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Ok the latex thing is well...informative and all. Neither of us are allergic to latex but, I could see myself forming a nice fetish for gloves! Of course we have anal sex and fingering and all of that good stuff all the time. Never once in my
Ok the latex thing is well...informative and all. Neither of us are allergic to latex but, I could see myself forming a nice fetish for gloves! Of course we have anal sex and fingering and all of that good stuff all the time. Never once in my entire life has he every but any of his body parts in my butt and poop has been on it. Like I said I guess I am just extremely clean down there...I don't know.So I thought about it for a day or two and realized that it wouldn't gross me out anyways. Its just poo and its my husband. No big deal. So mostly I guess Im just asking if guys butts are any dirtier than womens? Yes, I know that sounds like a childish question but I was just wondering. I guess the best time to perform my very first fingering of my husband would be after a shower!
It the shower would be nice, or better yet have some good silicone lube and do it in a hot tub. I think cleanliness is really person to person, and not gender to gender, though in general women tend to care for themselves better than the typical male does. Neither of the long term lovers I've had were as clean back there as me, but I think it has to do more with me being extra neat and clean about personal hygiene and a proper diet. My first fiancee actually had dingleberries
and left skid marks on the sheets, but he was a total and complete slob so it really wasn't a surprise (still uber gross though). My husband is pretty neat about his butt, but not totally clean and picky about the rest of his hygiene (like shaving or trimming his nails). While he stays fairly clean, he still sweats a lot down there during the day. Showers are mandatory before butt play in my house, and we use gloves purely to keep everything neat and clean without running to the bathroom to wash up.
Maybe an update on how things went?