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am the one that wants it and I love asking for it.
Two things, first, if you KNOW he wants it all the time, why don't you initiate it so he doesn't have to get "grumpy". And , being on the other side of the problem, I desire it more often than my lady, but if I just bring it up or make advances toward it, I often encounter resistance and am put off. Oddly, if I just grab onto her and literally DRAG her into the bedroom or something of the like, she often responds ????? I just don't get it. Are all women like this ? It truly is puzzling to me.