yeah why not boys do at young ages
Should it be socially acceptable for young females to masturbate and/or use sex toys?
01/21/2013
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Yup
Originally posted by
ToyGurl
Hey everyone. My name is Mandy and I promote masturbation and safe sex in my area in hopes to lower the rate of teen pregnancy, STD, and abortions. Masturbation is good for anyone in so many ways, and I'm sure many of you know that since you are
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Hey everyone. My name is Mandy and I promote masturbation and safe sex in my area in hopes to lower the rate of teen pregnancy, STD, and abortions. Masturbation is good for anyone in so many ways, and I'm sure many of you know that since you are on a sex toy site! Masturbation, mutual masturbation, etc. can be substituted for unsafe sex as well.
In many places, including America, it is very taboo for young women under the age of 18 to masturbate or use sex toys. However, everyone knows men jack off, and not too many people have a problem with that. As I grew up, my younger brother of only 11 years old always got a lock on his door, and private time at night (obviously so he could whack it). However, I myself, NEVER got a lock on my door and was not even allowed to sleep without clothes on. I had several talks about why masturbation is not acceptable. I find it funny how something as private as masturbation is something that young girls are persecuted about. My best friends younger sister said she loves to masturbate to relax, but feels guilty about doing so. Please tell me your thoughts below and pass this poll on to your friends! I am using this poll in my studies at my next meeting No names will be used, just percentages. less
In many places, including America, it is very taboo for young women under the age of 18 to masturbate or use sex toys. However, everyone knows men jack off, and not too many people have a problem with that. As I grew up, my younger brother of only 11 years old always got a lock on his door, and private time at night (obviously so he could whack it). However, I myself, NEVER got a lock on my door and was not even allowed to sleep without clothes on. I had several talks about why masturbation is not acceptable. I find it funny how something as private as masturbation is something that young girls are persecuted about. My best friends younger sister said she loves to masturbate to relax, but feels guilty about doing so. Please tell me your thoughts below and pass this poll on to your friends! I am using this poll in my studies at my next meeting No names will be used, just percentages. less
02/28/2013
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I was brought up that it is wrong
Originally posted by
ToyGurl
Hey everyone. My name is Mandy and I promote masturbation and safe sex in my area in hopes to lower the rate of teen pregnancy, STD, and abortions. Masturbation is good for anyone in so many ways, and I'm sure many of you know that since you are
...
more
Hey everyone. My name is Mandy and I promote masturbation and safe sex in my area in hopes to lower the rate of teen pregnancy, STD, and abortions. Masturbation is good for anyone in so many ways, and I'm sure many of you know that since you are on a sex toy site! Masturbation, mutual masturbation, etc. can be substituted for unsafe sex as well.
In many places, including America, it is very taboo for young women under the age of 18 to masturbate or use sex toys. However, everyone knows men jack off, and not too many people have a problem with that. As I grew up, my younger brother of only 11 years old always got a lock on his door, and private time at night (obviously so he could whack it). However, I myself, NEVER got a lock on my door and was not even allowed to sleep without clothes on. I had several talks about why masturbation is not acceptable. I find it funny how something as private as masturbation is something that young girls are persecuted about. My best friends younger sister said she loves to masturbate to relax, but feels guilty about doing so. Please tell me your thoughts below and pass this poll on to your friends! I am using this poll in my studies at my next meeting No names will be used, just percentages. less
In many places, including America, it is very taboo for young women under the age of 18 to masturbate or use sex toys. However, everyone knows men jack off, and not too many people have a problem with that. As I grew up, my younger brother of only 11 years old always got a lock on his door, and private time at night (obviously so he could whack it). However, I myself, NEVER got a lock on my door and was not even allowed to sleep without clothes on. I had several talks about why masturbation is not acceptable. I find it funny how something as private as masturbation is something that young girls are persecuted about. My best friends younger sister said she loves to masturbate to relax, but feels guilty about doing so. Please tell me your thoughts below and pass this poll on to your friends! I am using this poll in my studies at my next meeting No names will be used, just percentages. less
02/28/2013
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I have to agree with you there. Plain and simple.
Originally posted by
Fullbeauty
I also learned at a very young age, I'm pretty sure I was about 5 or 6, that touching myself in certain ways felt good. My mother caught me and told me not to do it, but I didn't even realize what I was doing, and didn't understand why
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I also learned at a very young age, I'm pretty sure I was about 5 or 6, that touching myself in certain ways felt good. My mother caught me and told me not to do it, but I didn't even realize what I was doing, and didn't understand why it was wrong.
I became sexually active at a very young age, losing my virginity at 14, and thankfully, since I had never stopped touching myself (even after constantly being told not to, and especially not after I knew what I was doing) I never had trouble coming to orgasm.
