69 vs Single

AshMegYo AshMegYo 10/10/2011

Would you rather do a 69 position or do separate oral sex?
I personally love 69. Mainly because I get super turned out when I'm giving my boyfriend head and when I'm getting pleasure at the same time, it is amazing...
So which do you prefer?

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Which suits your fancy??
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kellyg kellyg
I've done and do both but I personally prefer giving oral/recieving oral seperately. I like the idea of mutual pleasure that comes with 69 but I feel like I am able to do much much more when we aren't in that kind of position. Plus I do get QUITE aroused giving head anyway, so mutual pleasure indeed haha
10/11/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
I'm not a 69 fan at all!
10/11/2011
mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
lol i am odd i guess. my husband and i love 69 and just normal oral sex
10/11/2011
Valentinka Valentinka
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
Either one is great in its own way
10/11/2011
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
We are both with you on this, but it is sometimes hard to relax and enjoy, while also servicing the needs of your lover...in any activity. On the other hand, the turn on OF doing something to them, while they are doing you...is....amazing.
10/11/2011
The Curious Couple The Curious Couple
I prefer 69!
10/11/2011
Liz2 Liz2
We have done 69, but honestly, separate oral feels better. I just feel too distracted during 69.
10/11/2011
Beck Beck
I like 69, it works out better for us!
10/11/2011
unfulfilled unfulfilled
One at a time.
10/11/2011
big b big b
separate
10/11/2011
toxie m toxie m
Separate. I can't focus on either while in a 69, and it sort of makes the whole thing seem like work. I'd rather put all my effort into giving great head OR be able to focus all my attention on receiving.
10/11/2011
null null
I'm not so big on 69. I'd rather focus on 'the task at hand'.
10/11/2011
ToyTimeTim ToyTimeTim
Any type of oral is great but I'll take 69 first.
10/11/2011
sexyintexas sexyintexas
I love it all, but I would prefer to do him or him do me alone, that way neither one of us has to concentrate on anything but enjoying it.
10/11/2011
RonLee RonLee
I enjoy 69 but I REALLY enjoy it when my GF uses her tongue just under the head of my cock. In 69 she that spot is under either her upper lip getting a little stimulation or the roof of her mouth getting no stimulation at all.
10/11/2011
Midway through Midway through
I prefer separate, honestly makes it easier for me to position however I want.
10/11/2011
LQ LQ
I like the whole everyone-happy-at-once idea of 69, but rarely actually do it because the positioning just never works out well. I'm 5'4". I don't especially look for tall guys but I've the majority I've been involved with where probably 6'-6'4" & my neck just doesn't really go that way.
10/11/2011
True Pleasures True Pleasures
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Originally posted by LQ
I like the whole everyone-happy-at-once idea of 69, but rarely actually do it because the positioning just never works out well. I'm 5'4". I don't especially look for tall guys but I've the majority I've been involved with ... More
Same here. I'm 5'1" and my husband is 6'5". It's really awkward.
10/11/2011
oldman oldman
I aggree with most comments in this post--separate is so much more comfortable. Wiyh 69 is is hard to concentrate on youself and your partner.
10/12/2011
indiglo indiglo
I prefer separate oral.
10/12/2011
married with children married with children
any type is fine by me
10/13/2011
Liz x420x Liz x420x
i like giving head separately but 69 with a girl is the best
10/13/2011
carenautilus carenautilus
I, uh, can't actually coordinate my movements at all when someone goes down on me. So, yes.
10/13/2011
7Miles 7Miles
I get distracted when he's licking my pussy. Usually when we 69 I forget to play with him so it's usually better for us to do it separably. However I love it when he fucks my face while I finger myself!
10/20/2011
jenn g jenn g
I can't concentrate on either thing, and can't get into it.
10/21/2011
DeliciousDrip DeliciousDrip
Separate, like others I can't concentrate when it's being done to me!
10/21/2011
The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary The-IT-Guy-And-My-Secretary
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Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
I think I agree, both at the same time is pretty hot.
10/21/2011
starklover starklover
I like both
10/24/2011
geliebt geliebt
I'm quite a fan of both, but I find it really hard to concentrate on anything at all when I'm getting oral, so it makes it a little tough to do.
10/25/2011
DiscretionAdvised DiscretionAdvised
Both! Its all about variety for me.
10/25/2011
ConnerJay ConnerJay
One at a time. 69 is just too difficult to perfect the position to be enjoyable for me.
