So has any other woman felt like she wasn't good enough in bed?

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So has any other woman felt like she wasn't good enough in bed?

~*Damia*~ ~*Damia*~
Im asking this because my ex boyfriend said that i was a horriable lover and that my body was just disgusting which is devistating when i already have low self image issues because of my weight. so if youve had this similar issue what did yall do about it to make yourself feel better?
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I Just ignored him/her.
Im still trying to get over it.
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Well heres what i did ( comment )
3  (75%)
Total votes: 4
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Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
What a complete and utter prick! Listen, he chose you in the first place, so I find it laughable that he would turn around and say those things. What I think he wanted was to pick the one thing he knew you were most sensitive about and hurt you the best way he could, the asshole. Had you been insecure about your teeth, your job, or thinning hair, he'd have used those to try and hurt you. As for the bed issue, it is NOT a one sided issue and if he had "problems with it", he should have made an effort to fix it, the tool! I suspect even the most seasoned pro would not be enough to please a bitter, hateful ass such as himself!

I know enough people who have had similar experiences, so I would be interested to hear what they have to say to you. Frankly, I saw your picture and was shocked this topic was attached to it! You're gorgeous and have beautiful skin! There are many men who want something to hold on to when in bed, so don't sweat the the body image, you just need to find someone who appreciates you in all your beauty, that includes you mind!
10/07/2013
Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by ~*Damia*~
Im asking this because my ex boyfriend said that i was a horriable lover and that my body was just disgusting which is devistating when i already have low self image issues because of my weight. so if youve had this similar issue what did yall do ...
I am very glad you used the word, "ex" in there. You deserve much, much better. Move on. I promise you will find some guy who finds you to be the woman of their dream and fantasy's. Don't hide the beauty I know you have....engage it. Flaunt it. Believe me, no matter the body type, size, or any "flaws" you think you have (we all have them...we are human)....a guy finds very few things sexier then a confidant woman. I have seen a room full of "knock out, head turners" and yet the guys were drooling over a lady who you would call "homely" if you were dong the line up thing. What she had was confidence. She owned the room, when she walked in, and it drew the guys like flies to honey.
You don't need to make yourself feel better, you need to realize this guy was not worth what you have to offer and that he is the loser. You need to move on to someone worthy of your love.
10/07/2013
Airen Wolf Airen Wolf
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Originally posted by ~*Damia*~
Im asking this because my ex boyfriend said that i was a horriable lover and that my body was just disgusting which is devistating when i already have low self image issues because of my weight. so if youve had this similar issue what did yall do ...
I have never been told this by a lover...but then again I don't have any exes so it's not a fair comparison. If I had been told it it would have devastated me since this is also my insecurity. Still the real issue is that he was wanting to hurt you deeply and succeeded.

I agree with the ladies who have already spoken up and will add that you look to be exactly the kind of woman my husband AND life partner are attracted to and that they would be very happy to see if you were the problem of if this asshole was just too stupid to know a good thing when he had it!

Not trying to sound all creeperish but saying that many men will find you super attractive and really desire you so let this tiny little man creep away and bother some other woman...he's not your problem anymore! He chose to hit you below the belt and the best revenge would be that in five years you can't even remember his name!
10/07/2013
C&K0143 C&K0143
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Originally posted by ~*Damia*~
Im asking this because my ex boyfriend said that i was a horriable lover and that my body was just disgusting which is devistating when i already have low self image issues because of my weight. so if youve had this similar issue what did yall do ...
You are a beautiful young woman who has nothing to be ashamed off. Never allow such horrible people to hurt you like that. I second Bignuf when I say I’m glad you put Ex in front of boyfriend.
10/07/2013
Holly Wood Holly Wood
Hooray! I can post again - and although I already have messaged you privately, I'll say it again...

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! Size does NOT matter because there are people interested in every look and height and weight and size and individual interest!

The fact that he's your EX should tell you something here - and any man that acts so vengefully towards a person (for any reason) will get his tenfold (karma is a bitch!). The ONLY reason he's even saying these things is for one of two reasons:

a) he hates seeing you happy without him!
b) he has to convince himself or his friends that you're a miserable wretch because he fucked up and lost you!

Enough said. He's obviously got little self-worth of his own, so just take everything he tells you with a grain of salt, find some hot dude that treats you like a princess, and move on with your life free of the drama-llama!!!

<3
10/09/2013
Wicked Wahine Wicked Wahine
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Originally posted by Holly Wood
Hooray! I can post again - and although I already have messaged you privately, I'll say it again...

YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL! Size does NOT matter because there are people interested in every look and height and weight and size and individual ...
"drama-llama" That's a great phrase, LOL! Good advice, too!
10/09/2013
~*Damia*~ ~*Damia*~
To all of you your kind sweet words brought happy tears to my eyes. I thank all of you for these words <3
10/30/2013
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