Deep throat or Anal: Which was a harder act to learn?

Contributor: turn'emon turn'emon
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Originally posted by 0letitgrow
What took you guys longer to get used to and able to comfortably enjoy ANAL or DEEPTHROATING?
anal is definitely harder, because of the stigma attached to it and also because it's a way different feeling.
05/28/2011
Contributor: ChickRocking ChickRocking
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
What took you guys longer to get used to and able to comfortably enjoy ANAL or DEEPTHROATING?
I voted deep throat. I am really not sure what there is to learn about anal.
Deep throating I would say takes practice so you learn how to take it all in smoothly and without making your gag reflex go crazy.
05/29/2011
Contributor: Bignuf Bignuf
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
What took you guys longer to get used to and able to comfortably enjoy ANAL or DEEPTHROATING?
Ive done anal since twenty years old. No biggie, since it was introduced to me gently and slowly and felt great from the get go. I was already married 20 years (and very GOOD at oral, I may add!!!) before trying the "deep throat" thing. Just tossed my head over the bed one day, and told my hubby, "come here, I want you".
(him standing beside me). By grabbing behind my head and holding his hips and butt, I controlled how deep he went (all the way) and how long he stayed there. It was easier then I thought. Never gagged and since I LOVE to suck him off...it added a wild new dimension for him. Plus he can reach over and have free reign of ALL of me, with his hands and eyes. Very nice addition to love play.
05/29/2011
Contributor: Trillian Trillian
I have only tried anal and never deep throated so it is hard to say.
06/13/2011
Contributor: emiliaa emiliaa
I will never deep throat or receive anal. Both sound absolutely disgusting. :x
06/14/2011
Contributor: Sinfully Sinfully
Still working on deep throat. My gag reflex sucks but I am getting better
06/14/2011
Contributor: Yessi Yessi
deep throat for sure!
06/14/2011
Contributor: Amazonia Dentata Amazonia Dentata
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
What took you guys longer to get used to and able to comfortably enjoy ANAL or DEEPTHROATING?
I gave up on the deep throat thing. "Get used to and comfortably enjoy"? Wow, I can't even get past "body thinks it is dying and violently aborts."
06/21/2011
Contributor: v23 v23
Anal. I have virtually no gag reflex so deep throat isn't that difficult for me. Anal, however, is still an issue.
06/26/2011
Contributor: Rossie Rossie
Deep throat is definitely harder. I don't have too much of a gag problem. The thing that bothers me most is when my husband's penis bumps on my uvula, and make it really dry and scratchy.
06/28/2011
Contributor: curmudgeoncat curmudgeoncat
Deep throating; being able to relax while being choked with a dick was anxiety-inducing the first times I was trying it.
06/29/2011
Contributor: MJ1337 MJ1337
It took me awhile to get used to anal and actually "liking it" instead of just doing it for the sake of my partner. It took YEARS and a different partner to finally find a point where I enjoyed anal. Go figure.
06/30/2011
Contributor: aliceinthehole aliceinthehole
anal took a few partners and a few months with the current one to loosen up to it. we enjoy it now regularly.

we just started trying deep throat when he realized he likes to 'fuck' my throat. it makes me feel like my throat is getting bruised, and i totally vomited last time we tried and swallowed it down. my eyes squirt tears and i cant breathe.

sigh. the things we do for love.




the tips on here (smiling and leaning your head backwards over the edge of a bed) should help. i always heard swallowing when you felt like vomiting is helpful too, though i find it impossible.
06/30/2011
Contributor: salaciousrex salaciousrex
I just kind of went with it and did them both, despite the pain. Didn't try to learn them, and they were both sudden to do. So I guess I didn't exactly learn how to do them. Anal is painful often, but if someone is gentle and there's enough lube it can be nice. And deepthroating for me is fun
07/03/2011
Contributor: Noira Celestia Noira Celestia
Still working on both, I have a horrible gag reflex and trying to get over it has been tough.
07/03/2011
Contributor: Summersong Summersong
Deep throating
07/03/2011
Contributor: mmike mmike
Deep throating, specifically when quick thrusting is involved.
07/15/2011
Contributor: P'Gell P'Gell
It took a while to learn to DT. But, it wasn't difficult for me. I just had to learn how. I don't have much of a gag reflex anymore. Swallowing took me years, however.

My Man trained me how to have anal sex. It took a while, several months of work after literally years of gently trying to talk me into trying it. We took it slowly, found out what worked for us, and now we love it. Why I waited SO long to finally take the plunge, I will never know. My Man said he thinks I was afraid it would hurt or he would tear me. But, he was so gentle and understanding and I was actually in control the first few times completely, that I had nothing to fear.

It never hurt and I never tore. The first time I did bleed a little from anal sex, but there was NO pain. But I had already had 3 kids and had.... hemorrhoids, and I simply think that was the problem. Since then it's been smooth sailing. More lube and making sure I came before we started anal was the key for us. Using a dildo or vibe vaginally also made the first few times much easier. We still almost always perform anal sex with double penetration, because its just more exciting that way.
07/15/2011
Contributor: Miss Anonymous Miss Anonymous
Anal
07/15/2011
Contributor: bayosgirl bayosgirl
Things were easier with my ex because he had a much smaller dick than my husband who is over 8" and thick. I used to be able to deep throat easily and anal was not bad at all. Now, I can barely even give head to my hubby let alone deep throat because I get an instant jaw ache!
07/16/2011
Contributor: lanky lanky
working on both still
07/17/2011
Contributor: northstar northstar
Not really a fan of anal as such, working on DTing. I do know it's all about relaxing and correct positioning to start with, so hopefully will become more natural at some point.
07/18/2011
Contributor: Jess.McCleod Jess.McCleod
Deep throating definitely wins for me. Gave up on that a long time ago!
07/29/2011
Contributor: kinksters kinksters
ahh...the gag reflex. at least you can grow to control your sphincter.
08/04/2011
Contributor: toysforall toysforall
Quote:
Originally posted by 0letitgrow
What took you guys longer to get used to and able to comfortably enjoy ANAL or DEEPTHROATING?
Based on my wifes experience, I would say deep throat. We've done anal, but never deep throat, she gags too easily.
08/10/2011
Contributor: FaerieLove FaerieLove
Deep throating for sure. Anal well that's just all kinds of fun.
08/18/2011
Contributor: Booktease Booktease
Yep. That gag reflex. I don't date men anymore, but I could never get the deep throating down when I did.
08/20/2011
Contributor: Kkay Kkay
Deep-throating. It's harder to get past the gag reflex for me.
08/22/2011
Contributor: Chaotic Rantings Chaotic Rantings
Anally for me. I have been able to deep throat for years but I cant seem to get anal down at all
08/23/2011
Contributor: That Man from Mars That Man from Mars
I don't think anal involves learning really. I guess you have to relax a bit, but there's a huge difference between that and something like deep throating, which actually takes a good deal of learning, trial and error, etc.
09/03/2011