11/02/2011
Ciao. Ciao.
Either, though usually I prefer either just giving or receiving since it's logistically a little easier. However, the messy pleasure of both going down on each other is pretty fun.
11/02/2011
guard083 guard083
Separate Oral Sex for me
11/02/2011
Sunshineamine Sunshineamine
I like either of them but more often than not it ends up being separate for oral.
11/02/2011
Say what? Say what?
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
I think 69 is better when my gf and I want to be closer, but for I guess individualized pleasure, separate is the way to go.
11/04/2011
eeep eeep
It all depends on my mood and the occasion. If I feel like teasing for a while, then 69 makes it hard to keep to it.
11/04/2011
~LaUr3n~ ~LaUr3n~
I love 69 and my partner is like obsessed with it. I like it about 50% of the time. I like to do separate oral too because I can get better angles.
11/04/2011
badk1tty badk1tty
I think 69 is amazingly overrated.
11/04/2011
Diabolical Kitty Diabolical Kitty
I like separate oral so much easier.
11/04/2011
MeliPixie MeliPixie
I've never received oral sex, so I guess I would just vote for "either" because I'm open to it all
11/04/2011
NarcissisticLust NarcissisticLust
There is too much going in a 69 and I just can't enjoy myself.
11/04/2011
TheBadHobbit TheBadHobbit
Way, way, way too easily distracted during a 69 . . which usually means I stop working on my partner and just lie there in a daze @.@

Plus, I'm reeeally out of shape so I have little stamina, and I haven't had a lot of oral practice so my tongue gets tired out really easily. It's a bit easier for me to swap over to fingers in single than in 69, and I don't have to worry about getting worn out from my reactions to my partner's handiwork
11/05/2011
Fun Lover Fun Lover
I like to do the best I can and make sure the reciever gets my best. I can't do that when I'm side tracked, so single works the best for the giver and reciever for me.
11/05/2011
LavenderSkies LavenderSkies
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
I like it separately.
11/08/2011
lilly555 lilly555
The 69 is distracting if I'm going to give a proper BJ I need to be separate from my partner.
11/08/2011
GoodCall GoodCall
Depends on my mood....but I normally enjoy separate play.
11/13/2011
Kendrir Kendrir
Separate for me. 69 is one of those things that seems to work well in my mind, but it's never as enjoyable as devoting full attention to one another one at a time
11/13/2011
Darklyvan Darklyvan
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Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
I find that during orgasm my wife goes, for lack of a better word, crazy. She loses her gag reflex and the vibrations from the moaning and screaming with my cock in her mouth are amazing. This is why I prefer 69
11/13/2011
eroticmutt eroticmutt
Separate oral sex. I am not a fan of giving head, but if I am gonna do it I would rather not spend all my focus on that and not enjoy the oral I am getting
11/24/2011
Paula Paula
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
I enjoy both but I get too distracted during 69, I can only focus on one thing at a time.
12/04/2011
SAE09 SAE09
I like one at a time because I get WAY too distracted and it takes away from my pleasure!
12/04/2011
shcoo shcoo
As many others are saying, I feel too distracted during 69. I guess it's a great warm-up, but I've only orgasmed from 69 once. My partner is more turned on by it than normal blowjobs, though.
12/04/2011
SiNn SiNn
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
I love to give mor ethen reciev but 69 is fun sometimes
12/04/2011
LoveDrunk LoveDrunk
It's much easier to come separately for us rather than 69. 69 is fun, but it's a little much to focus on giving and receiving at the same time.
12/05/2011
Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I love both, but my wife finds 69 distracting more than stimulating because she says she can't "concentrate" on what she's doing.
12/05/2011
TheHardOne TheHardOne
I like 69 best.
12/07/2011
Jammin14580 Jammin14580
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
I LOVE 69. Holy crap.<3
12/07/2011
Sinfully Sinfully
Either! Love it all
12/07/2011
ThoughtsAblaze ThoughtsAblaze
I've only tried 69 once and it didn't work too well, so I prefer single right now.
12/07/2011
John E W John E W
I love both. So either way is great to me and it also depends on what mood your in. As sometimes you would rather just prefer separate oral and other times like a nice 69.
12/07/2011
Trishcuit629 Trishcuit629
It depends. Sometimes, during 69, I get distracted, and forget that I'm supposed to be making him feel just as great as he's making me feel. Sometimes I can stay focused though. Either way, giving and receiving are fun
12/07/2011
neon neon
69 can be amazing, but sometimes focus gets lost and it ends up being only one partner.
