respected as self-exploration and remain completely self-directed. If a child (male or female) wants to seek out advice on how to explore their bodies and pleasure themselves with better techniques, s/he should have this option. But seeking out information should be on their own terms, and I don't think we should be forcing information on them. less
11/06/2012
It would be nice if everyone loosened up about masturbation, especially for girls. They experiment and explore and shouldn't be made to feel guilty or dirty for it. Not sure about the legal age for toys. My daughter had a bullet before I did, when she was fourteen or fifteen. I don't know where it came from but was sort of happy for her when I saw it.
If young women had access to toys made for that purpose they wouldn't be as likely to use something unsafe...
If young women had access to toys made for that purpose they wouldn't be as likely to use something unsafe...
11/07/2012
I bought my sister a vibrator for her sixteenth birthday and told her that I wasn't going to lecture her about sex (as long as she was being safe), but that I wanted her to have a vibrator because I think that women who know their bodies are able to make better decisions. (We live in different countries, so I don't get to see her often enough to be a real resource.)
I personally have masturbated since childhood and while there was some social shame/stigma to negotiate (I wasn't open about it), I feel so grateful that I've gotten to know my body. Orgasms are great stress relievers and under times of pressure it just feels really healthy to connect with my body and feel what I'm feeling.
I personally have masturbated since childhood and while there was some social shame/stigma to negotiate (I wasn't open about it), I feel so grateful that I've gotten to know my body. Orgasms are great stress relievers and under times of pressure it just feels really healthy to connect with my body and feel what I'm feeling.
11/08/2012
Once I introduce the topic of masturbation and sex toys to my daughterfans then only offer to get her sex toys if she promised to wait about having sex until she was older at least 18. I might see it different when I have a child and if that child is a girl. That is how I am thinking right now.
11/09/2012
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I couldn't agree with you more
Originally posted by
ToyGurl
Hey everyone. My name is Mandy and I promote masturbation and safe sex in my area in hopes to lower the rate of teen pregnancy, STD, and abortions. Masturbation is good for anyone in so many ways, and I'm sure many of you know that since you are
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Hey everyone. My name is Mandy and I promote masturbation and safe sex in my area in hopes to lower the rate of teen pregnancy, STD, and abortions. Masturbation is good for anyone in so many ways, and I'm sure many of you know that since you are on a sex toy site! Masturbation, mutual masturbation, etc. can be substituted for unsafe sex as well.
In many places, including America, it is very taboo for young women under the age of 18 to masturbate or use sex toys. However, everyone knows men jack off, and not too many people have a problem with that. As I grew up, my younger brother of only 11 years old always got a lock on his door, and private time at night (obviously so he could whack it). However, I myself, NEVER got a lock on my door and was not even allowed to sleep without clothes on. I had several talks about why masturbation is not acceptable. I find it funny how something as private as masturbation is something that young girls are persecuted about. My best friends younger sister said she loves to masturbate to relax, but feels guilty about doing so. Please tell me your thoughts below and pass this poll on to your friends! I am using this poll in my studies at my next meeting No names will be used, just percentages. less
In many places, including America, it is very taboo for young women under the age of 18 to masturbate or use sex toys. However, everyone knows men jack off, and not too many people have a problem with that. As I grew up, my younger brother of only 11 years old always got a lock on his door, and private time at night (obviously so he could whack it). However, I myself, NEVER got a lock on my door and was not even allowed to sleep without clothes on. I had several talks about why masturbation is not acceptable. I find it funny how something as private as masturbation is something that young girls are persecuted about. My best friends younger sister said she loves to masturbate to relax, but feels guilty about doing so. Please tell me your thoughts below and pass this poll on to your friends! I am using this poll in my studies at my next meeting No names will be used, just percentages. less
11/09/2012
Yes, females should be taught and able to masturbate guilt free AND use sex toys if they want to. Even under the age of 18. (explain)
11/09/2012
i have a daughter. shes the one that told be about this site. any way i would not buy her toys but would not say anything is she got her own. i would not snoop in her room to see. i would not want to know that she had any at that age
11/14/2012
Yea, I agree with a lot of the posts that say masturbation isn't really a taught thing. I think it should be explained, and then left to the teens to explore on their own. I personally read a book that explained the general premise and purpose, and then did a lot of learning on my own. I think the idea of teaching kids to use sex toys or masturbate in more detail is a bit creepy, and I certainly think the idea of letting a parent decide whether or not their child is allowed to masturbate is sick. Even as teenagers, I don't believe anyone should ever be allowed to think that someone else owns their sexuality.
