We started out as a long-distance relationship, but I still never really dirty-talked. I think I suck at it, everything sounds so porny and contrived, lol. I was perfectly happy to get off just to the sounds of him moaning
Do you find it easy to talk dirty to you partner?
06/26/2011
Ever tried talking dirty in the dark? If the partner can't see you, it can feel less silly.
06/28/2011
Dirty talk is super hot
07/03/2011
In my experience, it depends on how my partner reacts... If I know they enjoy it it's much easier to do than trying to talk dirty to someone who doesn't respond. So it came naturally with some while it felt embarrassing with others.
07/10/2011
Everything I hear comes out wrong to begin with. So me talking dirty is usually easy, but its great amidst the passion-lit-sex to sputter off some dirty words
07/10/2011
I can see it in the heat of the moment. But otherwise, I'm rather shy!
07/10/2011
Yes but it never used to be. When we first got together it was really hard for me to talk during sex. I was just really shy and thought I would say something to screw it up. I'm a lot more comfortable now.
07/10/2011
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I know the feeling.
Originally posted by
deltalima
It's hard for me because I feel shy and ridiculous, like I'm forcing what I'm saying even if I'm not.
07/10/2011
I can't do it, personally. It's really difficult to do it well, without making it completely awkward and weird, lol!
07/10/2011
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exactly
Originally posted by
deltalima
It's hard for me because I feel shy and ridiculous, like I'm forcing what I'm saying even if I'm not.
07/28/2011
love the dirty talk i've never had a problem with my guy
08/04/2011
I don't say a lot and I'm awkward, but I definitely say stuff.
08/04/2011
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we're very comfortable sexually, but talking dirty is just something we've never done.
Originally posted by
Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
08/10/2011
I voted with "sometimes" though when I was dating I never found it easy. I'm like you, it sounds very hot and sexy in my head but when I try to voice them it's like "Come on! Cheesy porn!"
08/15/2011
Sometimes when we really want to stir things up and I have the wife tied up
08/16/2011
It's awkward for me, mostly because I feel like he isn't into it. I even ask him to do it, but he says the same boring old thing EVERY time: "wanna put my big dick inside your tight pussy." Except it sounds like "deeck" because of his accent.. which ends up being funnier than hot (not to mention trite.)
08/16/2011
I'm starting to get better at it, but yes it's hard.
I'm really stoked to be improving though. It's very gratifying.
I'm really stoked to be improving though. It's very gratifying.
08/16/2011
I love talking dirty to my partner.
08/16/2011
It makes me feel odd too. I totally know what you mean
08/20/2011
I think the easiest way to get into something like that is to find out what a person's favourite few words are (everyone has some) and use those, gradually expanding your... sexual vocabulary.
08/21/2011
I'm a writer, and I write my fair share of erotica. Talking dirty feels like an extension of that.
09/03/2011
I feel so silly when I do it, so it's a slow process to gain the confidence to do so.
09/03/2011
I think it's just natural. I absolutely love dirty talk and it's common in the bedroom, if not expected.
09/03/2011
my ex was real hard to talk to
09/04/2011
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I would rather text it than say it. It seems to get my point across and it avoids what you mentioned about sounds good till it comes out. When you write it in a text, you get to see what you wrote and change it if needed.
Originally posted by
Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
This works really good for us, like when were with family, Then we can get the family to watch the kids while we go play. It also nice to get a fewdirty texts while at work, it brightens the day. At least it does for me.
09/16/2011
Myself, it depends on the situation. Sometimes it comes really naturally, and other times I freeze up and just can't get the words out.
I absolutely love love dirty talk, though, and luckily my boyfriend is quite good at it. I do wish he'd take it up a notch at times, though!
You really need to be comfortable with the person, and know what turns each of you on. For us, it's a lot of forceful and really 'raunchy' language, you could say. For others, it may well be different! It's just important to communicate, like anything else.
I absolutely love love dirty talk, though, and luckily my boyfriend is quite good at it. I do wish he'd take it up a notch at times, though!
You really need to be comfortable with the person, and know what turns each of you on. For us, it's a lot of forceful and really 'raunchy' language, you could say. For others, it may well be different! It's just important to communicate, like anything else.
09/18/2011
Poke your toe in the water first. Start with, "oh that's good", and "God you feel wonderful" and get more elaborate as you feel more comfortable.
09/18/2011
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Excellent advice - I've started to do this and I can see it ramping up a bit over time.
Originally posted by
carenautilus
Poke your toe in the water first. Start with, "oh that's good", and "God you feel wonderful" and get more elaborate as you feel more comfortable.
09/18/2011
We both find it very easy to talk dirty to each other.
09/18/2011
We find it pretty easy, fun and exhilarating. I love it when he talks dirty to me.
09/18/2011