Spontaneous orgasms (women only) Ever had one?

shepegs shepegs
My girl has spontaneous orgasms every so often. She doesn't have to be turned on or doing anything and it will just happen. It happens while driving, sitting at work and one time while pegging (no manual stimulation). Is this normal? If so, how can she bring it on and control it better?
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Yes I've had a spontaneous orgasm before
38  (22%)
Never!
130  (74%)
Yes, I can make it happen on demand.
8  (5%)
Total votes: 176
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04/19/2010
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VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
It is normal because an orgasm is pretty much a mental thing. It's not a conscious process a lot of the time, but it's mind over matter. I was able to orgasm at the sound of my former partner's voice or text message when he demanded it. It was a mental thing for me and I very much enjoyed it.

I really have no suggestion for controlling it. It's kind of like conditioning over time. The more and more it is ingrained in the person, the better controlled it is. Or something along those lines. Does that makes sense? I feel like I'm just rambling and babbling.
04/19/2010
clp clp
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Originally posted by VieuxCarre
It is normal because an orgasm is pretty much a mental thing. It's not a conscious process a lot of the time, but it's mind over matter. I was able to orgasm at the sound of my former partner's voice or text message when he demanded it. ... More
I think that is neat, VieuxCarre--I've never thought much about it, but that is exactly what it breaks down to. For yourself, was it a matter of practicing to achieve that or was it a more natural condition of your relationship that only needed cultivation?

If it is possible to work up to with practice, I wonder if it would be a fun project to undertake--or is it more like playing with fire?
04/19/2010
VieuxCarre VieuxCarre
Quote:
Originally posted by clp
I think that is neat, VieuxCarre--I've never thought much about it, but that is exactly what it breaks down to. For yourself, was it a matter of practicing to achieve that or was it a more natural condition of your relationship that only needed ... More
Honestly, I never really practiced it per say. My partner at the time and myself had a very deep and special connection. When he would request it of me, it felt as if he were there with me, holding and stroking me as he implored me to cum for him. I hadn't had that with anyone else before him. It was truly amazing and had a lot to do with our connection.

It's definitely an interesting project to undertake and is rewarding Like I said, it's a mental thing. If you picture what your partner does to get you off and pretty much simulate it in your mind, it's very possible.
04/19/2010
seaofneptune seaofneptune
I have had one just by thinking of being with my partner before. I didn't tough myself or anything. He and I thought that was awesome. I haven't tried to control it either and I don't know if it will happen again. All I know is that for me, I have to be turned on in some way or another.
04/20/2010
Crystal_Rose Crystal_Rose
I've had it happen a dozen or so times in my sleep... Does that count? lol! I wasn't even having an erotic dream or anything. I'd just all of a sudden jump up in the bed,confused, trying to figure out what was going on as I felt my body orgasm. This was usually when I had gone awhile without masturbating, usually due to some stress in my life. I think it was just my body's way of taking care of itself, one way or another. If I'm masturbating regularly, then it never happens.

It would be pretty darn cool to have the ability to do this while wide awake, though.
05/16/2010
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I voted I can make it happen on command and here is why. If I do enough kegals, I can just finish without any touching. I wouldn't say that pegging is sans sensation though. I have never just been doing something completely non-sexual without any effort and had an orgasm. So if that is what you were asking, I would say no.
05/16/2010
shepegs shepegs
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Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I voted I can make it happen on command and here is why. If I do enough kegals, I can just finish without any touching. I wouldn't say that pegging is sans sensation though. I have never just been doing something completely non-sexual without any ... More
So pegging alone doesn't make you orgasm?
05/17/2010
Pipedream Products Pipedream Products
Quote:
Originally posted by shepegs
My girl has spontaneous orgasms every so often. She doesn't have to be turned on or doing anything and it will just happen. It happens while driving, sitting at work and one time while pegging (no manual stimulation). Is this normal? If so, ... More
Does it count if a guy ejaculates without touching his penis? That was the best night of my life and has never happened again since.
05/17/2010
Victoria Victoria
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Originally posted by Pipedream Products
Does it count if a guy ejaculates without touching his penis? That was the best night of my life and has never happened again since.
Well, was it totally spontaneous, Mr. Johnson? Do tell
05/17/2010
BoomersGirl BoomersGirl
When I'm dreaming sometimes. Otherwise, no.
06/07/2010
00 00
I've never just had a spontaneous orgasm without some form of mental thought about it...such as fantasy. But I have had orgasms with just thought and no hands-on play.
06/07/2010
Blinker Blinker
I was on an antidepressant that made me sneeze and have an orgasm. It only happened twice but it was FUN.

"AchooUHHMMMMMM OMG" was pretty much how it went.
07/09/2010
Annemarie Annemarie
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Originally posted by Blinker
I was on an antidepressant that made me sneeze and have an orgasm. It only happened twice but it was FUN.