12/07/2011
Sublime Sublime
Depends on my mood and depends on the girl.
12/13/2011
BuckeyeGal04 BuckeyeGal04
I love both, and I think there's a time/mood for both. The 69 position tends to be more aggressive and heightened shared excitement. I can get distracted though with all the wonderful feelings he's giving me. Doing it separately is really nice for pampering and giving the other your full attention on them.
12/14/2011
markwashere markwashere
I love 69
12/21/2011
HannahPanda HannahPanda
I voted 69 because I'm curious to try it very soon
12/23/2011
klyte klyte
69 definitely.
12/23/2011
Silverdrop Silverdrop
69 is okay for a little bit of playful foreplay, but neither of us are going to get off on it because of the split attention thing. Plus there's the whole awkward fit problem.
12/23/2011
reknit reknit
i think 69 is awkward and cringe worthy...
12/24/2011
Claire de Cerises Claire de Cerises
Either way, it all feels good.
12/29/2011
deltalima deltalima
I prefer separate but for him to do something other than watch me.
12/30/2011
bayosgirl bayosgirl
69 can be awkward. I prefer separate.
12/30/2011
ichwillwaffels ichwillwaffels
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
I give but never receive oral sex and I'm fine with it so 69 doesn't really work for me.
01/04/2012
P'Gell P'Gell
We usually give oral sex one at a time. We fall into 69 once in a while, usually during a long marathon. I usually don't come during 69, and once I did he said afterward, "The whole time you were coming, I was thinking, "OMG, I hope she doesn't bite me." I didn't. But, still. I tend to enjoy both more one at a time.
01/04/2012
EnterTheFist EnterTheFist
I absolutely love oral, no matter how we do it, but I gotta say I love 69 a LOT. I voted for 69, but as long as I'm eating pussy or getting my dick sucked, I'm a happy camper.
01/06/2012
ddd masturbator(bye all!) ddd masturbator(bye all!)
I'd like to think that 69 would be great... but my gag reflex is beyond ridiculous soooo giving a blow job is going to take a lot of work for me... I think I'd get frustrated with my lack of success, which would turn me off and having my pussy eaten when I'm not in the mood would just be a bad idea.
01/08/2012
Zombirella Zombirella
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
Separate. I've just NEVER been comfortable in the 69 position and I don't think I ever will be. It's just too hard to focus on everything that is going on. I'd rather do it separately and get to fully enjoy it.
01/08/2012
Brandonn Brandonn
68 is pretty hot to. I like all the upper 60's
01/21/2012
Kabachu Kabachu
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
seperate
01/24/2012
musicownsmysoul musicownsmysoul
I've tried 69-ing once. It was awkward and difficult
01/24/2012
Undead Undead
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
69 is often times uncomfortable and my fiance doesn't really like it.
01/24/2012
Highmaintenancegirl916 Highmaintenancegirl916
Separate.
01/24/2012
dhig dhig
i love 69ing
01/24/2012
woodsdragon woodsdragon
Don't get me wrong, I LOVE getting a BJ but sometimes you just want... no crave something more. I love it when she gets on top and i get to use my hands and mouth on her while she's going to town on me. It's one of the best activities if you want to just have some fun on afternoon.
01/26/2012
Modern^Spank^Anthem Modern^Spank^Anthem
either
01/27/2012
ninja250 ninja250
We both prefer seperate
01/27/2012
kawigrl kawigrl
either
01/27/2012
MamaDivine MamaDivine
Depends on the mood, for sure. Sometimes we mix it up.....start with one, switch to the other, and vice versa
01/28/2012
MsRigby MsRigby
I enjoy 69, but do it sparingly. I really love performing oral sex on my partner, so I prefer to focus on what I'm doing.
01/31/2012
Positwist Positwist
I love 69ing, but more for the idea of it than anything else. If I want to come, single is better. Less distracting.
02/18/2012
zecookiepuss zecookiepuss
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
Both separate and 69 are really hot and can be a lot of fun... but I always feel like I have stronger orgasms with one on one oral. I also love playing that way because then I can use my hands...
02/19/2012
zecookiepuss zecookiepuss
Quote:
Originally posted by Positwist
I love 69ing, but more for the idea of it than anything else. If I want to come, single is better. Less distracting.
Absolutely!
02/19/2012
zecookiepuss zecookiepuss
REally diverse answers here... pretty cool.
