Have been in an online relationship for over 3 years. Before that I would never say anything. have become very verbal now
Do you find it easy to talk dirty to you partner?
02/02/2012
sometimes
02/02/2012
I talk dirty but nothing too outrageous. I enjoy listening to him so I return the favor. It doesn't get awkward or anything while we're having sex. Sometimes we joke about it afterwards though, which is fine because we are both comfortable with each other.
02/03/2012
Its my favorite part
02/03/2012
its not our thing
02/06/2012
I hate it, it's not very natural to me at all.
02/14/2012
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Sometimes
Originally posted by
Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
02/16/2012
I need to buck up and find a way to do it more - after 22+ years - now she tells me she'd like it! Why didn't she tell me 10 or 20 years ago?
02/16/2012
I am getting better at it, but I have a really hard time taking it seriously.
02/16/2012
I felt really out of place at first but since I saw how much it turned him on I like it now!
02/16/2012
I love doing it and hearing it.
02/16/2012
Depends entirely on who my partner is.
02/18/2012
My husband is the one who does the talking in the bedroom. I am too busy coming like the little slut I am!
02/18/2012
It eggs my husband on, so I always talk dirty when we fuck. When we make love, it is a huge no no.
02/18/2012
I just let out what I am thinking.
02/18/2012
Find it very hard, everything sounds cheesy and feel like a douche saying it
02/19/2012
Its pretty easy for me but my lady is still a bit shy to talk dirty.
02/21/2012
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I usually don't have a problem, but he gets a little shy. We've had sex completely go cold in the middle of it, after I said "talk dirty to me" and he stopped what he was doing and said "ummm.... I DONT KNOW WHAT TO SAY???!" lol! Good luck!
Originally posted by
Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
02/21/2012
I have to be in the mood to talk dirty, but usually I say just what comes to mind. Even if it does sound silly. He usually LOVES what ever I say when I talk dirty.
Try describing a fantasy (either yours or your partners), narrate what's going on or what you would like for your partner to do, or tell your partner how what is going on feels to you.
Try describing a fantasy (either yours or your partners), narrate what's going on or what you would like for your partner to do, or tell your partner how what is going on feels to you.
02/25/2012
I will occasionally partake in "dirty talk". It is a thing that gets easier to do as time goes on, and more enjoyable
02/25/2012
Sometimes if I'm feeling really dirty it's comfortable, but talking dirty tends to make me a little embarrassed. Maybe I should practice!
02/27/2012
I am a bit shy and was a virgin when my girlfriend and I got together so I have a hard time talking dirty during sex sometimes, even though she likes it when I do. Sometimes I just get in the mood too and something dirty will just come out of my mouth. I'm getting better at it.
02/27/2012
Love dirty talking.
02/28/2012
I find it weird at the beginning but as soon as i am close to orgasm I start spewing the dirtiest things it's crazy, almost uncontrollable! Sex turrets? haha
03/03/2012
Not often. More of the heat of the moment type things are said. Nothing planned that may come out awkward. My girlfriend is the one that says something the majority of time.
03/06/2012
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yes
Originally posted by
Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
03/06/2012
When we first started dating, it was kinda hard to talk dirty but after a while, once you get comfortable it'll get easier. It mostly depends on if you're the type to be vocal during sex. Some people rarely speak during the act, going by instinct and subtle cues alone. Find out what sorta talk your partner likes and vice versa and you both might get into the hang of things.
03/06/2012
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It really depends, if I really want to say something really dirty I sometimes keep it to myself because I'm afraid it might be too much. But usually I just let it rip and he really likes it
Originally posted by
Intrigued
Talking dirty to your partner during sex can be a turn on. Does anyone have any suggestions on how to start. What I want to say seems to sound good in my head, but once the words reach my lips, I feel silly. Help!
03/07/2012
I love the idea of imbibing a bit. I need to be loosened up...just like in karaoke.
03/08/2012
i can, but every once in a while i start saying crazy ridiculous things and laughing hysterically... my boyfriend finds me amusing...
03/09/2012