It is a really hard question, imma have to say use because if its used properly i think were ok. Although in most cases size does matter!
Luckily ive got fantastic size and use with my hubby , no complaints
is it the size of the penis or the way he uses it that makes a difference to you?
This is a very difficult question to answer. I love having a man with a big penis. It is just my preference, but that being said, I have a man with a large penis and he knows how to use it.. Best of the best for me..
I think it's a bit of both, but I slightly lend towards size. For anal at least it's the thickness that really gets me off, and there's only so much that a guy can actually do with it beyond just thrusting.
Considering the tiny size of the vaginal opening, it doesn't take a very large penis to create the friction needed for a great orgasm. Length for me is not an issue, it's the girth, but as I said, it doesn't take a biggie to please me.