02/19/2012
oneeyedoctopus oneeyedoctopus
69 is uncomfortable and I can't focus on either giving or receiving. Not a fan.
02/20/2012
ECU Pirate ECU Pirate
69 is awesome. Eating my girlfriend out makes me so horny and getting blown at the same time just pushes it over the edge. Some of the best blowjobs iv ever had have been separate. There are advantages to both for sure!
02/21/2012
Nkev Nkev
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
69 gets to distracting (in a good way) but also bad in that it distracts me from the big o!
02/23/2012
smashthepatriarchy smashthepatriarchy
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
I have found I don't particularly like 69 because I tend to date much taller men and I am pretty short. Doesn't always work.
02/23/2012
Lil' Missy Lil' Missy
I do both, but I prefer it to be separate. When I'm giving head I like to give it all my attention, and that is hard to do when hubby is eating me out.
02/25/2012
Nazaress Nazaress
I usually prefer to do it separate. I think we both do. This is partly because we're not the smallest people and it's a little suffocating to be on top of each other like that. It's also because we can both give MUCH better oral sex when we're focused on only that rather than try to strain our necks 69ing.
02/27/2012
Lizzy Lizzy
i like 69, 68. all of it
02/27/2012
Stinkytofu10 Stinkytofu10
I like 69, but my GF prefers separate because she can focus on enjoying the experience.
02/27/2012
MGDavicnigirl MGDavicnigirl
I really dislike 69. I can't get into the pleasure I'm getting, and I don't get as turned on giving it in that position.
02/27/2012
AJvil AJvil
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
separate
03/06/2012
Trepier Trepier
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
When you can find that rhythm when 69ing it is just amazing though won't complain about separate. It is all good.
03/08/2012
butts butts
love 69 BUT I prefer it separate, 69 is hot but it's a lot to concentrate on at once, it's hard for me to enjoy it as much as I would separately.
03/08/2012
TexasFire TexasFire
We really don't do much oral sex now that we're married

Back when we were dating, perhaps to try and impress each other, we would do it fairly regularly. But like you said Ash, the feeling of going down on your partner and having it reciprocated is amazing! Gives me tingling sensations just thinking about it...
03/08/2012
Mwar Mwar
For orgasms, I like it being separate. That way I don't have to worry about pleasing him. If it's just for warm-up, then 69 is great
03/08/2012
Pirate Pirate
both are nice, but i prefer it separate to be able to concentrate
03/15/2012
FruityCloudPuff FruityCloudPuff
I love 69, but not for too long, the position can be awkward for getting a good angle, and I always find one of us ends up not being able to focus as well on the other person when we are getting aroused ourselves.
03/16/2012
meitman meitman
I really love both. Wouldn't want to do without one or the other, but we do solo oral a lot more often.
03/23/2012
Escott Escott
I enjoy starting out with a little 69 to get the motors running, but after that I like to focus on just my wife's pussy and make her cum as hard as possible.
03/24/2012
Azule Azule
We trade off for solo oral, because it is a bit difficult to multitask and we're too tempted to get lazy and pause to enjoy.
03/24/2012
romstomp romstomp
We like to do it all, but solo to get going
03/26/2012
plaidvulva plaidvulva
Done it, do it here and there. Don't really care if we do it or individual oral.
03/28/2012
SadoMas SadoMas
Either really, though fuck it feels so good when we both go at it at once.
03/30/2012
sweetpea12 sweetpea12
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
I love doing 69 because I can give and receive at the same time. But I also really like separate oral sex, because that way I can fully enjoy my experience
04/05/2012
garylangworthy420 garylangworthy420
its too easy to get distracted when 69ing
04/07/2012
wildorchid wildorchid
I like both, probably leaning towards 69 than separate.
04/07/2012
pinkpottergirl pinkpottergirl
I prefer single, I am easily distracted...
04/07/2012
Geogeo Geogeo
I prefer separate...mostly because I don't like receiving oral, it does nothing for me.
04/07/2012
Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
Indeed it is hard to concentrate on giving and getting pleasure at the same time from something as intense as oral, but we simply LOVE to 69, just cause it is so...SEXY.
04/07/2012
bsgs bsgs
both are great, but 69 is more difficult due to multi-tasking
04/07/2012
humblepie humblepie
Separate. I just can't focus if he's getting me off at the same time.
04/07/2012
Kirsten A Kirsten A
Separate. It's harder to maneuver, and hard to focus if I'm getting stimulated at the same time. Likewise, his focus will wander if he's getting it at the same time!