I think that girls should be encouraged to explore their own bodies, and learn about them. It shouldn't be a taboo to know how to please yourself. It may even help to prevent some girls from having sex too young, if they know how to take care of themselves.
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I became sexually active at a very young age, losing my virginity at 14, and thankfully, since I had never stopped touching myself (even after constantly being told not to, and especially not after I knew what I was doing) I never had trouble coming to orgasm.
I think that girls should be encouraged to explore their own bodies, and learn about them. It shouldn't be a taboo to know how to please yourself. It may even help to prevent some girls from having sex too young, if they know how to take care of themselves.
Great question! I find all the responses really interesting! less
02/28/2013
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Hell yes! And under age 18! It is normal for children as young as babies to experiment with their bodies, and there is nothing gross about that. It should not be shamed upon. We all experiment. As long as pediphilia is not acceptable then what is wrong with a teenager or even a child getting to know their own body? GREAT POST!@
Originally posted by
ToyGurl
Hey everyone. My name is Mandy and I promote masturbation and safe sex in my area in hopes to lower the rate of teen pregnancy, STD, and abortions. Masturbation is good for anyone in so many ways, and I'm sure many of you know that since you are
...
more
Hey everyone. My name is Mandy and I promote masturbation and safe sex in my area in hopes to lower the rate of teen pregnancy, STD, and abortions. Masturbation is good for anyone in so many ways, and I'm sure many of you know that since you are on a sex toy site! Masturbation, mutual masturbation, etc. can be substituted for unsafe sex as well.
In many places, including America, it is very taboo for young women under the age of 18 to masturbate or use sex toys. However, everyone knows men jack off, and not too many people have a problem with that. As I grew up, my younger brother of only 11 years old always got a lock on his door, and private time at night (obviously so he could whack it). However, I myself, NEVER got a lock on my door and was not even allowed to sleep without clothes on. I had several talks about why masturbation is not acceptable. I find it funny how something as private as masturbation is something that young girls are persecuted about. My best friends younger sister said she loves to masturbate to relax, but feels guilty about doing so. Please tell me your thoughts below and pass this poll on to your friends! I am using this poll in my studies at my next meeting No names will be used, just percentages. less
In many places, including America, it is very taboo for young women under the age of 18 to masturbate or use sex toys. However, everyone knows men jack off, and not too many people have a problem with that. As I grew up, my younger brother of only 11 years old always got a lock on his door, and private time at night (obviously so he could whack it). However, I myself, NEVER got a lock on my door and was not even allowed to sleep without clothes on. I had several talks about why masturbation is not acceptable. I find it funny how something as private as masturbation is something that young girls are persecuted about. My best friends younger sister said she loves to masturbate to relax, but feels guilty about doing so. Please tell me your thoughts below and pass this poll on to your friends! I am using this poll in my studies at my next meeting No names will be used, just percentages. less
03/01/2013
Yes.
03/01/2013
What a great question!!! I think women should be able to masturbate without people thinking its weird or gross. I started at like 14 or so but didn't start with toys till after I moved out of my parents house..
03/01/2013
Females like males should be able to masterbate at the age they please to. And in my opinion. Both sexes should be taught about it! That its a great way of learning a little about our own body!
03/01/2013
It would probably cut down on a lot of social issues we face, if it weren't such a taboo.
03/01/2013
Love this post and the responses. I believe that masturbation should be socially accepted and even encouraged.
03/05/2013
i have mixed feelings about the toys though I don't really think they're harmful
03/05/2013
I don't think it should be taught, mostly because there are many ways to masturbate and many ways to orgasm, and it would be a shame for someone to think something is "wrong" with them because they don't enjoy masturbating the way they were taught was normal.
03/05/2013
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I voted no outside of marriage becuase of my personal beliefs, however I do not think less of anyone who thinks and does differently than I do. I will say if it is socially acceptable for a guy it does need to be socially acceptable for a girl.
Originally posted by
ToyGurl
Hey everyone. My name is Mandy and I promote masturbation and safe sex in my area in hopes to lower the rate of teen pregnancy, STD, and abortions. Masturbation is good for anyone in so many ways, and I'm sure many of you know that since you are
...
more
Hey everyone. My name is Mandy and I promote masturbation and safe sex in my area in hopes to lower the rate of teen pregnancy, STD, and abortions. Masturbation is good for anyone in so many ways, and I'm sure many of you know that since you are on a sex toy site! Masturbation, mutual masturbation, etc. can be substituted for unsafe sex as well.
