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Contributor: never shy never shy
Is there something kinky that you wanted to do and your partner tell you no?
04/11/2013
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Contributor: shnsmth6 shnsmth6
Quote:
Originally posted by never shy
Is there something kinky that you wanted to do and your partner tell you no?
no, we're very open
04/11/2013
Contributor: married with children married with children
sometimes, but then we will try it on another day.
04/11/2013
Contributor: Real or memorex Real or memorex
An ex used to bring up kinky things and then make excuses when I tried to actually get those things going. We broke up because he was lame.
05/01/2013
Contributor: Pumpk1nPatch Pumpk1nPatch
Yes. I wanna peg my S/O, but he's not diggin' it.
05/02/2013
Contributor: Pumpk1nPatch Pumpk1nPatch
Yes. I wanna peg my S/O, but he's not diggin' it.
05/02/2013
Contributor: Noelle Noelle
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Originally posted by never shy
Is there something kinky that you wanted to do and your partner tell you no?
Yes, it pissed me off. He is now an ex.
05/02/2013
Contributor: PropertyOfPotter PropertyOfPotter
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Originally posted by Pumpk1nPatch
Yes. I wanna peg my S/O, but he's not diggin' it.
Same here, however, he's starting to open up to the idea. It's been a long time since I first mentioned it to him and has been a long process, but he's opening up little by little.
05/02/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
No, he's way kinkier than I so I will never hear no from him
09/29/2013
Contributor: Kitten has left the site Kitten has left the site
Yes TwT I wanted to try a threesome at one point but he said no.
09/29/2013
Contributor: Sincerely yours, N Sincerely yours, N
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Originally posted by never shy
Is there something kinky that you wanted to do and your partner tell you no?
Back when I liked BDSM and was into it with a partner, I wanted to dominate him. He said no.

That was a while ago, though, and I'm past that phase.
09/29/2013
Contributor: cmm cmm
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Originally posted by Pumpk1nPatch
Yes. I wanna peg my S/O, but he's not diggin' it.
Guy here, He's missing out!
09/29/2013
Contributor: Taylor Taylor
yes I've been told no before, but I've also said no to trying some things too. It's perfectly fine to not want to try something if it makes you uncomfortable
09/30/2013
Contributor: Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
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Originally posted by Pumpk1nPatch
Yes. I wanna peg my S/O, but he's not diggin' it.
He is missing out, I loved to be pegged
05/08/2014
Contributor: Andykh Andykh
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Originally posted by never shy
Is there something kinky that you wanted to do and your partner tell you no?
yes wanted to try pegging with my ex and she said no
05/19/2014
Contributor: SaucyxGirl SaucyxGirl
My current partner is vanilla so anything kinky is out of the question
Can't complain too much because so far we have made this work.
05/19/2014
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
My wife always says no, but slowly gives in. Many times watching Adult movies gives us the urge to try something different. Kinky to us is bondage etc. Pegging and dp is "Super Sex!"
05/20/2014
Contributor: HouseWench HouseWench
I usually try to broach the subject as a joke to test the waters. Seems safer that way. Otherwise I'm afraid I'd hear a loooot of laughter
05/20/2014
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
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Originally posted by never shy
Is there something kinky that you wanted to do and your partner tell you no?
Nope. Never had that problem.
05/20/2014
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by HouseWench
I usually try to broach the subject as a joke to test the waters. Seems safer that way. Otherwise I'm afraid I'd hear a loooot of laughter
I'm sure you are not alone.

Hey WW and Ros, did u see what I saw ?
05/20/2014
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
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Originally posted by OH&W, Lovebears
I'm sure you are not alone.

Hey WW and Ros, did u see what I saw ?
Huh?
05/20/2014
Contributor: OH&W, Lovebears OH&W, Lovebears
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Originally posted by Rossie
Huh?
broach ?

Unless that is a slang, I'm not the only one that needs spelling help.

HouseWench, no offense.

It's a private joke between the 3 of us. OH,WW and Rossie.
05/21/2014
Contributor: Sir Sir
Well, that depends. My girl can tell me "no" all she wants, it won't get her anywhere. HA!
05/22/2014
Contributor: titth titth
My male s/o said no to me taking the violent wand to his spiked testicle cuff.
02/09/2015
Contributor: RonLee RonLee
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Originally posted by never shy
Is there something kinky that you wanted to do and your partner tell you no?
Sadly yes. I'd have sex with my Baby every day if she'd be up for it. I'd love for her to top me too, but she just doesn't have the sex drive that I do. I know neither daily sex nor getting butt fucked would really count as kinky. But if she's reluctant to do that, none of the other things I've asked for or hinted about are in the cards.
02/09/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
It's happened a lot to me with a few partners in the part. Some are just not into the stuff I (and other) think is run of the mill.
09/22/2015
Contributor: Sir Sir
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Originally posted by never shy
Is there something kinky that you wanted to do and your partner tell you no?
Well, my girl is mine, so no, she doesn't tell me 'no' often, if at all.
10/19/2015
Contributor: TheToyGuy TheToyGuy
Oh I had a big "NO" moment just recently.

I invited someone who I considered to be a very out there and exhibitionist type to have sex on a rotating stage at a local adult shop in full view of about twenty to thirty people.

I had thought that they would be into it but they just went, "not going to happen".
10/20/2015