04/07/2012
Lady Bear Lady Bear
taking turns
04/12/2012
corsetsaurus rex corsetsaurus rex
I'm really super-short, and my current mate is really super-tall. 69 just doesn't work for us. =(
04/12/2012
elrique elrique
I love 69, we hardly do it. Seperately makes more sense though, for best pleasure and results.
04/14/2012
VelvetDragon VelvetDragon
It's hard for me to concentrate while 69ing. Either I can't concentrate on the pleasure, or if I concentrate on the pleasure I don't do as good a job giving!

In addition, I'm shorter than both my partners, which makes it kind of hard.

I much prefer taking turns! Or just a little 69 as foreplay to more focused oral sex. :>
04/16/2012
grace grace
If my partner and I are doing 69, I find it very had to concentrate on pleasing him well. I rather do it separately, that way I can give him a good quality blowjob.
04/16/2012
samanthalynn samanthalynn
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
Separate
04/16/2012
gsfanatic gsfanatic
69, I like the sensation of her moaning when she gives me a blowjob. Individual does let us do more things and reach different places though.
04/20/2012
Passion plum Passion plum
69 can be akward due to our height difference so we usually prefer seperate or manaual stimulation for each other while performing oral.
05/02/2012
Incendiaire Incendiaire
I'm happy to give a blow job without reciprocation, but if I'm getting one then I'd rather be in the 69 position, just so I have something to do.
05/02/2012
ginas ginas
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
Separate oral sex definitely.
05/02/2012
catastic catastic
69 is fun once in a while but separately is just so much better for me. I can focus on the moment much more instead of multitasking.
05/03/2012
Vegan Silk Vegan Silk
I can't 69 well. If he hits that special spot I lose control of my limbs and can't focus on him. so it much easier to take turns. That way we can each focus on our part.
05/04/2012
Thomas90 Thomas90
Separate oral sex for me!
05/07/2012
P3ngu1n78 P3ngu1n78
Quote:
Originally posted by Liz2
We have done 69, but honestly, separate oral feels better. I just feel too distracted during 69.
I agree
05/07/2012
Chami Chami
i like 69 because it relaxes me and i can take him in deeper but i also like separate so i can concentrate
05/08/2012
LoveBug721 LoveBug721
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
single
05/11/2012
Waterlily Waterlily
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
I voted single. We get super turned on seeing each other enjoy receiving head - but there's something sexy about seeing your partner lying back in absolute ecstasy, just taking it all in. Something sexy about having to wait your turn also...! Super hot and bothered and teased, I find it so much more pleasurable when you finally get your chance to lie back and enjoy!
05/12/2012
Nirelan Nirelan
69 is more fun for me i get kinda bored giving head, so to get it at the same time is awesome
05/13/2012
Fawkes Fawkes
either
05/14/2012
mmmmm mmmmm
not a 69 fan at all
05/15/2012
TakeHimAway TakeHimAway
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
Single.
05/16/2012
roskat roskat
Sometimes 69 but I prefer them separate. Easier to concentrate...
05/16/2012
hro789 hro789
done both but prefer seperate
05/16/2012
<3BF <3BF
we like 69 just fine but it's nice to concentrate on one at a time
05/16/2012
theavocadopit theavocadopit
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
05/19/2012
theavocadopit theavocadopit
Quote:
Originally posted by True Pleasures
Same here. I'm 5'1" and my husband is 6'5". It's really awkward.
05/19/2012
theavocadopit theavocadopit
Quote:
Originally posted by hro789
done both but prefer seperate
05/19/2012
indiechick indiechick
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
I hate 69...I like seeing my partners eyes and he likes seeing mine...its an extra turn on during the act.
05/19/2012
SubmissiveFeminist SubmissiveFeminist
I support the 69. =P
05/21/2012
Ilovelingerie Ilovelingerie
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
Its to hard to choose, I LOVE to 69 because what isn't good about it, you get pleasure by doing it and by recieving it, so when its combined(amazing) BUT THEN AGAIN when you are just giving it, you get to concentrate more on what you are doing... and it turns me in a lot the more I think about what I'm doing.
05/21/2012
jmex83 jmex83
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
The wife doesn't care much to give oral, but I LOVE to give it. When we do, we do both. Separate oral and 69. Sometimes we'll do 69 on our sides, which seems to work best for us. Sometimes its just one of us receives and then we can't really help but get going with the "Good stuff" hah! So we never really make it to the other one receiving
05/21/2012
ud328 ud328
Absolutely 69, her on top. I loooooove giving her oral but she's not the biggest fan of giving to me, not orally at least. When she does its amazing. I love the way she give to me and I'm incredibly turned on by going down on her so...yeah...that...69. ...