In many places, including America, it is very taboo for young women under the age of 18 to masturbate or use sex toys. However, everyone knows men jack off, and not too many people have a problem with that. As I grew up, my younger brother of only 11 years old always got a lock on his door, and private time at night (obviously so he could whack it). However, I myself, NEVER got a lock on my door and was not even allowed to sleep without clothes on. I had several talks about why masturbation is not acceptable. I find it funny how something as private as masturbation is something that young girls are persecuted about. My best friends younger sister said she loves to masturbate to relax, but feels guilty about doing so. Please tell me your thoughts below and pass this poll on to your friends! I am using this poll in my studies at my next meeting No names will be used, just percentages. less
In many places, including America, it is very taboo for young women under the age of 18 to masturbate or use sex toys. However, everyone knows men jack off, and not too many people have a problem with that. As I grew up, my younger brother of only 11 years old always got a lock on his door, and private time at night (obviously so he could whack it). However, I myself, NEVER got a lock on my door and was not even allowed to sleep without clothes on. I had several talks about why masturbation is not acceptable. I find it funny how something as private as masturbation is something that young girls are persecuted about. My best friends younger sister said she loves to masturbate to relax, but feels guilty about doing so. Please tell me your thoughts below and pass this poll on to your friends! I am using this poll in my studies at my next meeting No names will be used, just percentages. less
03/06/2013
Allowing males but not females is sickening sexism. Anyone who wishes to masturbate, regardless of age, should be able to. It's very healthy and especially for younger people, it's a great alternative to becoming sexually active. I don't understand why you need to be 18 to buy sex toys, I (and most other people I know) have been masturbating since they were young teens, and we just used not-so-safe alternatives because we couldn't get SAFE toys!
03/07/2013
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I 100% agree.
Originally posted by
Fullbeauty
I also learned at a very young age, I'm pretty sure I was about 5 or 6, that touching myself in certain ways felt good. My mother caught me and told me not to do it, but I didn't even realize what I was doing, and didn't understand why
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more
I also learned at a very young age, I'm pretty sure I was about 5 or 6, that touching myself in certain ways felt good. My mother caught me and told me not to do it, but I didn't even realize what I was doing, and didn't understand why it was wrong.
I became sexually active at a very young age, losing my virginity at 14, and thankfully, since I had never stopped touching myself (even after constantly being told not to, and especially not after I knew what I was doing) I never had trouble coming to orgasm.
I think that girls should be encouraged to explore their own bodies, and learn about them. It shouldn't be a taboo to know how to please yourself. It may even help to prevent some girls from having sex too young, if they know how to take care of themselves.
Great question! I find all the responses really interesting! less
I became sexually active at a very young age, losing my virginity at 14, and thankfully, since I had never stopped touching myself (even after constantly being told not to, and especially not after I knew what I was doing) I never had trouble coming to orgasm.
I think that girls should be encouraged to explore their own bodies, and learn about them. It shouldn't be a taboo to know how to please yourself. It may even help to prevent some girls from having sex too young, if they know how to take care of themselves.
Great question! I find all the responses really interesting! less
03/07/2013
Masturbation is a method of learning about your own body and is perfectly normal and natural. However I do not agree about young girls using vibrators and other sex toys. I just don't think it is necessary. Fingers/shower head are more than enough for beginners masturbation. Toys a great when you are a little older and more experienced, but using a sex toy from the beginning can mess up one's ability to enjoy real sex.
03/23/2013
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This is how I feel too. I try to teach my kids (who are both boys, FWIW) that your penis/testicles etc are part of your body and should be kept to yourself and you should not touch other people's (they are 7 and 8) and if I catch them kind of touching it or rubbing it or whatever, I simply tell them they need to do that in private and not in front of people. Basically, if you want to rub your junk, there's nothing wrong with it, but please do it in private.
Originally posted by
Selective Sensualist
I would have chosen "Yes, females should be taught and able to masturbate guilt free AND use sex toys if they want to. Even under the age of 18" IF one thing were not included: "should be taught."
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I would have chosen "Yes, females should be taught and able to masturbate guilt free AND use sex toys if they want to. Even under the age of 18" IF one thing were not included: "should be taught."
I don't think boys are necessarily "taught" how to masturbate. I think masturbation should be respected as self-exploration and remain completely self-directed. If a child (male or female) wants to seek out advice on how to explore their bodies and pleasure themselves with better techniques, s/he should have this option. But seeking out information should be on their own terms, and I don't think we should be forcing information on them. less
I don't think boys are necessarily "taught" how to masturbate. I think masturbation should be respected as self-exploration and remain completely self-directed. If a child (male or female) wants to seek out advice on how to explore their bodies and pleasure themselves with better techniques, s/he should have this option. But seeking out information should be on their own terms, and I don't think we should be forcing information on them. less
And as far as females go, I was never taught it was shameful or anything, and though I didn't have toys, I found plenty of "makeshift" toys lol.
03/23/2013
I don't even know where to begin in wording my response. I chose other because I believe that everyone should be taught that masturbation is okay and safe sex should be preached about, but I'm not so sure that I would be comfortable with people *teaching* someone how to masturbate. It just screams creepy to me. It's self-exploration, not something that can be taught. We're all different, need different things and have different desires.
03/24/2013