"AchooUHHMMMMMM OMG" was pretty much how it went.
So, what was this antidepressant? I want some of that.
07/09/2010
Blinker Blinker
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Originally posted by Annemarie
So, what was this antidepressant? I want some of that.
Lol it was Abilify. I don't recommend it AT ALL. It made me put on 50 lbs in 7 months and I'm off the medicine now and still trying to get the weight off.
07/09/2010
P'Gell P'Gell
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Originally posted by Blinker
Lol it was Abilify. I don't recommend it AT ALL. It made me put on 50 lbs in 7 months and I'm off the medicine now and still trying to get the weight off.
Wow! My doctor actually offered me this, to treat my migraines and depression. I said no because NOBODY in medicine talks about this, and all I read was "certain sexual side effects." Usually that means "nothing less stimulating than a power concrete crusher can make you come."

Damn.....I may call my Neuro..... But, the weight gain, I dunno. I don't gain weight from regular antidepressants, only from hormones. (12 lbs, just from intravaginal estrogen in the last 6 months. UG.) Abilify is a "mood stabilizer" so it works differently than antidepressants, but who knows. Cool side effect, though.
07/14/2010
twistedheartsx twistedheartsx
Quote:
Originally posted by Blinker
I was on an antidepressant that made me sneeze and have an orgasm. It only happened twice but it was FUN.

"AchooUHHMMMMMM OMG" was pretty much how it went.
Haha, this made me laugh. I guess that's a pretty good anti-depressant!
07/22/2010
twistedheartsx twistedheartsx
I've never had an orgasm without some type of stimulation except during a few dreams. (Pretty awesome!) I know it's a mental thing, are there any suggestions to train yourself to cum on command?
07/22/2010
HevansS HevansS
Quote:
Originally posted by Crystal_Rose
I've had it happen a dozen or so times in my sleep... Does that count? lol! I wasn't even having an erotic dream or anything. I'd just all of a sudden jump up in the bed,confused, trying to figure out what was going on as I felt my body ... More
What a wonderful way to wake up.
07/23/2010
Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by P'Gell
Wow! My doctor actually offered me this, to treat my migraines and depression. I said no because NOBODY in medicine talks about this, and all I read was "certain sexual side effects." Usually that means "nothing less stimulating than a ... More
You gained weight from vaginal estrogen cream? I thought hardly any was supposed to get into the rest of your body when administered that way.
07/23/2010
Tuesday Tuesday
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I voted I can make it happen on command and here is why. If I do enough kegals, I can just finish without any touching. I wouldn't say that pegging is sans sensation though. I have never just been doing something completely non-sexual without any ... More
I want to hear more about your kegel regimen.
07/23/2010
NightNight NightNight
Quote:
Originally posted by ~LaUr3n~
I voted I can make it happen on command and here is why. If I do enough kegals, I can just finish without any touching. I wouldn't say that pegging is sans sensation though. I have never just been doing something completely non-sexual without any ... More
I voted that way for the same reason. A few squeezes and then I "remember" what an orgasm in the past felt like and that gives me a shivery one.
07/25/2010
Erato Erato
*Pout* I am feeling so left out. No magical orgasms for me unless I get physical….
07/27/2010
YoungCouple YoungCouple
This post reminds me of the SNL digital short "Jizz In My Pants" google it. Video Link Semi NSFW due to lyrics
07/27/2010
Sera Sera
Yes, I've had one. It happened on the floor. We went for a really long time in the dark, passionate, in love...and slowly, and suddenly I came everywhere. I've never had that happen before, and never had it happen since. Why, I wonder though, did it only happen once? I keep trying to make it happen again, because it was so wonderful, but I just can't seem to....Is there something wrong? What position, I can't remember, and I can't remember what caused it. But it rocked. And one day its going to happen again.
07/29/2010
Hot'n'Bothered Hot'n'Bothered
There's been a handful of times that I've woken up to an O....but It's very very very rare..
08/31/2010
SexyySarah SexyySarah
Yep, this has happened to me, not very often, but I love it when I do it in my sleep!
08/31/2010
smartbabi92 smartbabi92
It's only happened to me about once and it was great when it did happen!
09/01/2010
Alegria Alegria
Just the other day I was sleeping next to my boyfriend and was dreaming we were doing the dirty. Right as I was orgasming I heard him snore really loud and it woke me up. I was so disappointed haha.

And one time I was on a family trip, having a wet dream in the back seat. I woke myself up when I moaned really loud. That was super embarrassing. Everyone was staring at me, even my dad who was driving.

Those are the only two times it's happened to me. I can't wait for it to happen again though =)
09/01/2010
Owl Identified Owl Identified
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Originally posted by Pipedream Products
Does it count if a guy ejaculates without touching his penis? That was the best night of my life and has never happened again since.
Prostate stim? Hm...I would say this counts, but we'll have to check with the judges...
09/01/2010
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