first time using toys with partner

Contributor: 504hazeleyes 504hazeleyes
How do you start off using toys with your partner for the 1st time? Would love to introduce it to our sex life but am unsure on the best way to do it.
05/13/2011
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Contributor: GingerAnn GingerAnn
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Contributor: married with children married with children
go shopping for a toy together. you two can both decide on a toy together.
05/14/2011
Contributor: SamsDelight SamsDelight
With my guy I would ask him questions about using fantasy play first. Just to see what he was into and how open he was. You have to feel the guy out and do not jump in with let me show you everything I have been collecting in my toy box. The best thing is that the more time goes by the more comfortable you both get, and this means more options for play in the bedroom.
05/14/2011
Contributor: Ke Ke
When my hubby and I first started using toys we found it was easiest if one of us picked out 4 or 5 we were interested in trying and then asked the other's opinion on which to get. We love EdenFantasys for that reason because we do have children and going shopping together is not an option. Good luck!
05/27/2011
Contributor: stlouisxxx stlouisxxx
Like others have stated many guys might be imitated by toys at 1st. A clit vibe might be the safest toy to introduce, as it wouldn't be a replacement for him.

If you have a toy make comments when he isn't there like I'm soooo horny, &/or my fingers just didnt' get me off. Possibly lean against the washing machine & enjoy the vibrations it gives off.

He might also be asking the same question, how can I get my gal to enjoy toys. I enjoy using dildos & glass toys on my girlfriend. It is the fantasy of her being penetrated while she is giving me a bj.
05/27/2011