11/14/2012
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I'm a believer that the catty behavior behind teenage girls is caused by the need of orgasm. Think about it. The sluts in high school were always the chillest.... or maybe that was just my school?
Originally posted by
ToyGurl
Hey everyone. My name is Mandy and I promote masturbation and safe sex in my area in hopes to lower the rate of teen pregnancy, STD, and abortions. Masturbation is good for anyone in so many ways, and I'm sure many of you know that since you are
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Hey everyone. My name is Mandy and I promote masturbation and safe sex in my area in hopes to lower the rate of teen pregnancy, STD, and abortions. Masturbation is good for anyone in so many ways, and I'm sure many of you know that since you are on a sex toy site! Masturbation, mutual masturbation, etc. can be substituted for unsafe sex as well.
In many places, including America, it is very taboo for young women under the age of 18 to masturbate or use sex toys. However, everyone knows men jack off, and not too many people have a problem with that. As I grew up, my younger brother of only 11 years old always got a lock on his door, and private time at night (obviously so he could whack it). However, I myself, NEVER got a lock on my door and was not even allowed to sleep without clothes on. I had several talks about why masturbation is not acceptable. I find it funny how something as private as masturbation is something that young girls are persecuted about. My best friends younger sister said she loves to masturbate to relax, but feels guilty about doing so. Please tell me your thoughts below and pass this poll on to your friends! I am using this poll in my studies at my next meeting No names will be used, just percentages. less
In many places, including America, it is very taboo for young women under the age of 18 to masturbate or use sex toys. However, everyone knows men jack off, and not too many people have a problem with that. As I grew up, my younger brother of only 11 years old always got a lock on his door, and private time at night (obviously so he could whack it). However, I myself, NEVER got a lock on my door and was not even allowed to sleep without clothes on. I had several talks about why masturbation is not acceptable. I find it funny how something as private as masturbation is something that young girls are persecuted about. My best friends younger sister said she loves to masturbate to relax, but feels guilty about doing so. Please tell me your thoughts below and pass this poll on to your friends! I am using this poll in my studies at my next meeting No names will be used, just percentages. less
11/16/2012
Interesting post, but it makes sense and I agree that maybe it could lower the rate of teenage pregnancy. I never would have thought about it but it makes sense.
11/18/2012
I started masturbating when I was younger than 10 and I turned out great!
11/18/2012
I think that a lot of women don't grow up knowing how to masturbate or even what to do, which is why many women grow up to have really bad, orgasmless sex. A lot of people seriously do not know what a clitoris is or what to do with it when they find out. Women also don't advocate for themselves nearly as much. I think masturbating should be self-exploration since all people like different things, but women should be told more about it and told that it's okay, as well as given some basic info like that most women's orgasms come from the clitoris, but there is also the g-spot, and ___ are things you can do with these body parts to give yourself pleasure.
11/18/2012
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I don't think one size fits all, but I think that masturbation should be understood as normal and shame free (although a "private" activity) in younger people, but sex toys is getting a bit more advanced. Probably okay for some girls and maybe too much or not appropriate for others. Good parenting is critical in this case, and with my own daughter I was always straight and honest about any issue she asked about, including this. Now as a married adult, she really appreciates that about our relationship.
Originally posted by
ToyGurl
Hey everyone. My name is Mandy and I promote masturbation and safe sex in my area in hopes to lower the rate of teen pregnancy, STD, and abortions. Masturbation is good for anyone in so many ways, and I'm sure many of you know that since you are
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Hey everyone. My name is Mandy and I promote masturbation and safe sex in my area in hopes to lower the rate of teen pregnancy, STD, and abortions. Masturbation is good for anyone in so many ways, and I'm sure many of you know that since you are on a sex toy site! Masturbation, mutual masturbation, etc. can be substituted for unsafe sex as well.