05/21/2012
daaddison8991 daaddison8991
separate, im always distracted when 69'in
05/24/2012
Deeder Deeder
Not a fan of 69, since my knees get a little sore from me supporting my weight on them for too long. Plus, we also end up arguing over who has to "top" (neither one of us wants to be on the underside of a butthole), and if he tops then his balls tend to block my nostrils and I can't breathe.

As for side-by-side, my husband likes to joke around by trying to crush my head between his thighs.
05/28/2012
hillys hillys
it really depends on your mood. sometimes its fun doing both at once, but sometimes its nice to sit back and relax or treat the other to sitting back and relaxing
05/28/2012
Whisper21 Whisper21
I like giving not so much receiving.
06/05/2012
Greenleaf Greenleaf
I have a tendency to bite/scratch/flail around when I climax. 69 is not a good idea for me.
06/05/2012
Short Cake Short Cake
Why not do it both ways it's fun!
06/05/2012
FriskyInFlorida FriskyInFlorida
Quote:
Originally posted by Liz2
We have done 69, but honestly, separate oral feels better. I just feel too distracted during 69.
exactly!
06/07/2012
J5ive J5ive
either one
06/19/2012
HusbandandWife HusbandandWife
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
We do both but for me, I usually like separate oral. I just LOVE watching her give me head!!! That has always been a turn on and she likes to be watched as well.
06/20/2012
Badass Badass
I prefer to give and receive separately.
06/22/2012
MistressDandelion MistressDandelion
I prefer to give generally. I don't like to 69, because I can't concentrate, and I have a small mouth and sharp teeth and he's big as fuck, so I have to stop because I don't want to bite down.
06/22/2012
mjtheprincess mjtheprincess
I love 69. It's sexy and intimate. And I LOVE having something in my mouth But, I also love to just lay back and relax. And I love when he gets to just lay back and relax. Hell, to be unhappy with decently given oral should be a sin!
06/23/2012
SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Either. As long as oral is involved, I'm loving it!
06/23/2012
Andrew1992 Andrew1992
Separate oral.
06/25/2012
twoods89 twoods89
I've always prefered 69...more of a thrill
06/25/2012
hybridinsurge hybridinsurge
I have trouble concentrating on giving a blow job when I am being orally pleasured.
06/29/2012
konicaguy konicaguy
Easier to focus on pleasing each other when doing it separately.
07/02/2012
Jordan B Jordan B
I love 69. I love giving oral while receiving at the same time but my girlfriend doesn't enjoy 69. We don't do it often but we still do it.
07/04/2012
Mamastoys Mamastoys
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
We do both but I forget to keep giving him pleasure when I get tuned into my pleasure!!
07/06/2012
heather-mooney heather-mooney
definitely separate! my boyfriend disagrees though...haha
07/29/2012
xgamerx xgamerx
I prefer 69
07/29/2012
digit88 digit88
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
separate
07/29/2012
CadmiumKitty CadmiumKitty
separate
07/30/2012
melissa1973 melissa1973
seperate.
07/30/2012
Nora29714 Nora29714
either or.
07/30/2012
Feisty Feisty
I prefer separate
07/30/2012
panthercat23 panthercat23
Either is good because I enjoy both.
07/30/2012
LAndJ LAndJ
Separate, more concentrated sensations.
07/30/2012
MrPink MrPink
I can never seem to do my best in the 69 postion. I really enjoy holding her down/ fighting her off as she squirms and I can't quite do that in that position so things just end when we start getting intense, rather than getting better. Plus I really don't get much out of receiving oral so I'd prefer to just go at it while we're doing that.
07/30/2012
Ex-prude Ex-prude
I'm too distracted with 69
08/03/2012
Passionate Mandi Passionate Mandi
I prefer separate because I can't focus/get off with 69, but my bf loves 69, so we do it sometimes
08/06/2012
Edeneve Edeneve
I like focused attention
08/07/2012
DeliciousB DeliciousB
It all depends on the mood I'm in. Sometimes I rather just receiving.
08/08/2012
SMichelle SMichelle
Either way is just fine with me.
