Deep throat or Anal: Which was a harder act to learn?

Deep throat or Anal: Which was a harder act to learn?

 
 
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0letitgrow 0letitgrow
What took you guys longer to get used to and able to comfortably enjoy ANAL or DEEPTHROATING?
Answers (private voting - your screen name will NOT appear in the results):
77  (22%)
188  (54%)
85  (24%)
Total votes: 350
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01/06/2011
Yoda Yoda
I'm not a woman, but deep-throating has got to be incredibly hard to do. Most people have an involuntary gag reflex, and I'm not sure how on earth you ladies override it.
01/06/2011
Gunsmoke Gunsmoke
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Originally posted by Yoda
I'm not a woman, but deep-throating has got to be incredibly hard to do. Most people have an involuntary gag reflex, and I'm not sure how on earth you ladies override it.
Agree - but most people have an equally adverse reaction to something going 'in the out door'. Both are challenging - but I agree that deep throat is probably harder.
01/06/2011
RemusHalifax RemusHalifax
I almost threw up when I tried to deep throat my boyfriend the other night. I really want to learn how to do it properly because I know he likes it, but oh, my god... It feels icky. >.<
01/06/2011
Oxygen99 Oxygen99
Anal for me. It literally took me years of trying before I was able to be fully penetrated and enjoy it.
01/06/2011
Angel deSanguine Angel deSanguine
Deep throat- still haven't learned it! I really want to learn but hubby's girth makes my jaw crack (gotta love tmj... NOT. :s) on top of having a really bad gag reflex and every time I try I just can't seem to pull it off. If anybody here is good at it I'd love some pointers!
01/06/2011
ZenaidaMacroura ZenaidaMacroura
Anal for me. I have tmj, but it's not too much of a problem during oral usually, and I don't have a strong gag reflex at all. Anal was a lot easier with my ex because he was smaller. With my current boyfriend, it's still difficult almost no matter what I do.
01/06/2011
Redboxbaby Redboxbaby
DT. I am still working on it. Anal was all about state of mind for me.
01/06/2011
Sammi Sammi
(EdenFantasys)
Definitely anal.
01/06/2011
Lucidity Lucidity
DT, anal was second nature to me (but it does take a bit of relaxation). Deep throating involves much more practice in my experience.
01/06/2011
ScottA ScottA
I guess it really depends on what you want to do. I enjoy anal play, so anal relaxation was solved quickly. The several times I've tried to deep throat dildos (on a whim) things haven't worked out well. You've got several reactions to deal with in D.T. also - the body trying to vomit and the difficulty with the object cutting off air.
01/06/2011
Mnemosyne Mnemosyne
I'd have to choose deep throat. Anal was fine for me. Relaxation and proper precautions and lots of lube. !
01/07/2011
lamira lamira
Deep throating was not too difficult for me to learn. But having anal was much more difficult for me to learn. It was and still is hard to learn when it can be quite painful.
01/07/2011
Dusk Dusk
I'm still working on both. My gag reflex is pretty brutal, and I'm claustrophobic so I don't like the feeling of not being in control of my throat and breathing. Anal is just tough because I haven't had enough warm up or practice, and the pain of trying is turning me more and more off.
01/08/2011
potstickers potstickers
I'm still trying to deepthroat, but I had anal before vaginal sex and that was the easiest thing.
01/08/2011
0letitgrow 0letitgrow
Quote:
Originally posted by Lucidity
DT, anal was second nature to me (but it does take a bit of relaxation). Deep throating involves much more practice in my experience.
I think this one put it best for me. I do find the anal difficulties interesting, not having experienced them. For me it was the dt.
01/08/2011
Coralbell Coralbell
I can't deepthroat, although I haven't really tried to so maybe I could with practice. I hate gagging so I just go as far as feels comfortable then don't try to push it any farther. Anal wasn't difficult for me at all. I went from zero anal experience to fingering to anal sex in a couple of minutes.
01/08/2011
SexyTabby SexyTabby
I don't have any deep throat issues so I chose anal. I have to be in the mood for anal but oral is a normal part of our foreplay and I like to deep throat. I have a total oral fixation thing.
01/08/2011
I'll Miss You EF :( I'll Miss You EF :(
Anal. It didn't take me long to learn to DT. I however, still have problems with anal.
01/17/2011
Shellz31 Shellz31
Deepthroating was more difficult.
I took to anal like a duck to water!
01/18/2011
Victoria Victoria
(Doc Johnson)
I think for some people, it's mental and for some people it's anatomical. Certainly seems that way from the answers here so far. For me, it's mostly anatomical. I am fine with DT, but anal is still not fully comfortable.
01/19/2011
CLP CLP
I'm a huge fan of both, but deepthroating takes more concentration. If your partner understands the basics of safe anal, you don't have to worry about it as often as deepthroating.
01/19/2011
sweet seduction sweet seduction
I still can't do anal
01/20/2011
dbtracy dbtracy
Deep throating is only hard if you have a bad gag reflex.
01/24/2011
OliviaKink OliviaKink
I'd say they're hard to compare, as they're pretty much completely different animals, but both get easier if you really want it, and both take lots of practice. Dildos work great in both cases for warm-up and practice!
01/24/2011
IndependentlyHappy IndependentlyHappy
I agree with OliviaKink; this is an interesting question, but when it comes down to it, it's comparing apples and oranges (to use a cliche).

Personally, I didn't have any trouble with anal sex my first time, so I voted for deepthroating.
01/24/2011
MaryA MaryA
For me, giving head at all is difficult because I have a pretty small oral cavity and a VERY strong gag reflex (I can't even swallow pills). Anal is a state of mind for me and is all about how aroused I am, so I really have no difficulty there.
01/24/2011
mama2007 mama2007
Quote:
Originally posted by RemusHalifax
I almost threw up when I tried to deep throat my boyfriend the other night. I really want to learn how to do it properly because I know he likes it, but oh, my god... It feels icky. >.<
very true, i almost gag that bad too sometimes on hubby; been working on it, but my jaw hurts after awhile. i want to do it alot better too
01/25/2011
TheSinDoll TheSinDoll
For me, relaxing is the key to both and once I learned that it was game on.

Anal was a bit harder to handle because there was some actual pain involved and I had to fight through that and coach myself back into that 'relax' mode.

With giving head, I just had to remind myself that I wasn't going to choke to death on cock.
01/27/2011
zeebot zeebot
Helpful tip: smiling suppresses your gag reflex!
01/31/2011
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