Best starter anal toy

Contributor: olboy olboy
Looking for the best starter anal toy for my wife help me decide...any other ideas comment and let me know
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Contributor: dancingduo dancingduo
Someone else had the same question. Everyone said use a finger then start with a small dildo...plugs are very different than dildos.
04/18/2013
Contributor: Real or memorex Real or memorex
Out of everything you named, the lube. But consider a small plug before getting a dildo.
05/06/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
There have been many post about this in the past. The best advice given have been: lube up, theres really no such thing as too much lube when it comes to anal play because it's such a sensitive area. Start wil a finger, then another, before trying to use any sort of toy. A small plug, such as the Mood Naughty Small Anal Plug, Fun Factories Bootie or the new Fifty Shades of Grey Something forbidden plug. Many of the starter kits available have a bottle of lube along with two different size plugs, one small and a larger one to work up to. Some even come with a set of beads. It depends on what you are looking for, but a good kit may be an idea if you are thinking about wanting to push yourself and kit may be a good idea.
05/06/2013
Contributor: Hallmar82 Hallmar82
I would use a good anal lube (Maximus, Platinum) and start with just your own fingers. Then, you could graduate to soft toys before finally trying more advanced play with hard (glass) toys and anal sex.
05/07/2013
Contributor: giftdgecko giftdgecko
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Originally posted by olboy
Looking for the best starter anal toy for my wife help me decide...any other ideas comment and let me know
lube and a finger
05/08/2013
Contributor: ashboo32 ashboo32
Lube is a must
05/08/2013
Contributor: Mr. E Mr. E
I'll join the others in stating that adequate lube is a top priority ...or a bottom priority in this case.
Butt, since you are asking specifically about a starter anal toy, I'd suggest a silicone butt plug. 1" to 1 1/4" diameter may be a good starting size. Many beginners also prefer a nice taper for easier entry and a defined neck for better retention. Good luck and have fun!
05/09/2013
Contributor: gorgeous gorgeous
I just bought this link as my first anal toy. I have had anal sex before though. A finger would be a great start. This toy looks big when you see it, but the way it tapers, you can put just a little bit in or more if you feel like you can handle it.
05/09/2013
Contributor: bratcat bratcat
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Originally posted by gorgeous
I just bought this link as my first anal toy. I have had anal sex before though. A finger would be a great start. This toy looks big when you see it, but the way it tapers, you can put just a little bit in or more if you feel like you can handle it. ... more
as a personal preference, i would stay away from anything less than TPR/TPE (honestly anything less than silicone, glass or metal), because of the sensitive area you are working with as well as the fact that PVC and other materials will collect bacteria and cannot be sterilized and are always suggested to be used with a condom or toy cover just to ensure some longevity in its use.
While these beaded textures are very nice, and feel pretty great, i would stick with one in more quality material.
05/09/2013
Contributor: dancingduo dancingduo
For beginning I would say a finger...or a "training" plug that is really soft and about the size of a finger.
05/10/2013
Contributor: Gdom Gdom
Lube+fingers, then lube+dildo/plug. Oh, and add more lube. Always.
05/10/2013
Contributor: Ayogirl230 Ayogirl230
fingers to start
05/17/2013
Contributor: vittmsk vittmsk
Lube+fingers first
05/18/2013
Contributor: LoneOokami LoneOokami
Lube and a small plug or fingers
06/09/2013
Contributor: lalalalove lalalalove
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Originally posted by olboy
Looking for the best starter anal toy for my wife help me decide...any other ideas comment and let me know
Lots of lube.
Try a small plug for as long as she can tolerate prior to any anal play, and up the size when she feels like she is ready. If you can't/don't want to use toys, try one small finger (maybe it would be best to let her try this first as women tend to have smaller hands), and work your way up in size and the amount of fingers as she gets used to the feeling.
07/07/2013
Contributor: Trixxxy Trixxxy
A very small beginner buttplug
07/08/2013
Contributor: lalalalove lalalalove
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Originally posted by olboy
Looking for the best starter anal toy for my wife help me decide...any other ideas comment and let me know
Using a plug for a little while before doing anal play can help your muscles get used to being stretched and will definitely help a bit, just use plenty of lube. You can wear the plug as long as you want and up the size when you feel comfortable. For actual penetration, starting with fingers is best, perhaps a pink or pointer finger by itself, then add more or use bigger fingers as desired. Then you can switch to a dildo when you are ready!
07/19/2013
Contributor: SecretKinksters SecretKinksters
Small plug.
07/20/2013
Contributor: calliope calliope
Lubed finger then lubed penis
07/28/2013
Contributor: Thong man Thong man
The Booty is a great starter plug for guys.
07/29/2013
Contributor: HannahPanda HannahPanda
Lube and a starter kit!
07/29/2013
Contributor: DreezzyyBabyy DreezzyyBabyy
Lube
07/30/2013