Have you ever secretly wanted to be with a woman?

Iggins09 Iggins09
Being a straight female, I sometimes have fantasies about a woman going down on me. I've been with a woman before, but it was during a drunken stupor and we didn't do much. I'm curious to see how many other women out there are straight, but secretly wish to have a woman pleasure them instead of a man.
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Yes I have but I'd never admit it!
23  (20%)
All the time!
68  (60%)
No way! I'm happy with my pogo stick thank you!
23  (20%)
Total votes: 114
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05/03/2011
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Brandi Rouxxx Brandi Rouxxx
I have and I've done it. It was great. I've only been with a few, but only found one that really rocked my world. And it was her first time ever with another girl too.
05/03/2011
hornypoet69 hornypoet69
I'm a gay man, and sometimes find myself with this passing desire. I occasionally find women attractive, and if the opportunity arose to have a low-pressure sexual experience with a woman I found attractive, I might take it.
05/03/2011
Iggins09 Iggins09
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Originally posted by Brandi Rouxxx
I have and I've done it. It was great. I've only been with a few, but only found one that really rocked my world. And it was her first time ever with another girl too.
That's awesome. I've had one encounter with a woman that was sexual and unfortunately, it was while I was shit-faced drunk lol. We ended up having a threesome with her boyfriend (something I warned her about because of course afterwards, it was all my fault). I've always wanted the opportunity to be with a woman while sober to see if it felt the same when I was drunk because it was a fantastic experience. I'm married now and I don't think I'll get that chance . I've mentioned it to my husband he doesn't really seem to keen on having a threesome with 2 girls. Sad for me .

That's nice that you two had that experience to feel so much pleasure, especially when it was her first time and your second or third. .
05/03/2011
Iggins09 Iggins09
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Originally posted by hornypoet69
I'm a gay man, and sometimes find myself with this passing desire. I occasionally find women attractive, and if the opportunity arose to have a low-pressure sexual experience with a woman I found attractive, I might take it.
That's great that you are open to the possibility even being of the sexual orientation that you are . I wish you luck and hope that you will find yourself in that opportunity because you may not be disappointed . It's always good to try new things .
05/03/2011
sexyk515 sexyk515
been there done that men are better
05/03/2011
CuteDee CuteDee
Quote:
Originally posted by Iggins09
Being a straight female, I sometimes have fantasies about a woman going down on me. I've been with a woman before, but it was during a drunken stupor and we didn't do much. I'm curious to see how many other women out there are straight, ... More
Women are fun! Ive had a few threesomes (me, girl & guy). It was always very casual and fun! My bf is always wanting to have a threesome w/me and another girl. I think it would be fun but do worry it might cause probs in our relationship. However, I do miss playing with another lady...
05/03/2011
Andromeda Andromeda
All the time. I've shared my fantasy with my bf, and he finds my curiosity to be a turn on. We are open to the possibility of a threesome if we find the right girl, and he is pretty open to letting me experiment if there is 100% transparency. Alas, have not found the right girl yet.
05/03/2011
Iggins09 Iggins09
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Originally posted by Andromeda
All the time. I've shared my fantasy with my bf, and he finds my curiosity to be a turn on. We are open to the possibility of a threesome if we find the right girl, and he is pretty open to letting me experiment if there is 100% transparency. ... More
You and CuteDee are lucky. My husband doesn't have much experience in the sex area as I was his first. He's never watched porn either. I'm trying to coax him into watching the porn movie Pirates, but I won't force him. I mentioned to him my fantasy but he's told me he's never had a fantasy like that with two women and him. A big fantasy of mine is two guys and myself, but he's already put his foot down about that. He said that if we were to ever engage in a threesome, he would not touch the other girl. I told him I don't care if he performed oral on her, but I would have a problem with the sex part. He said it didn't matter, he wouldn't touch anyone else in a sexual manner. I told him the typical purpose of a threesome with two girls is to let the two girls go to town on each other while he watches or participates. I'm just really surprised that he's never had that fantasy.
05/03/2011
RomeroB RomeroB
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Originally posted by Iggins09
Being a straight female, I sometimes have fantasies about a woman going down on me. I've been with a woman before, but it was during a drunken stupor and we didn't do much. I'm curious to see how many other women out there are straight, ... More
I have a fantasies about me and another women. I think it would be so much fun. My boyfriend and I have talked about having a threesome but we have not found the other girl.
05/03/2011
ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
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Originally posted by Iggins09
That's awesome. I've had one encounter with a woman that was sexual and unfortunately, it was while I was shit-faced drunk lol. We ended up having a threesome with her boyfriend (something I warned her about because of course afterwards, it ... More
You sound a lot like me. I'm straight (mostly), but I did have an encounter with a female friend. We were both trashed. I went down on her, and I think I was pretty awesome at it, but who knows. We were too drunk to remember much. Haha. Unfortunately. I often fantasize about having a woman go down on me and going down on a woman. I enjoyed doing it and would love to again, depending on the woman.

