Who initiates sex more? You or your partner?

xoxoxoxo xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
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Me/female
93
My girlfriend
23
My boyfriend
73
Me/Male
47
Total votes: 236 (204 voters)
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03/10/2012
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Angelica Angelica
He does because he doesn't want it that often so I stopped trying and being let down and just let him initiate when he wants sex.
03/10/2012
spunkmonkey spunkmonkey
Me.
03/10/2012
C-Rae C-Rae
It's pretty even actually haha we both tend to stay even
03/10/2012
DreamWolf DreamWolf
I am the crazy one who is always up to such things, though it's more that Master is always fully pleased, and I mostly wait as patiently as I can until it's my turn finally - so am hyped up pretty much all the time, and whimper to enjoy Him almost everyday, just writing it to Him mostly in my Nightly letters, so yep, I am the one who mentions it more, and has it waaaaaaaaaaaaaaayway more often on her mind!!! ^^
03/10/2012
Entropy Entropy
Me/Male, and if I don't initiate for some reason, she does.
03/11/2012
x203 x203
oh wow i forgot to make "both of us" an option. Sorry guys!
03/11/2012
MrGoodTool MrGoodTool
It used to be her, but now it is me.
03/14/2012
SparklyGlitter SparklyGlitter
its up to me haha
03/14/2012
purple579 purple579
I don't like initiating
03/22/2012
joja joja
I initiate far more than my boyfriend, but neither of us really have a problem with that. I'm just a very physically affectionate person, and cuddling/kissing often turns into something more.
03/22/2012
Marcianpro Marcianpro
He does it mostly
03/25/2012
jokerzwild jokerzwild
I don't read signals well enough so tend to wait for her to initiate or at least make it blatant
03/25/2012
plaidvulva plaidvulva
I don't think either of us initiates it more than the other...
03/25/2012
unfulfilled unfulfilled
It depends on the situation I suppose.
03/25/2012
Ashley2012 Ashley2012
my bf does...but im always horny. lol
03/30/2012
Lizzy Lizzy
Lately i do.
03/30/2012
funluvinmama funluvinmama
I try to get it all the time. Most of the time I just get told to stop, But hay it is worth the try.

When he wants it, he just asks if I am going to shower. That is my cue that he is in the mood.
03/30/2012
DiamondKoala DiamondKoala
Usually I do, just out of habit.
03/30/2012
mlgrant mlgrant
Him, but I do quite often too
03/30/2012
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I do, but my wife thinks she does. However, we have very different opinions about what constitutes initiation.
04/01/2012
Rockasaurus Rockasaurus
Quote:
Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
We both do frequently
05/07/2012
Sex Positivity Sex Positivity
I do. It actually has been an argument before, because I don't feel wanted if I'm always the one initiating.
05/07/2012
Geogeo Geogeo
Used to be my ex at nights and me in the mornings.
05/07/2012
sunkissedJess sunkissedJess
It's usually me. Every now and then he will wake me up in the mornings to do it, but that doesn't happen too often these days.
05/07/2012
aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
Quote:
Originally posted by xoxoxoxo
Just wanted to know.
i have two steady partners right now... with her and me it's pretty 50/50... with him and me, also 50/50.

but going for the first BIG move, as far as removing clothes, he'll usually start. i would tease until the cows came home. but you know men... instant gratification is the name of the game!
05/07/2012
SouthernBelle SouthernBelle
It's about 50/50... I'm the one who is always in the mood, and I try to start things frequently, but she isn't always also ready to have sex. She initiates it less, but I think she has a higher success rate than I do because I never turn her down.
05/09/2012
Various Various
My husband is the one who always initiates.
05/09/2012
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
Me.

It ususally ends up *poke poke poke poke* Hey, hey, hey.... I've missed you *unzipping his pants* Welcome home!
05/09/2012
31 Flavors 31 Flavors
It has always been me.
05/09/2012
Total posts: 125
Unique posters: 121