In many places, including America, it is very taboo for young women under the age of 18 to masturbate or use sex toys. However, everyone knows men jack off, and not too many people have a problem with that. As I grew up, my younger brother of only 11 years old always got a lock on his door, and private time at night (obviously so he could whack it). However, I myself, NEVER got a lock on my door and was not even allowed to sleep without clothes on. I had several talks about why masturbation is not acceptable. I find it funny how something as private as masturbation is something that young girls are persecuted about. My best friends younger sister said she loves to masturbate to relax, but feels guilty about doing so. Please tell me your thoughts below and pass this poll on to your friends! I am using this poll in my studies at my next meeting No names will be used, just percentages. less
In many places, including America, it is very taboo for young women under the age of 18 to masturbate or use sex toys. However, everyone knows men jack off, and not too many people have a problem with that. As I grew up, my younger brother of only 11 years old always got a lock on his door, and private time at night (obviously so he could whack it). However, I myself, NEVER got a lock on my door and was not even allowed to sleep without clothes on. I had several talks about why masturbation is not acceptable. I find it funny how something as private as masturbation is something that young girls are persecuted about. My best friends younger sister said she loves to masturbate to relax, but feels guilty about doing so. Please tell me your thoughts below and pass this poll on to your friends! I am using this poll in my studies at my next meeting No names will be used, just percentages. less
11/23/2012
I don't see anything wrong with exploring and learning about your body and enjoying yourself. why is it that for males it's normal and for females it's considered wrong. I hate that double standard crap
11/23/2012
masturbation, with or without sex toys, should be totally available to young ladies. The more that you feel that you OWN your sexuality, the less you'll let others manipulate you into making poor decisions/decisions you don't want to make. I think masturbation was honestly a big part in discovering my sexuality and making sex way better and more pleasurable + consensual once I was with a partner.
11/24/2012
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Absolutely! Masturbation is not only healthy for the body but a great way for girls to understand their body. I believe that most parents would rather their child be masturbating than going out and having sex, whether they would admit that or not. It is important for a girl to understand the different areas of her body and be comfortable with it when the time comes for her to engage in sexual relationships with men.
Originally posted by
ToyGurl
Hey everyone. My name is Mandy and I promote masturbation and safe sex in my area in hopes to lower the rate of teen pregnancy, STD, and abortions. Masturbation is good for anyone in so many ways, and I'm sure many of you know that since you are
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Hey everyone. My name is Mandy and I promote masturbation and safe sex in my area in hopes to lower the rate of teen pregnancy, STD, and abortions. Masturbation is good for anyone in so many ways, and I'm sure many of you know that since you are on a sex toy site! Masturbation, mutual masturbation, etc. can be substituted for unsafe sex as well.
In many places, including America, it is very taboo for young women under the age of 18 to masturbate or use sex toys. However, everyone knows men jack off, and not too many people have a problem with that. As I grew up, my younger brother of only 11 years old always got a lock on his door, and private time at night (obviously so he could whack it). However, I myself, NEVER got a lock on my door and was not even allowed to sleep without clothes on. I had several talks about why masturbation is not acceptable. I find it funny how something as private as masturbation is something that young girls are persecuted about. My best friends younger sister said she loves to masturbate to relax, but feels guilty about doing so. Please tell me your thoughts below and pass this poll on to your friends! I am using this poll in my studies at my next meeting No names will be used, just percentages. less
In many places, including America, it is very taboo for young women under the age of 18 to masturbate or use sex toys. However, everyone knows men jack off, and not too many people have a problem with that. As I grew up, my younger brother of only 11 years old always got a lock on his door, and private time at night (obviously so he could whack it). However, I myself, NEVER got a lock on my door and was not even allowed to sleep without clothes on. I had several talks about why masturbation is not acceptable. I find it funny how something as private as masturbation is something that young girls are persecuted about. My best friends younger sister said she loves to masturbate to relax, but feels guilty about doing so. Please tell me your thoughts below and pass this poll on to your friends! I am using this poll in my studies at my next meeting No names will be used, just percentages. less
11/29/2012
Yes, I think it should be acceptable.
11/29/2012
I started masturbating when I was around 3 years old. My mom mainly taught me that I shouldn't do it in public. However, I still felt very guilty about it. I think my mom would get stressed out when she caught me doing it in my room and I thought that meant it was bad.
11/29/2012
Sexuality should not be shameful. It is a gift and should be treated as such.
01/08/2013
While I believe that nothing is wrong with masturbation, I really don't see a reason for a YOUNG girl to use sex toys...I don't know; I didn't feel the need (or WANT) to use them when I was young...
01/08/2013
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At three? (I only ask because I have a relative with a young child that age...) I understand touching, but surly not like how we adults "touch" ourselves, right?
Originally posted by
clit
I started masturbating when I was around 3 years old. My mom mainly taught me that I shouldn't do it in public. However, I still felt very guilty about it. I think my mom would get stressed out when she caught me doing it in my room and I
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I started masturbating when I was around 3 years old. My mom mainly taught me that I shouldn't do it in public. However, I still felt very guilty about it. I think my mom would get stressed out when she caught me doing it in my room and I thought that meant it was bad.
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There's no reason to feel guilty about it, though!
I'm sure she just didn't know how to handle a situation like that, that's all!