It was a pretty weird situation, too, because it happened at my friend's boyfriend's house. My husband was there and was totally fine with it, though he wouldn't watch (no matter how much I begged...he's a gentleman, I guess? Haha). But her bf...was pretty mad about it. He took it as her cheating on him. It's funny, though, because now I'm with him now, and he's her ex. Which is a looooong story, and I'd rather not hijack this thread.

But yeah, I definitely know what you're talking about. I think it's completely normal.
05/03/2011
A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople) A Closet Slut (aka nipplepeople)
It was not really "secretly" - I'm a straight woman and I'm okay with admitting I've had fantasies about and encounters with women.
05/04/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
I cannot lie, there was a time in my past (high school years) when I extremely wanted to experiment with women. The only reason was because I was in a bad, emotionally, verbally, and somewhat physically abusive relationship with a man. When we had sex,it was all about him. One thing about women is that they understand other women simply because they are women themselves. So I said, "Why not be with a woman and finally feel love and get satisfied?" But I quickly shaked my head and said realized that I also had an "ew factor" about being with a woman. I only see men romantically. I'm definitely just straight. Shortly after I met a wonderful boy who is now my fiance!
05/04/2011
nori nori
being bi is so wonderful! I can admire all bodies.
07/28/2011
Kkay Kkay
I've never considered myself straight, but the Kinsey scale is awesome. You can be a 1 or a 2 or a 4 or 5 instead of a 3.
07/28/2011
Ms. Spice Ms. Spice
i would but i haven't found the right gal yet. i'm kind of picky
07/28/2011
thebest thebest
Nope
08/01/2011
MN58 MN58
I would but I dont know who...
im dying to actually...
08/02/2011
MJ1337 MJ1337
I've always been curious, and its not a super secret.
08/05/2011
Triple X Moma Triple X Moma
Quote:
Originally posted by Iggins09
Being a straight female, I sometimes have fantasies about a woman going down on me. I've been with a woman before, but it was during a drunken stupor and we didn't do much. I'm curious to see how many other women out there are straight, ... More
I was into men before but secretly I was attracted to women. Now I am in a committed relationship with a woman and not going back to men but that is my choice to many issues with men I found.
08/11/2011
sarki sarki
No I have never had those feelings
08/11/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
No, not attracted to women that way.
08/14/2011
yrnw yrnw
Women turn me on sexually, but I'd never want to be in a relationship with one. I've never had any sort of romantic feeling for another women, but I hot woman can get my juices flowing....

However, I have a no sex without love policy, so I don't see that ever happening.
08/16/2011
ToyGurl ToyGurl
Quote:
Originally posted by yrnw
Women turn me on sexually, but I'd never want to be in a relationship with one. I've never had any sort of romantic feeling for another women, but I hot woman can get my juices flowing....

However, I have a no sex without love policy, ... More
That's exactly what I mean. Women can turn me on, still to this day. If you asked me to choose a porno it would include at least two women or all women. Women just have something about them. With men in porn they are just gross... Sorry guys!

But in real life, yeah, I've thought about it. I've wondered what it would be like. The only issue is that I just can't see females romantically. I love my husband and I met him around the time that I was getting "curious" back in high school. I definitely realized that sex without love is just stupid. And I would probably regret trying it if I ever did.
08/16/2011
PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
Nope, I'm all set!
08/16/2011
emilia emilia
Quote:
Originally posted by Iggins09
Being a straight female, I sometimes have fantasies about a woman going down on me. I've been with a woman before, but it was during a drunken stupor and we didn't do much. I'm curious to see how many other women out there are straight, ... More
Every now and then I do
09/28/2011
P'Gell P'Gell
Women have the occasional walk-on role in some of my fantasies, but I'm hetero and liking it. It works for me.
09/28/2011
Katastophy Katastophy
I've been with a woman, and learned that I greatly prefer men.
09/28/2011
Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
I have been with a woman and would like to again. I love my man and all but I am bi-curious.
09/28/2011
mistre$$ mistre$$
Not a big secret, but I would be interesting in getting with another girl. Never have done anything with another female.
09/28/2011
Total posts: 62
Unique posters: 57