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Billie Bones Billie Bones
How long do you wait to tall a new partner about your kinks?
07/26/2012
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Vanille Vanille
Right away. Saves the embarrassment of potentionally baiting a 'nilla.
07/26/2012
Gina RPG Geek Gina RPG Geek
Quote:
Originally posted by Billie Bones
How long do you wait to tall a new partner about your kinks?
I don't wait. It seems to causes problems if this happens
07/26/2012
oohlookasquirrel oohlookasquirrel
All my friends know I'm kinky, so it would be difficult to keep it a secret from anybody I'm dating. My last new partner already had an idea of how kinky I am, but I told him some of my interests as part of the "seduction process." I suppose it's easier with a more well accepted kink than with adult babies or similar, but letting my potential partners know about my kinks is part of how I flirt, if I really mean business.
07/27/2012
Claire-Bear Claire-Bear
It's best to be upfront right away, as in the first date.
07/27/2012
ankie212 ankie212
I have always been honest about the fact that I like some kinky things, mostly through joking around about it.
08/03/2012
Phantom2291 Phantom2291
Quote:
Originally posted by Billie Bones
How long do you wait to tall a new partner about your kinks?
After a few times, asking what her fantasies are. It eases the tension and has you both feeling more secure knowing the other wants to make you happy.
08/04/2012
Gina RPG Geek Gina RPG Geek
Quote:
Originally posted by Billie Bones
How long do you wait to tall a new partner about your kinks?
Right away
08/06/2012
Frankie Frankie
I pretty much only date people if they are also kinky. Yay internet! Gotta be upfront or you get attached to someone who leaves you unsatisfied and that is incredibly frustrating for everyone.
08/26/2012
moonhexed moonhexed
Quote:
Originally posted by Billie Bones
How long do you wait to tall a new partner about your kinks?
until I feel comfortable with them sexually. Or sometimes i'll just casually bring it up
12/11/2012
FrustratedFemme FrustratedFemme
Depends on the kink, and the person. I didn't tell my girlfriend about my biggest kink until we'd been serious for a few months, and we didn't experiment with it until after a year together. However, that's my most extreme kink. Usually, my dates know I like bondage by the second or third date, assuming the dates are going well of course.
12/11/2012
Thumper Logic Thumper Logic
Depends on how much I trust a person, and if they are open to accepting new ideas. I try to be upfront, but not terribly shocking, and usually hint at things while getting to know someone.
12/11/2012
unoriginalgirlyid unoriginalgirlyid
Once you feel comfortable sharing intimate details about the rest of your life
12/20/2012
angelcrossmarie1 angelcrossmarie1
Quote:
Originally posted by Vanille
Right away. Saves the embarrassment of potentionally baiting a 'nilla.
Right on. XD I always tell them right away. Because I have such specific kinks, it usually come up in conversation within the first few days of us talking because I don't want to invest in a relationship (on a romantic/sexual level) with someone who couldn't share them with me. Some people say that it's awful to do that or whatever but I don't see the point in trying to date someone who isn't sexually compatible.
03/13/2013
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