We're on the same page. But, the last few years my drive is just a little higher than his. He's a little older, and I'm hitting my sexual peak, and that can be slightly frustrating. I'm in the bathroom, thinking I'm going to get some, then I get into the bedroom.... and he's asleep.
But, most of the time, we're both up for it.
He's told me, "It's like living with a 17 year old boy... in a grown woman's body." OK, I took it as a compliment.
(Nothing inappropriate, just that guys this age are horny ALL the time.)