I have this thing......

TiffanyW TiffanyW
I have an obsession with my neck. I want to feel someone's hands around my neck, but my hubbs is totally against it. What should I do???
05/29/2013
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Mrs.Hellzapoppin Mrs.Hellzapoppin
Why is he against it? Breath play is definitely not uncommon.
05/29/2013
Fluke Fluke
We are scared to hurt you! You are a pretty delicate little flower and all of a sudden she is yelling choke me choke me and I'm like woah woah wtf is this. I'm supposed to be protecting you not hurting you, it is weird at first.

Just say you want hands on your neck but do it very gently. After a few times he'll get used to it and try some more pressure. I'm against hard choking but gentle squeezing okay I can do that.
05/29/2013
TiffanyW TiffanyW
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Originally posted by Fluke
We are scared to hurt you! You are a pretty delicate little flower and all of a sudden she is yelling choke me choke me and I'm like woah woah wtf is this. I'm supposed to be protecting you not hurting you, it is weird at first.

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LOL I never thought of it like that.

That's probably exactly what he's thinking!
05/30/2013
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by TiffanyW
LOL I never thought of it like that.

That's probably exactly what he's thinking!
Indeed it is. It took almost six months of randomly trying it before hubby got on board. The orgasms are insane!!!
05/30/2013
spiced spiced
My wife loves to be "choked". I put it in quotes, because what she really enjoys is when I just put my hands around her neck, without any real pressure. I like it when she does the same to me!
05/30/2013
pixiedustVixen pixiedustVixen
just tell him you want to try something new that you are interested in and really convince him this is just for fun and turns me on...
05/30/2013
TiffanyW TiffanyW
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Originally posted by Ansley
Indeed it is. It took almost six months of randomly trying it before hubby got on board. The orgasms are insane!!!
idk if my hubbs will ever get on board.......... He's not the kinky type. The only thing he has ever really talked about is tying me up. And it's not really a tie me to the bed thing, it's more of hog tie me with my ass in the air hahaha. not sure how I feel about that one.
05/30/2013
TiffanyW TiffanyW
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Originally posted by pixiedustVixen
just tell him you want to try something new that you are interested in and really convince him this is just for fun and turns me on...
I mean I really don't want to be hurt... I jut have an obsession with my neck
05/30/2013
KrissyNovacaine KrissyNovacaine
I like to have hands, but not full choking. I agree just try a soft hand and work up.
05/30/2013
Ansley Ansley
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Originally posted by TiffanyW
idk if my hubbs will ever get on board.......... He's not the kinky type. The only thing he has ever really talked about is tying me up. And it's not really a tie me to the bed thing, it's more of hog tie me with my ass in the air hahaha. ... More
How long have you two been together?
05/30/2013
Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
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Originally posted by TiffanyW
idk if my hubbs will ever get on board.......... He's not the kinky type. The only thing he has ever really talked about is tying me up. And it's not really a tie me to the bed thing, it's more of hog tie me with my ass in the air hahaha. ... More
if he is okay with that its not too far from him putting his hands on your neck, just tell him you will try his if he tries yours. you never know you just might like it.
05/30/2013
TiffanyW TiffanyW
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Originally posted by Ansley
How long have you two been together?
7 years total.
05/31/2013
TiffanyW TiffanyW
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Originally posted by Adnerbmw
if he is okay with that its not too far from him putting his hands on your neck, just tell him you will try his if he tries yours. you never know you just might like it.
idk. We'll see.....
05/31/2013
Gdom Gdom
In order to be safe AND make him feel more comfortable about the whole thing, establish a "safe sound/gesture" (normally, it'd be a safe word, but breath play tends to interfere with talking). Hold a ball or handkerchief and let him know that if you drop it, that means you want to stop. That way, you know that things won't accidentally go wrong and he doesn't have to worry that he'll hurt you while you're not as able to communicate.
06/01/2013
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