01/08/2013
I agree that young women should be allowed to enjoy themselves...but I don't like the idea of teen girls in sex shops. It would be ok if their parents bought them for them, but then again not too many teens would be comfortable asking for this!
01/09/2013
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Me too!! I think that many little kids do as well. I don't think I ever orgasmed, but I did enjoy the feelings!
Originally posted by
ToyGurl
Same here! I thought I was the only one! I have actually been masturbating since I believe 5 years old. I would get in quite a lot of trouble for it as well. It all starting with one of those old rocking horses. I didn't know what I was doing
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Same here! I thought I was the only one! I have actually been masturbating since I believe 5 years old. I would get in quite a lot of trouble for it as well. It all starting with one of those old rocking horses. I didn't know what I was doing until I was in the 7th grade, and by that time I had forgotten where that special pleasure spot was.
I didn't learn about the clitoris until I turned 17, and you wouldn't believe how hard it was to get back into the habit or coming to an orgasm. A very long frustrating road. less
I didn't learn about the clitoris until I turned 17, and you wouldn't believe how hard it was to get back into the habit or coming to an orgasm. A very long frustrating road. less
01/09/2013
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Oh god...that is sad to hear that the parents were bringing in their daughters for that
Originally posted by
SamsDelight
I totally agree. I do really wish parents would not provide the guilt to their children just because masturbation is an uncomfortable subject. Or just because they feel it is not right. I worked in a children's hospital and we did have parents
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I totally agree. I do really wish parents would not provide the guilt to their children just because masturbation is an uncomfortable subject. Or just because they feel it is not right. I worked in a children's hospital and we did have parents bring their children in saying that something was wrong with them. Only because they had seen them playing with that area. Never once was the child a boy. It is a shame that masturbation is so wrong but, it seen's to be more and more common to have a teenage mother.
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01/09/2013
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girls under 18 should have access to toys.
Originally posted by
ToyGurl
Hey everyone. My name is Mandy and I promote masturbation and safe sex in my area in hopes to lower the rate of teen pregnancy, STD, and abortions. Masturbation is good for anyone in so many ways, and I'm sure many of you know that since you are
...
more
Hey everyone. My name is Mandy and I promote masturbation and safe sex in my area in hopes to lower the rate of teen pregnancy, STD, and abortions. Masturbation is good for anyone in so many ways, and I'm sure many of you know that since you are on a sex toy site! Masturbation, mutual masturbation, etc. can be substituted for unsafe sex as well.
In many places, including America, it is very taboo for young women under the age of 18 to masturbate or use sex toys. However, everyone knows men jack off, and not too many people have a problem with that. As I grew up, my younger brother of only 11 years old always got a lock on his door, and private time at night (obviously so he could whack it). However, I myself, NEVER got a lock on my door and was not even allowed to sleep without clothes on. I had several talks about why masturbation is not acceptable. I find it funny how something as private as masturbation is something that young girls are persecuted about. My best friends younger sister said she loves to masturbate to relax, but feels guilty about doing so. Please tell me your thoughts below and pass this poll on to your friends! I am using this poll in my studies at my next meeting No names will be used, just percentages. less
In many places, including America, it is very taboo for young women under the age of 18 to masturbate or use sex toys. However, everyone knows men jack off, and not too many people have a problem with that. As I grew up, my younger brother of only 11 years old always got a lock on his door, and private time at night (obviously so he could whack it). However, I myself, NEVER got a lock on my door and was not even allowed to sleep without clothes on. I had several talks about why masturbation is not acceptable. I find it funny how something as private as masturbation is something that young girls are persecuted about. My best friends younger sister said she loves to masturbate to relax, but feels guilty about doing so. Please tell me your thoughts below and pass this poll on to your friends! I am using this poll in my studies at my next meeting No names will be used, just percentages. less
01/16/2013
Absolutely.
I think everyone of any age should be able to use whatever kind of sex toys they want, and that information about how to cleanly use these toys should be provided, along with means to actually then clean these toys.
(Not necessarily endorsing capitalism; i.e. buy the toy, then the ~official toy cleaner~, but any kind of thing that will clean your toys)
I think access to information along with the toys could be especially productive
I think everyone of any age should be able to use whatever kind of sex toys they want, and that information about how to cleanly use these toys should be provided, along with means to actually then clean these toys.
(Not necessarily endorsing capitalism; i.e. buy the toy, then the ~official toy cleaner~, but any kind of thing that will clean your toys)
I think access to information along with the toys could be especially productive
01/19/2013