08/09/2012
Scrawberry78 Scrawberry78
I love 69
08/09/2012
AriaRN AriaRN
I definitely prefer separate oral. 69 involves too much trying to give and receive and prevents you from focusing on your pleasure and your partners pleasure at the same time.
08/11/2012
edenguy edenguy
Definitely Separate. We don't like the distraction of 69
08/11/2012
pirata pirata
Either, it just depends on what we are going for. 69 if we don't have much time but we want to taste each other. Separate oral for other times.
08/11/2012
KRD KRD
Usually separate. Sometimes 69 is a nice change though!
08/14/2012
Rory Rory
I like the 69 position for receiving but I don't give oral
08/14/2012
Girly Juice Girly Juice
69ing does not thrill me. I find it's way too easy to get distracted, and difficult for either of us to reach orgasm that way.
08/15/2012
tortilla tortilla
separate
09/10/2012
victorsummers victorsummers
when I do separate I feel that i do better than 69...i can be focus in what i'm doing
09/21/2012
Velocity Velocity
separately. I can't focus enough in 69.
11/07/2012
KinkyNicki92 KinkyNicki92
Both. depending on the mood that im in. I do agree with the above statement. It is so difficult to please him while he is pleasing me. most of the time id rather do it seperately. Its easier to lay back relax and enjoy my turn...
11/15/2012
Nurse Katie Nurse Katie
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
Either, I really like both
11/16/2012
damnbul12 damnbul12
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
Either
11/16/2012
Robinhoood Robinhoood
licking and be licked is the best
11/17/2012
amazon amazon
Always been a fan of 69!
11/17/2012
Sharay88 Sharay88
I feel 69 gets you closer to your partner.
11/19/2012
Ivanna Ivanna
separate
11/19/2012
spiced spiced
My wife and I both love 69!

However, she has a hard time cumming if she's not on her back, so usually, I'll pleasure her until she's had enough, and then, after a little break, I'll get on my back and she'll 'climb on' and pleasure me.

I just adore looking at her from that angle and I like having her there to put my oral fixation to good use! Sometimes, she even cums when she's on top in a 69--which always makes makes me cum. Which is awesome!
11/23/2012
ScarlettSeraph ScarlettSeraph
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
Seperate
12/10/2012
ASpiritedSlut ASpiritedSlut
I like separate, I'm entirely too distracted during 69... I'm not doing my best work, and I can't really enjoy what he's doing either.
12/10/2012
mp3me mp3me
Quote:
Originally posted by kellyg
I've done and do both but I personally prefer giving oral/recieving oral seperately. I like the idea of mutual pleasure that comes with 69 but I feel like I am able to do much much more when we aren't in that kind of position. Plus I do get ... More
Yea thats pretty much what i was gonna say
12/10/2012
babymario babymario
not a fan of 69 here
12/10/2012
sexytileena / absolutely love sex sexytileena / absolutely love sex
69 is always fun
12/13/2012
srexom srexom
it can be difficult to concentrate when recieving.
12/13/2012
chicmichiw chicmichiw
I like all the attention on me
12/19/2012
libbyv libbyv
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
we like both solo, and 69ing
12/24/2012
Arlinnae Arlinnae
I like itbetter when done seperately, I can concentrate better!
12/24/2012
1001 Pleasures 1001 Pleasures
I enjoy it more when it's done one at a time. 69 is actually a good way for me to ease back when I am getting too close, though. But as stimulation goes, it usually feels better if my partner is going down on me while facing me, not facing away from me. 69 stimulates the wrong aspect of my cock.
12/25/2012
aluminummm aluminummm
Separateeeee.
12/25/2012
lainebug lainebug
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
both depends on our mood
12/26/2012
callsignhusker callsignhusker
I prefer separate
12/27/2012
evie.amor evie.amor
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
69 is fun sometimes but there is not way I can cum that way. I prefer to focus my attention on a single task.
12/27/2012
jaynimal jaynimal
I like both 69 is fun and single is sexy
12/27/2012
Hummingbird Hummingbird
69 sounds wonderful now how can I entice him to try?
01/01/2013
Fluffy Snuggles Fluffy Snuggles
Just depends, but either one is great!
01/20/2013
Apirka Apirka
Separate, because it's easier to concentrate that way.
01/22/2013
dks210 dks210
Both are good, but it's easier to get off when it's separate.
02/02/2013
FLIPxMODE FLIPxMODE
either
02/02/2013
karenm karenm
I prefer separately because I like to focus on giving or receiving. I have trouble focusing on both.
