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We have all read how to articles on how to perform sexually. Do these help or frustrate you when they do not work? I found that articles written by people that have actually experienced what they are writing about can help alot, but the general how to's frustrate me when they do not work.
07/10/2011
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El-Jaro El-Jaro
It's why I quit reading Maxim and Cosmo. You'll get a LOT better advice here on the forums.
07/11/2011
Ansley Ansley
Sex and pleasure is different for everyone. That's why when someone posts something on the forum and they're all "How do I make my man cum", we can offer some simple techniques but it's really difficult to know what works until it...well works. You know?

I don't get frustrated if something doesn't work. There's just no point in putting my energy there. I just move onto the next idea or ask what part worked and what didn't.
07/11/2011
sexytileena / absolutely love sex sexytileena / absolutely love sex
Get better and more information from here. Not the edited untrue crap like in magazines.
08/10/2012
TheirPet TheirPet
"Cosmo tip #185
When climaxing, announce your orgasm in the batman voice."

That little gem is going around tumblr right now and made me laugh. But they had a BDSM issue after 50 shades of grey came out that was cringe-worthy with it's advice. It suggested using toilet paper as a restraining device.

The advice here on the forums though is choice excellent.
08/10/2012
caseyb caseyb
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Originally posted by El-Jaro
It's why I quit reading Maxim and Cosmo. You'll get a LOT better advice here on the forums.
agree, womens mags are outdated for todays sexy woman
08/10/2012
Mikemanz Mikemanz
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Originally posted by TheirPet
"Cosmo tip #185
When climaxing, announce your orgasm in the batman voice."

That little gem is going around tumblr right now and made me laugh. But they had a BDSM issue after 50 shades of grey came out that was cringe-worthy with ... More
batman? toilet paper?!?!?!? WTF?
08/10/2012
ToyGeek ToyGeek
Stay away from Cosmo and head right to the blogs, and you'll be fine.
08/11/2012
edeneve edeneve
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Originally posted by js250
We have all read how to articles on how to perform sexually. Do these help or frustrate you when they do not work? I found that articles written by people that have actually experienced what they are writing about can help alot, but the general how ... More
ditto - I need practical how to's w/ proven success or why bother
08/13/2012
goo goo
I think everyone is different in their sexual experiences. I have seen quite a bit of garbage in mags and forums. I just take everything lightly and explore on my own.
08/14/2012
Supervixen Supervixen
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Originally posted by js250
We have all read how to articles on how to perform sexually. Do these help or frustrate you when they do not work? I found that articles written by people that have actually experienced what they are writing about can help alot, but the general how ... More
Cosmo and Maxim are the bane of sexual and relationship how-tos. They are bound to frustrate because they usually don't work, or they make it seem like, "it's so easy!" when it's more likely that it's something that takes practice and patience. I also found Cosmo makes a lot of assumptions about what men want, what women want, what this or that "really means," etc. It just makes people feel like they must be defective if something doesn't work for them, or that they're weird if they like or don't like something that they're "supposed to." Read from the experts, like Violet Blue, talk with open minded friends, check out reputable books, discuss on forums...and of course, trial and error through personal experiences .
08/16/2012
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