02/03/2013
dm dm
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
the idea of 69 but separate oral is usually better
02/04/2013
TJtheMadHatter TJtheMadHatter
I like it separate. That way I can look up and see him enjoying it. Plus, when he's going down on me, I can just revel in the pleasure. 69 is great, but as way of mixing it up. Plus, it's easier to slide up someone's body to get a kiss, than flip 180.
03/01/2013
StarrStacked StarrStacked
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
Either, I just wish I got more face than I do currently.
03/03/2013
twelve13 twelve13
Eh. My SO likes it much better than I do. I personally don't like receiving that much.
03/04/2013
ashboo32 ashboo32
Either
03/04/2013
Tom Dogface Tom Dogface
Separate Oral Sex
03/05/2013
Adnerbmw Adnerbmw
Im really odd cause i love cumming when being eaten out but id prefer cumming during penetration so i always try and hold off from cumming, so if i do 69 im not gonna last long cause giving head gets me super aroused and i cant handle the feeling on him going down on me and him in my mouth i dont last more than a few minutes no matter how hard i try. So we typically do oral one at a time but when we do 69 its insane
03/11/2013
ChubbyNerd ChubbyNerd
I haven't tried 69 yet, however I think I would prefer do to it separately anyways.
03/11/2013
A Good Girl A Good Girl
I don't have anything against 69 but we usually do it single
03/11/2013
XxFallenAngelxX XxFallenAngelxX
Separate is better.
03/11/2013
KinkyKatieJames KinkyKatieJames
I like both. 69 is highly erotic since we are both pleasuring each other and feeling pleasure. However, when doing separate, I can focus more. I like to mix it up.
03/16/2013
bootyscoops bootyscoops
I like 69 a lot. We both like tasting each other too much
03/17/2013
Aishiteru Aishiteru
Separate.
03/21/2013
stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
69ing is great, but we usually do oral 1 at a time. 1 of us usually gets distracted to really please the other during 69
03/22/2013
never shy never shy
69 both get and give at the same time
04/26/2013
DreezzyyBabyy DreezzyyBabyy
Either
04/27/2013
Scythe Scythe
Quote:
Originally posted by kellyg
I've done and do both but I personally prefer giving oral/recieving oral seperately. I like the idea of mutual pleasure that comes with 69 but I feel like I am able to do much much more when we aren't in that kind of position. Plus I do get ... More
Separate oral is my preference.
04/30/2013
hmb12 hmb12
I haven't 69'd in a while! Time to try that again.
05/04/2013
Bme Bme
I like the 69 but my wife likes separate oral sex. We compromise but she usually gets her way.
05/04/2013
Rawr4483 Rawr4483
Separate Oral Sex
05/06/2013
ginnyluvspotter ginnyluvspotter
Separate Oral Sex
05/10/2013
RomanticGoth RomanticGoth
Separate. I like giving more than receiving.
05/11/2013
Amaryllis Amaryllis
I prefer to take turns, in this position his nose is in a uncomfortable spot that makes me wanna pass all together
05/11/2013
Castielskitten Castielskitten
Separate. It's harder for us to get into 69 due to our sizes.
05/11/2013
C&K0143 C&K0143
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
My husband and I love both. But 69ing is best after he cums in me. - K
07/24/2013
lana'sart lana'sart
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
either
07/24/2013
lana'sart lana'sart
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
either
07/24/2013
cagypsy cagypsy
I've never done 69 but since I like getting and giving oral I would like to try it one day.
09/29/2013
cmm cmm
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
Always 69. I love it when she is on top of me pressing her pussy into my face.
09/30/2013
Oriental husband and wife Oriental husband and wife
I voted separate. We have done 69 though. Maybe 1 %. I don't like it when he pushes it in deeper than I want.
09/30/2013
Husband and Wife Husband and Wife
First either one is great and will never turn down oral. But nothing is sexier then seeing my wife on her knees going down on me. I also love to service her solo so I can take my time and maybe even throw in a toy or two..
Jan 8, 1:24 pm
bighose bighose
Quote:
Originally posted by AshMegYo
Which suits your fancy??
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Jan 16, 9:20 am
PadoruLover PadoruLover
69. There is just something about giving him pleasure when her is pleasuring me that just turns me on.
Jan 24, 1:26 am
buckaroobanzaii buckaroobanzaii
69 is fun, but I can't focus on getting him off or getting off myself if both are happening at once
Mar 27, 5:14 pm
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